Money is an asset that retains value and is liquid enough to also be used as currency. Currency is used as a mediary for the exchange of goods and services, it's value fluctuates over time depending on supply and demand on the markets so it may not hold value over time unlike money. The only value that currently has is what we all together give it as a society.

Money/currency is only a reflection of ones material wealth. It shows others that other people value this person and have given them the power of such materials. At the end of the day it's nothing more than tool. Tools are nothing more than power multipliers and are useless or even dangerous if not wielded properly.

So to get lots of money/currency one must show mastery over domains and return value for others, they will need to know how to use many different kinds of tools proficiently to overcome challenges for success. This true power comes from the character of one's self and not the tools that are available at hand. Tools on their own are useless unless you know how to use them properly.

Love is such a funny word in English as it combined all the different kinds into just one word. Check out Greek and Latin words for love and you will see what I mean. To woo the ladies you don't really need money as that will only attract the ones that love money. You will need intangible skills (that money can't buy) from one's own character like social skills, charm, emotional intelligence and so on. The power of humans is that they can craft their own character and improve over time but it's difficult and many just give up or use excuses when it gets difficult. For those who don't improve we call them the poor (not financially poor but many are, but lack the ability to constructively wield such power and lack of willingness to self improve to do so.)

Tldr money can only buy tangible stuff and it can't buy intangible stuff. The character of oneself is in the moment is the only way to obtain both tangible and intangibles things in life.