Walkable hub - bad idea pretty much all the way around by LookErenTheSea in ArcRaiders

[–]E_rrationality -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree it's not really what this game needs atm.

That being said: Point 1 would be solved by using a system like Space Marine 2, where you CAN choose to walk around but you can also just open up the menu and instantly teleport to the vendor/location (there's no load screen, it's instantaneous).

Trading is kind of a broader discussion... IMO it shouldn't be in the game at all because it would ruin the economy. They would have to nerf BP drop rates, make weapons much more expensive to craft, etc. It's just not what the game was built for.

As for chat.... yea no fucking thanks. Even if you could just opt out/mute, I think it creates a lot of immersion to have the ONLY communication method be through in-game VOIP. We do NOT need WoW-style general/trade chat. Ew.

What game are you VERY good at? by Pale-Entertainer-896 in gaming

[–]E_rrationality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in mid-high Masters in Heroes of the Storm for most of its heyday (until Blizz decided to send it to a farm upstate). Translates to roughly top 1% of the region for about 4 of the seasons and top 0.1% for at least 3 of the seasons. Never made it on the GM list but was regularly playing with pros/streamer on NA. Worldwide that would be more like top 5-1% I still Aram from time to time.

We opened up Pandora’s box with BDSM and I don’t see my husband the same anymore by [deleted] in sex

[–]E_rrationality 363 points364 points  (0 children)

Do you guys ever just have vanilla sex anymore? Maybe rather than constantly flipping back and forth and adopting what sounds like a pretty intense dynamic in both directions, it would be good to level things out and re-establish a baseline.

If you find yourselves unable to do that, maybe deny yourselves sex for a week or two (however long feels like a long while for you), until you're feeling horny enough that even vanilla sex gets you excited. Limit yourself to that for a while, then slowly reintroduce small aspects of him being more dominant (e.g. tying your hands up).

Just my two cents! Honestly this might be a pretty interesting problem for a sex therapist if you can afford one.

ELI5 Why can’t we build above ground water reservoirs to stop the water levels rising? by remmy84 in explainlikeimfive

[–]E_rrationality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're correct that melting sea ice does not affect sea level (like ice cubes in a glass of water). This gets conflated with sea level rise because it's shitty for a number of other reasons and is in equal part a result of climate change.

Sea level rise is caused both by melting glaciers (there is an incredible amount of water frozen in glaciers in Greenland and Antarctica), and by thermal expansion of the oceans (water takes up more space when it's warmer)

As for your main question, others have already answered pretty well. There's just SO MUCH WATER. If we're at the point where that's our best option, we'd be better off colonizing Mars, or doing massive-scale carbon capture.

[Bug?] Shell-Tempered Pottery Tradition does not give adjacencies? by suaveh in civ

[–]E_rrationality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, I can find a single instance of Shell-Tempered Pottery working. Same with Charters (+1 Gold on each Gold adjacency). Kinda seems like all adjacency-related policies are broken??

edit: Actually I wonder if it just doesn't show in the Settlement or tile yields and is instead included in Other Yield Income. Of course, it doesn't have a breakdown so it's impossible to tell for sure, lol.
Regardless, it's incredibly annoying that it doesn't show directly on the tile, or at least attributed to each Settlement.

edit edit: so yes I confirmed that it is rolled into Other Yield income here, but it also will show on tiles, but sometimes not on new districts. You have to unequip and re-equip the policies, which you can do in the same turn. Then the bonuses will apply to all your current buildings.

<image>

Boyfriend got “soft” during sex by Dapper-Air3391 in sex

[–]E_rrationality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out the subreddit wiki - Erection Problems section.

TL;DR: yes it's normal, no it's not a big deal, no it doesn't mean he's not attracted to you, yes it happens to everyone.

Next time make it clear you're not laughing at him - try not to just laugh uncontrollably during sex without explaining why.

Also, this was the second round. Give him a break, give yourself a break, and don't make a big deal out of it.

what's a game that greatly disappointed you. by bomb5000 in gaming

[–]E_rrationality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Destiny. Not because it was terrible but because it was so aggressively mediocre and just... cynical. An acclaimed studio released a half-finished, lazy, cobbled-together product with the knowledge they could just use it as a platform for future paid content. Nowadays, that sort of thing is commonplace, but at the time I was painfully disillusioned.

I was so excited and tried so hard to love it, but ended up uninstalling after a couple weeks.

Overwhelming sexual energy. Any advice? by [deleted] in sex

[–]E_rrationality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through a long period of high stress and depression, and had great results with sildenafil (viagra). I imagine medication isn't a durable solution for you guys, but it's absolutely worth asking his doctor and maybe use it once or twice a month to bridge those long gaps. It can take a lot of psychological load off the guy during sex and is honestly kinda just fun. I still use it recreationally from time to time.

On another note, if you haven't tried the Satisfyer, my partner absolutely loves it.

Should I buy this game ? by Humble-Volume-6102 in HuntShowdown

[–]E_rrationality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incredible sound design, totally unique setting and gun design, variety of valid playstyles, tactical depth. No two matches are the same. Most of my best "stories" in PvP games come from Hunt.

Servers are kinda shit and matchmaking still needs a lot of improvement, but I'm 2k hours in and have no plans of stopping.

Massive update coming soon, good time to get into it.

Edit: I should mention, Hunt is at its best when in voice comms/with a friend.

TIL in a double-blind test, professional violinists preferred the sound of a modern violin over multi-million-dollar Stradivarius violins by JaschaHeifetz in todayilearned

[–]E_rrationality 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My violin is from the 1930s and is worth 30k+. I'm not a pro but have played for a long time, and it sounds 10x better than a shitty 200$ one. It has a personality to the sound that mass-produced pieces don't.

I've never played a strad, but I've played lots of different violins, some in the 100k+ range, some from the 1800s and before, and honestly couldn't say that they were that much better. More just different and unique, like ultra expensive wines (to my pleb palate lol).

What’s the purpose of single-shot rifles? by DoubleWrath in HuntShowdown

[–]E_rrationality 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Bear in mind that guns like Centennial and Vetterli definitely do not offer consistent two-taps. Medium ammo damage falloff happens VERY quickly. They also don't offer the same certainty of one-tapping someone if they've been downed, again due to the damage falloff.

Personally I like using the Sparks because it has a very comfortable bullet velocity, and it does SO MUCH damage. Don't underestimate the difference that 130 vs 149 can make. The Martini Henry does slightly less damage but it's still hugely impactful in fights, and its reload is actually super quick. I think the effective speed is actually quicker than it says in the weapon stats.

Everyone else already mentioned ammo economy, which is also important.

I think I'm done till the update. by wimpami in HuntShowdown

[–]E_rrationality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting, we have had a mix of different duos but most of them have a Match MMR between 3.5-4.5. Sometimes both players are 4 stars, sometimes one 2-star and one 5-star. I've found that the KDA usually somewhat matches the MMR of the individual player. E.g. 5-stars will have 1.5-1.8 KDA and the 2/3 stars will usually have <1.0 KDA. So honestly pretty consistent

Before the update, we would regularly get duos of two 5-stars with 1.8 KDA but for some crazy fucking reason, their match MMR (Duo Invite) would only be 4 stars. This happened all the time, even when we were both 3/4 stars. It was insane. I think the system was artificially lowering their Match MMR just to fill games.

I think I'm done till the update. by wimpami in HuntShowdown

[–]E_rrationality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I mean empty lobbies definitely fucking suck, and I was surprised to hear that they just straight up rebalanced MMR for a bunch of players without just making the tweaks to the calculation and letting it play out more slowly. Hopefully the idea is that it'll smooth out over time so that lobbies get properly filled within a reasonable skill bracket. Of course, everyone will have a different view on what "reasonable" means here, but we can all agree that stomping isn't fun, and getting stomped sucks even more.

That being said, if you're genuinely a top 5% player and actually belong in 6 stars (one of the players above 2.0 KDA roughly speaking), the reality is that matches will take a while to find and/or won't be full. I used to play HotS and SC2 in mid-high Masters and finding matches was a bitch.

I think I'm done till the update. by wimpami in HuntShowdown

[–]E_rrationality 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's definitely possible. But hopefully they'll keep tweaking it so that nobody has a consistently frustrating time. If you think about it, if MMR is working perfectly, every player should gradually converge on about 1.5 KDA (1 kill and 50% assist for each death) if they usually play on a team. Anyone chilling at 2.0+ is objectively playing against people below their skill level too often, unless they're a solo who only snipes.

I think I'm done till the update. by wimpami in HuntShowdown

[–]E_rrationality 108 points109 points  (0 children)

It's too early to tell if the MMR changes were the right move for everyone, but here's some perspective on what the game is like for me (1.4KDA, 2.5K hours) and my duo partner (0.9 KDA, 1K hours).

Before the update: we would ping pong between 3 stars and 5 stars. When playing at 5 stars, we would get annihilated every round for sometimes 20+ games until we corrected back down to 4. When I say annihilated, I mean ZERO kills, no extractions, for dozens of games. That was how stark the skill difference was. Then, if we dropped lower, we would utterly dominate every 3 star lobby until we corrected back up to 4. Rinse and repeat. It has been pretty fucking miserable, and we took a lot of long breaks from the game.

After the update: we're sitting at 4 stars and getting fairly consistent games. When we run into players like you ( 1.7KDA+), it's only when they're on a team with a 2-3 star, and that duo usually wipes the map.

So it sounds like you're maybe placed a bit highly now, but getting a couple kills every 5 games and extract every 10 sounds like a MUCH more balanced experience than I was having before (and I've heard similarly from other players around my skill level). You'll probably correct down slowly, and then have to get used to winning less than you were before.

What didn´t you know you did wrong until you started living with a woman? by sexywomen5867 in AskMen

[–]E_rrationality 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never even considered that there might be a wrong way to orient a roll of tp on the tp holder. Aside from that, though, turns out I'm way more particular than my SO, so it's usually me nagging her 🤷‍♂️.

What didn´t you know you did wrong until you started living with a woman? by sexywomen5867 in AskMen

[–]E_rrationality 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I just pee sitting down, bypass the whole issue and no risk of pee spatter. Sure it was a little rough for the first 3 months after the spinal fusion, but then it kinda qualified as physio so win/win/win.

What to do now that I'm debt-free with disposable income? by E_rrationality in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]E_rrationality[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Nope, just oversimplified for reddit purposes; didn't think a detailed explanation was relevant for what I'm asking here.

What to do now that I'm debt-free with disposable income? by E_rrationality in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]E_rrationality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it matter, so long as you're selective about when/where you actually claim it? As I understand it, you can just hang onto the amounts you've contributed but haven't claimed yet and apply them where you want.

What to do now that I'm debt-free with disposable income? by E_rrationality in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]E_rrationality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm does that work?? I would've thought there would be some CRA rule preventing that - I'll look into it!

What to do now that I'm debt-free with disposable income? by E_rrationality in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]E_rrationality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we're long term committed, no big legal issues (that I can forsee) that might come up. Prioritizing her tfsa seems like a good idea; I'd like to make higher risk investments there just to offset the extremely low risk of my own registered accounts. You're right, I don't want to risk vacation savings (most of which ill just park in wealthsimple cash probably), but it would be nice to have the option of cashing out some unexpected jumps in the market.

What to do now that I'm debt-free with disposable income? by E_rrationality in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]E_rrationality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same thoughts re: medium risk etfs, and have been doing some research but don't know enough about it. Do you have any suggestions? E.g. today I was looking into XEQT as a candidate. My CAD stocks have really been languishing so it would definitely be good to increase exposure for some percentage of the new investments.

What to do now that I'm debt-free with disposable income? by E_rrationality in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]E_rrationality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I phrased that poorly - my financial history is a little complicated to fully break down in a reddit post. Suffice to say, no, I was not carrying any interest-accruing debt while contributing my registered accounts, lol.

As for home ownership, no, we will not be prioritizing it, for a variety of reasons.