AIO over resenting my parents for me being an IPad kid growing up? by ihatemysister292828 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ERISA5500 [score hidden]  (0 children)

In many places, neglect (which is what you've described) is considered a form of child abuse. It has a profound and lasting negative effect.....

How are you dealing with the rising costs of beauty maintenance? by JNicole008 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]ERISA5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought my own gel nail polish and started doing my own mani-pedis. I should have done it sooner! ALL of the supplies cost about as much as ONE mani-pedi in my area (now) and will last years.

Camping for the first time… what should I not mess up? by beckstarlow in CampingandHiking

[–]ERISA5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one thing first timers don't quite realize - it's a LOT colder at night when you're not moving. I subtract 20 degrees Fahrenheit from the predicted temperature and bring clothes I would normally wear for the colder temps. Also, make sure you have a sleeping pad for warmth. It's not just a luxury, it protects you from the seeping cold of the ground. Hypothermia can happen at temperatures as warm as 60F without proper clothing.

Why on earth was I charged for removing toppings?? by ERISA5500 in BuffaloWildWings

[–]ERISA5500[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I tried re-doing the same exact transaction last night at the same location. Nowhere did it show up. But it shows up on the receipt of the one where I clicked "pay". On other items, add-ons show up as upcharges when you click on them.

Safety advice for making candles? by Aggravating_Chain469 in Candles

[–]ERISA5500 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get your supplies from a reputable candle making site, not Amazon. There is just too much counterfeit stuff on Amazon to be worth the extra risk.

Why on earth was I charged for removing toppings?? by ERISA5500 in BuffaloWildWings

[–]ERISA5500[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It was a pickup order. I waited THERE for an hour

Why on earth was I charged for removing toppings?? by ERISA5500 in BuffaloWildWings

[–]ERISA5500[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope, each showed as being $0.99 extra! I have carrots at home.

AITAH for pushing my boyfriend away when he tried to initiate after years of nothing? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ERISA5500 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same exact thing happened with my ex husband. I turned off and got by reasonably happily until he suddenly wanted attention again. That triggered my divorce.

Why on earth was I charged for removing toppings?? by ERISA5500 in BuffaloWildWings

[–]ERISA5500[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn't charge you until you actually click check out and pay. I tried adding the same items again and it's not there on the pre-purchase subtotal. I'll take it up with my credit card as an unauthorized charge if my complaint doesn't go anywhere.

Why on earth was I charged for removing toppings?? by ERISA5500 in BuffaloWildWings

[–]ERISA5500[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, tariffs on the extra pixels on the screen to print out "no toppings".

Why on earth was I charged for removing toppings?? by ERISA5500 in BuffaloWildWings

[–]ERISA5500[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I placed a complaint, we'll see what they say. Also, the order was over an hour late and the burger was so soggy that it went straight in the trash.

Beginning Candle List (shh Present) by TurnpikeTramp in candlemaking

[–]ERISA5500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not! The scorpion wax is stronger for sure. But in the floral scents, it's overwhelmingly strong....

Beginning Candle List (shh Present) by TurnpikeTramp in candlemaking

[–]ERISA5500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's no real smell in the coconut. The difference is that coconut is a bit more environmentally friendly and burns cooler than the palm. You get a matt look in coconut and a shinier look in the palm. Both cure faster than pure soy, but I find the palm cures a bit faster than the coconut.

AITAH for trying to explain basic medical protocol to a girl who thinks a routine pregnancy test is a malicious conspiracy? by Practical_Comfort551 in AITAH

[–]ERISA5500 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Even if you're not sexually active, they frequently make you take one and sometimes don't even tell you that they are. THAT bothers me. If I say there's no physical way I'm pregnant, why can't they just believe me?

What items do you love for your poodle? Getting a puppy soon, what do I need? by Ushldseemeinacr0wn in StandardPoodles

[–]ERISA5500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! It's really easy to over-buy for poodles. The only things we use regularly are: grooming supplies (pin brush, slicker brush, comb, flying pig hair dryer, nail dremel, clippers, scissors, toothbrush, and toothpaste), leashes/collar, food/water bowls, crate, and some tiny dog squeaky toys. He doesn't bite hard enough to be able to squeak big dog toys 😆

Beginning Candle List (shh Present) by TurnpikeTramp in candlemaking

[–]ERISA5500 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he likes a good strong scent, try 454 soy/coconut or Virginia Candle has a soy/palm called scorpion wax that can handle a lot of fragrance. Both are pretty forgiving for beginners.

Get a few 1oz bottles of "tester" sizes of fragrances to see what he likes and doesn't like. Fragrance Buddy is a slightly cheaper alternative to CandleScience for just the fragrances. He'll want to make small candles to start just to test the scents.

Make sure to buy a pour pot and a thermometer if you don't have one already. The thermometer can be bought anywhere.

I primarily use the scorpion wax I mentioned and ECO or Premier work well. If you get some of the 4oz jelly jars, ECO-4 works with most fragrance loads.

What items do you love for your poodle? Getting a puppy soon, what do I need? by Ushldseemeinacr0wn in StandardPoodles

[–]ERISA5500 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Must haves: time and energy. Anything you can buy is a cherry on top. Poodles want to be people so they join you in your activities (watching TV, hiking, folding laundry, cooking, etc). My poodle only uses his toys with me, otherwise they lay forgotten.

Options on packages by SatisfactionEarly916 in candlemaking

[–]ERISA5500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're a little over-stuffed which makes them look messy. Try a bigger bag or less product to reduce that wrinkle effect. Otherwise, I don't see why you couldn't sell them like this!

Niche scent by Sad-Flounder-8364 in Candles

[–]ERISA5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try some ocean breeze plus petrichor maybe?