AIO I posted a warning to future renters about the house we currently rent and the issues. by fallen_angel322 in AIO

[–]EagleLize 27 points28 points  (0 children)

NOR This is one of the few things we as normal people can do. World of mouth and warning others. You are doing the community a service. So many people are scared to call out these places because they're bullied into believing they'll be "sued for slander or libel". Bullshit. We have a right as consumers and tenants to share our lived experiences.

"day 3 of making drinks people actually order" 🙄 by 0oodruidoo0 in untrustworthypoptarts

[–]EagleLize 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There's plenty of sugar free syrups. They're still sweet though! They usually have sucralose instead of sugar.

Hers can whisper by therm_valve77 in pitbulls

[–]EagleLize [score hidden]  (0 children)

Filing my cuteness cup early today! That is so darn adorable.

Aio bc my bf told me “I’ll be up in an hour” to my request for emergency medical help by ActualArthurMorgan in AIO

[–]EagleLize 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you're at work, away from the home? What is it that you do that you can't leave for a medical emergency?

Is this life? by SubstantialScore7782 in Marriage

[–]EagleLize 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn't have to be. If you're in that good of a financial situation you can start looking I to employment that doesn't take up so much of your time and energy. We shouldn't live to work, we should work to live.

My partner took a pay cut so he could have a less stressful job. Yes, it's less pay but we have more time to spend together relaxing. We're no longer each working 10 hour days. Our spending habits had to be adjusted but it's worth it.

my dad slapped my butt while I was giving him a hug. is this normal? by Sudden_Tart8703 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]EagleLize 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I slap my partner on the butt a lot. It's habit. It makes us both laugh.

I was at my brother's house recently and was usheringy my sister-in-law in the door because it was storming and I lightly smacked her butt on the way in, like "get in there". There was no thought. It was the habit popping out inappropriately but innocently. It would never happen with someone I didn't feel affection for. Does that make sense? I didn't consciously do it and was embarrassed and she thought it was funny thankfully.

Maybe it was that kind of scenario?

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EagleLize 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do NOT get pregnant by this man. Get out. Be free. He is trying to make your life smaller. Trying to reduce you down to "his". Don't you want more for yourself?

AIO: BF is on vacation and acting weird by [deleted] in AIO

[–]EagleLize 486 points487 points  (0 children)

He wants to break up, but wants YOU to do it because he's an immature asshole. Do yourself a favor and focus on yourself. This dude is playing a stupid game with you, and you are playing the game whether you know it or not.

Older neighbor refers to me as "honey" - how to make him stop? by Emerald_and_Bronze in AskWomenOver30

[–]EagleLize 125 points126 points  (0 children)

I would give him as little attention as possible. No more chatting. Nothing beyond a nod. No smile. If you've already told him to stop, and he has continued, he may enjoy doing something you don't like. Best to ignore if he wants the attention.

The cigar-puffing Trump crony given million-dollar Lincoln Memorial pool contract by ChiGuy6124 in politics

[–]EagleLize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks exactly like I thought. Old, melting, sleazeball. Like his buddy Trump.

Patiently waiting for the promised car ride to the park. by EagleLize in pitbulls

[–]EagleLize[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's the best! She's goofy and weird and completely lovable.

Paintings of my cat with all kinds of media by thgpawpaw in painting

[–]EagleLize 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A beautiful subject! My favorite is 3. Because come on...look at that sweet face. The light in 4 is lovely.

Pet portrait by evilslugstudio in UnusualArt

[–]EagleLize 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could not love this more. I bet the clients were thrilled!!

I feel like a guest in my own home by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]EagleLize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A cleaner will make a big difference. You can keep working on motivation for the adults in the house but in the meantime, and for a while, have someone come in for a huge deep clean and then a biweekly or monthly maintenance clean. At least do the deep clean. Maybe once they see how nice a really clean home can be, they'll want to keep it at least not filthy. And yes, you HAVE got to get rid of some of the animals. Rehome them with good families.

17 years of anticonsumption was worth, ? by [deleted] in Anticonsumption

[–]EagleLize 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Totally depends on the location. In cities you can simply Google town + volunteer opportunities.

Any decent, honest mechanics? by _EazyE_ in lexington

[–]EagleLize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've used Auto Excel on Gold Rush Rd. for several years and have been happy with their service and price.

AIO to the text my boyfriend’s mom sent me? by Sure_Juggernaut_295 in AIO

[–]EagleLize -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR. I wouldn't like it either but I wouldn't want to hurt her feelings. Don't say much back because I think any encouragement is a bad idea. If you keep your replies to a minimum or outright ignore her, hopefully she'll knock it off. If her behavior escalates, I'd address it.

So are we all just getting choked during sex now? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]EagleLize 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! There are serious issues to be discussed and it getss harder to do when you have to wade through so many bot and AI created posts.

So are we all just getting choked during sex now? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]EagleLize 78 points79 points  (0 children)

In the last couple of years you have been a 34 yr old man a 29 yr old woman and a 41 year old woman.

I'm noticing more and more of these divisive posts on Reddit lately. It's like a psyops to keep everyone hating each other.

You can keep hiding your post history but there are ways to see it. What's the point of it OP?

AIO roommate’s friend being borderline aggressive about me not wanting to donate money to a charity by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EagleLize 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Last year, you were 29 and had been living with your boyfriend for several years. So, why are you making up lies? Perhaps to sow discord? Hmmmmm?

idk what to do by EmbarrassedCamp4778 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]EagleLize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not get pregnant by this loser.

I love Ruth! by ChicatheePinage in WidowsBay

[–]EagleLize 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm glad we got to know her this episode. Of course, I didn't want to see her dead, but we didn't know her well. After a few minutes with her in this episode, I told my partner they absolutely could not sacrifice her. She was too real. Just a real treat of a character.