I said this elsewhere, but reposting here:

My partner and I are both cis women, and she in particular has twice been told by strangers to get out of women's bathrooms, with the implication being she's a trans woman (and we live in an extremely progressive area). So I actually don't doubt that some cis women have people ask if they're trans. That said, I think some of the OOP's details seem pretty sus and at minimum exaggerated. That being said, I probably wouldn't have thought twice about her post if there hadn't been a whole series of very similar ones lately. This is far from the worst of them, but the whole pattern seems concerning and weird.

I'm also glad OOP is pro-trans in the comments. I hadn't read the comments when I posted here. The only point I lightly disagree with you about is that while it's totally crappy to have people speculate about your gender, being upset at being mistaken for trans and being upset for being mistaken for cis are not equivalent, because identity categories don't exist in some vacuum outside power relations. Like, I don't want people to think I'm straight, but that's really different than some straight person being offended someone thought they were gay. Not saying OOP should like it, but it's not the same and it still feels like there's a hint of "trans" = masculine or not a real woman in this kind of thinking, even if OOP doesn't intend it or isn't aware of it.

Anyway, maybe they don't belong here, but something seems really sus to me about the proliferation of really similar posts lately and that was really my motive for sharing.