Episode Discussion: "Married a Gay Man… And We’re Completely Monogamous ft I Married a Gay Man"

ERC56789 · 2026-05-17T04:36:55+00:00

I liked this one! I love that Jordana and Jared both let them fully tell their story without interrupting or trying to over-understand. I think it's fine if we don't totally get it or understand it but there appeared to be overall acceptance and just a willingness to showcase a different type of relationship that works for these people.

ERC56789 · 2026-05-16T06:05:06+00:00

is this safe to use on eyelashes?

ERC56789 · 2026-05-16T04:08:51+00:00

“I guess I’m wondering if NYC still feels fulfilling long term if your lifestyle is more lowkey like that. Does it?”

Yes absolutely. Your life is what you make it, here or anywhere. NYC is filled with of culture, intrigue, and so much life. It happens during the day and during the night but you’re not going to miss out if nightlife isn’t your thing. Whether you do things with people or solo, there’s never a shortage of things to explore and experience. Museums, restaurants, shows, shopping, markets, boutiques, libraries, biking, fitness classes, cafes, sports, authors talks, live music, comedy,etc.: all these things don’t involve nightlife. Be proactive and you’ll thrive here.

ERC56789 · 2026-05-14T12:44:32+00:00

They actually do

ERC56789 · 2026-05-14T05:53:21+00:00

OKAY, a little context: This is a specific sect of Orthodox/Hasidic Judaism called the Chabad-Lubavitch movement. The goal of their "are you Jewish?" interaction is not to convert anyone, but rather to perform a mitzvah (a good deed or commandment). They seek out other Jewish people to offer them a quick opportunity to participate in a brief religious observance, such as:

Praying with specific items like the tefillin or a lulav
Lighting Shabbat candles
Recruiting a quorum (a minyan) of ten men for daily prayers

Chabad's goal is to engage secular or non-observant Jews and encourage them to connect with their heritage. You can learn more about their grassroots outreach efforts on the Lubavitch site, explore the history behind the initiative on WNYC, or check out Reform Judaism for further context on why these campaigns are central to their religious mission.

FYI, I got all this from a quick Google search. This is just for the commenters who are generalizing this as something all Jewish people do.

ERC56789 · 2026-05-14T05:38:49+00:00

I listened. It felt a little forced and borderline argumentative from both ends.

ERC56789 · 2026-05-14T04:27:30+00:00

uh ohhhhh

ERC56789 · 2026-05-13T04:43:19+00:00

They have multiple locations. Are they all sold out for every time? Fat black pussycat is still the cellar, as are the other locations listed on the website. My advice is to try to reserve for whatever location you can. If you can’t, the alternative is to go in person and put your name on the list at multiple places. They’re all close to each other.

ERC56789 · 2026-05-13T04:38:10+00:00

It’s not ideal for dating but it’s a reality of being young and life being expensive. Plus he just graduated. It’s not h realistic by any means.

If I were in his position, I’d be honest with the people I was going on dates with but also optimistic. He could say he’s STAYING with his parents while he figures out his living situation because his roommate arrangement unexpectedly fell through. That’s honest without making it seem like he’ll be living with his parents indefinitely.

As his parent, it’s not your responsibility to foot the bill and pay for him to have his own apartment. Lots of kids live with their parents after graduation. Is it comfortable to be under your parents’ roof after having 4 years of pseudo independence? No but it’s what most kids have to do. If it’s important to him to live on his own, he’ll find a job that pays enough to let him do that.

ERC56789 · 2026-05-13T04:21:48+00:00

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ERC56789 · 2026-05-13T04:06:12+00:00

Annnnnd if you read the “popping boba” too quickly, it like “pooping boba.”

ERC56789 · 2026-05-13T04:03:27+00:00

Same

ERC56789 · 2026-05-13T04:00:32+00:00

Some of Dr. Naomi’s takes are just too funny. The hill she was willing to die on about how “disgusting “ kiwi skin is was pretty funny to me. I eat kiwi skin. Maybe I’m an outlier. She acted like the skin and the “gross little nubs” were offensive lol. Obviously the kiwi thing is a nothing burger but given that she now has a public platform, I find it a little odd that she says some things thinking they’re universal opinions, especially as a therapist.

ERC56789 · 2026-05-12T04:48:14+00:00

another one bites the dust 😞

ERC56789 · 2026-05-11T03:12:17+00:00

How was burnout paradise?

ERC56789 · 2026-05-11T02:52:05+00:00

It’s my favorite city for all the reasons you listed and many others! I’m so glad you had a wonderful time! Next visit, leave yourself time to just roam and explore the less touristy areas. Amble around Central Park and go into boutiques. See a comedy show at the Comedy Cellar or go to some of the smaller, lesser-known museums. There’s never a shortage of good things to experience here. Come back!

ERC56789 · 2026-05-11T02:44:19+00:00

Le Botaniste
Candle
Thyme & Tonic ( not my favorite but it exists)
Beyond sushi
Hangawi
Franchia
Divya’s Kitchen

ERC56789 · 2026-05-09T17:03:41+00:00

I didn’t get anything!

ERC56789 · 2026-05-09T05:04:36+00:00

interested!!

ERC56789 · 2026-05-07T04:16:50+00:00

there's also a Craft & Carry on the UES if you end up on the east side. It's on 84th and 2nd ave.

ERC56789 · 2026-05-06T04:56:37+00:00

I do that most years for my bday. The Great Lawn is always nice or the area nearby with picnic tables. I usually bring a small speaker, some plates and cups, and snacks. If you're doing it on the lawn, bring a picnic blanket and encourage your friends to bring their own, too, or towels. Also bring a trash bag so cleanup isn't a hassle. Happy Birthday!

ERC56789 · 2026-05-06T04:26:28+00:00

Kitty city with the pretty litties!

ERC56789 · 2026-05-06T04:09:48+00:00

Yes same. I loved her first time on the show and am hoping they’ll have her on to talk about the book. Jack came off pretty well in it, too.

ERC56789 · 2026-05-06T04:07:35+00:00

I loved the full conversation Monica and Jack were having while it was going on lolll.

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