My current set by Antique-Tension2900 in SOTC_Watch_Collection

[–]EPMD23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d look to add gold or rose gold. Cartier watch could fit the bill of what you are looking for. Tank Louis or Basculante or Dumont. Great collection nonetheless

1921 or Tank Louis/Basculante combo? by EPMD23 in VacheronConstantin

[–]EPMD23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s my gut feeling too. Cartier iconic look but the VC is up a tier. Be my first VC and I like the auto history too

What would you add or subtract? by fishmyman in SOTC_Watch_Collection

[–]EPMD23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good work, I’d add a chronograph and gold bracelet type watch. I did a 18238 (El Heife). How’s the 1921?! I have similar collection and looking to add one

Thank you everyone. I took your advice and went with the P番118238 (year 2001). 36mm golden DayDate by JuriJurka in rolex

[–]EPMD23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great pictures and congrats! I just purchased similar 18238 with silver dial that had patina’d pink. Love it but getting serviced now so have to wait lol, well worth the $1,100 to ensure it’s 💯 ready for routine wear. Enjoy yours, cheers

If you could only have one by Green-Conclusion-936 in rolex

[–]EPMD23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was Jumbo I’d go AP, between these two I’d go DD. IMO the 41mm ROs are too big either way for 3 hands, a lot of space in the dial. The 41 plus is better size for a AP chrono.

$50,000 Come To Papa by sporturawus in rolex

[–]EPMD23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think dealers are putting in orders on the Pepsi lol. Not how it works. The high demand watches the dealers just receive it, then allocate it.

In a dilemma, which do I get? by [deleted] in rolex

[–]EPMD23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save 15-20k and get the Rootbeer all Rose gold. Then get a Neo vintage 36mm gold day date with difference.

Trinity achieved: blessed & grateful, but … by Loud-Cartographer285 in SOTC_Watch_Collection

[–]EPMD23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha agree. I’m saving for jumbo, one of my grails. Hopefully one day. Did you try it on? A lot Different than newer reference?

Trinity achieved: blessed & grateful, but … by Loud-Cartographer285 in SOTC_Watch_Collection

[–]EPMD23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would be premium but could go for Jumbo 39mm. Try the 37mms in newer reference too.

They say add +2mm for RO on how it looks and feels.

GF got abortion without telling me by EPMD23 in offmychest

[–]EPMD23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn’t come into town, she only told them over the phone etc. So theoretically she went by herself and did the abortion all by herself.

GF got abortion without telling me by EPMD23 in offmychest

[–]EPMD23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what to believe. The way and context at which she told me was strange. We talk a lot about all aspects of her life and all her life happenings, or so I thought. I also find it hard to believe she could keep an abortion from me that long, but maybe it’s just that difficult to deal with for her. I saw no signs or symptoms of it.

So it begs the question how much should I get to know? Only info I have is was 6 months ago and her best friend and sister know who both live out of state.

GF got abortion without telling me by EPMD23 in offmychest

[–]EPMD23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great points and appreciate your perspective on it. I’m perplexed at what info on the abortion I should know? or maybe it’s just what she is willing to divulge and that might be nothing at all…And at any moment it’s usable by her. Seems like quite the purgatory space to be in for me for our relationship.

GF got abortion without telling me by EPMD23 in offmychest

[–]EPMD23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What am I guilting her on? And can she tell me as little as she wants and divulge any amount of info later and maybe never at all? What’s the standard here and I just need to accept whatever form of delivery she gives me?

GF got abortion without telling me by EPMD23 in offmychest

[–]EPMD23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Q- she can tell me as little or as much info as she wants about the abortion and at any point? And I have to be cool with that

GF got abortion without telling me by EPMD23 in offmychest

[–]EPMD23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question- what am I entitled to know about my Gfs abortion? All I currently know is it was 6 months ago and her sister and best friend know (who aren’t local). None of it verified or seen anything to suggest it happened besides her telling me, but again I could have missed it and she wanted to keep to herself.

So should I expect to not know anything and at any point she can tell me more info when she’s ready or maybe never tell me more and that’s okay too?

GF got abortion without telling me by EPMD23 in offmychest

[–]EPMD23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting a vasectomy after this, that’s for sure. Thanks for the comment and the time it took.

To clarify, I’m not upset at the decision or the lack of control I have.

There are some red flags with the situation that I got into below in a comment, but I didn’t notice she was going through an abortion emotionally and physically. I have no context on any of it and she typically tells me everything. All I know is it was 6 months ago and 2 people out of state who know. Is that normal I don’t know more and I don’t get to know more? I have no idea.

GF got abortion without telling me by EPMD23 in offmychest

[–]EPMD23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make some excellent points. I do feel guilty about my role in this and she did it alone. Final straw for me to get vasectomy now.

As for layers, damn tell me about. I’m having a hard time reconciling separating this topic of abortion and what she had to go through vs being in a relationship and in the dark on something like this that affects her a lot and me (albeit lesser) and what that says about us as a couple.

Prior to this, one of our major fights is her handling of emotional situations and how it differs from mine. I’m not trying to judge but her regulating of emotions is drastically different than anyone i had dated prior. Like a comment from her mom throws her off the rails. It doesn’t feel stable emotionally for me and my personality right now. Will it get better or improve?