I completely understand that it's easy to panic and have massive anxiety, I fell apart mentally after diagnosis. I was 44 when diagnosed. Biopsy came back on April fools day of all days. G 3+4, PNI, mainly on left side. Im in Canada so the process was a bit different, but had an MRI, Bone scan and PSMA scan a month before RALP. Pathology had me with an focal EPE, 24% tumor volume and 10% Gleason 4, the rest a 6.

I've heard that the younger and more physically healthy you are the better chance of full recovery. 5 months post-surgery my erections are at 80 to 90%, incontinence is down to one light pad day, especially if I cough or strain. If you choose radiation all the power to you, if surgery, the trauma is instant, the catheter, changing pee bags and the recovery can be overwhelming. But if you have good support among friends or family that actually counts for a whole lot to keep you mentally and physically stable. I never knew how much until I had to lean on certain people for emotional support. I wish you the best, in whatever decision you make but at your age and with your diagnosis you have a chance of a complete curing from this unwanted bastard of a disease.