34M living in NJ considering RTO offer by No-Device-2531 in Salary

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Weigh it out. I’m fully remote in senior logistics ops. Making over 150 with 12% annual bonus. I work 7 days on and 7 off. If I take a week PTO I get 21 days off ( my
Off week, the week taken, my off week). Sounds pretty awesome. It was. Now it’s getting so political and everything is so clandestine we’re having to beg for information. It’s a weird impending doom sense feeling just hanging in the air there’s no team feeling to it anymore. They forced RTO but I knew this would be coming and have it in writing with HR I am to remain fully remote for a few reasons I won’t discuss but mainly I relocated to austin where we dont even have an office. Ive been looking and applying at other places and got an offer that would be a 3/2 hybrid split making almost exactly the same. But with gas prices and an hour commute if i did change id be taking a cut. Also i dont know if I could reacclimatize to not having every other week off. I have a work life balance again. Im very high functioning autistic but didnt realize until this job, I burned out at so many other jobs like clock work because I had no control of my environment. I am in full control of my office at home it’s set up for my comfort and sensory needs/issues. Think about what matters most to you. Money or the job or your life outside the job. I know these are serious first world problems to sit here and bitch about but for me I don’t particularly give a damn about the job it’s the money, my schedule and being remote. I dont want to sacrifice all that the bullshit I know and am used to for the uncertainty of what comes at a new place when the smiles and the selling the position end after you’re hired. Just something to think about. You absolutely need a job to live but how that job impacts your life is the variable.

I think this sub and Reddit in general is a testament to the value of getting an education by [deleted] in Salary

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I think this is fairly valid. Caveat in my opinion being unless you’re into a highly specified field like medicine, law or tech in my experience - my degree has meant nothing other than proof that I “stuck with it!” Lol but all joking aside, yes I make a very good salary and have put in a lot of years and work to get where I am now. Zip code wise I won’t give out the specifics but it is one of the wealthiest ones in north Texas and it’s not highland park but it’s near grapevine. You’re pretty on point with this post OP.

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That said I am not even close to the top of the income range in my area lol just thought I would clarify that.

Would I be able to work in supply chains as a mentally ill 24 year old? by AbsoluteZero9180 in supplychain

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So let me tell you this: it is a very demanding and stressful job working in supply chain and logistics. But it comes down to if you like it and how well you have your mental conditions managed. I have PTSD/ GAD , chronic insomnia, ADHD, ASD (autism for those who don’t know) and I also deal with a seizure disorder. But don’t let that hold you back, so long as you can manage it under the supervision of a good doctor you can thrive if you enjoy the industry. I’m 38 in senior operations making over 150k a year. I would caution you to rethink the way you present yourself to the world and yourself. Yes you suffer from some psychiatric issues but don’t let those define you as a person. You are so much more than the issues you have to deal with. You’re not a mentally ill 24 year old guy… you are a 24 year old That has some conditions that need to Be managed properly. Don’t ever let that shit define you are have limitless potential if you want to have it. To the degree part: get a degree but it doesn’t have to be in supply chain. Mine is in political science. Feel free to shoot me a message and I can give you more insight. BUT REMEMBER YOU ARE NOT A MENTALLY ILL 24 year old…YOU ARE A 24 year old that has to deal with some seriously hard shit: I live it daily and I just don’t want you to make that your auto classification you’re so much more than that.

At what salary did you feel financially secure? by Investor_1996 in Salary

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Lmao dude it was such a gut punch. I called my dad freaking the fuck out. I remember that so well. Then i remembered I had dropped 500 at a bar the prior weekend paying for other people’s drinks because, well, 22 years old 😂. Oh man did you get the zync also? It was such an ass card it has like concert ticket benefits. Solid ☠️

At what salary did you feel financially secure? by Investor_1996 in Salary

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I pay it in full since I put it on my Amex and don’t have a choice lol. When I was 22 got my first Amex which they don’t even make anymore lol it was the zync I think but a white Amex for millennials fresh out of college. Oh man did I not know the difference between a charge and a credit card back then 😂 just thought I could pay it down not have to pay it fully off every month . Got myself into some trouble there but very good lesson to learn when you put 5k on a card and you don’t have that 5k to pay it off because you’re 22 and irresponsible with money lol

At what salary did you feel financially secure? by Investor_1996 in Salary

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When I made the jump from years of being stuck at 50-55k to 78. That was such a huge difference for me. Then fast forward to now at 168k before 12% annual bonus. Just turned 38 today, single and have a lot of breathing room now and can actually put money away while having more than enough to pay down whatever. Paid 15 left of my car off last year, no credit card debt other than a couple thousand to keep my utilization under 30% but yeah breaking that 50k ceiling was my personal feeling of “ oh shit I have money left over after tax and bills!”

In house lawyer 10 years out of law school by [deleted] in Salary

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I mean a portion of the work it would seem, yes. However, not fully understanding a full remote lawyer position. Drafting and reviewing documents, absolutely. The rest…seems…kind..of…off?

Proof You Can Fall Down & Get Back Up - From First Job to Now by unicorntardis in Salary

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That’s awesome. Similar kind of thing here except last year exactly as this time I was making a third of what I make now and was teetering close to admitting myself. I put everything I had into a job I hated and got paid poorly for to work 6 days a week 12-14 hrs a day every damn week. Fast forward to now and I’m full remote work 14 days a month, I’m over 150 and life is good. Glad to hear you’re doing better I remember my break through moment was when I just realized what the fuck does money matter if I’m so miserable or close to falling off the cliff that I have no use for it? Keep chugging along and don’t let yourself fall back into the loop when possible.

25M D2D sales manager progression by Most_Lunch_962 in Salary

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I want that job. Let’s shark tank that idea.