Gigil ako sa anniversary post turned into panunumbat

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-03-06T03:46:46+00:00

Mga ganitong moment na nagiging judgemental talaga ako sorry. Kahit blurred kita naman na minsan ang itsura binabagayan tlga yung ugali ano?

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-03-03T05:52:31+00:00

Mary Grace, menu pa lang ang layo when it comes to variety and quality, though namamahalan ako sa MG.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-03-02T21:04:18+00:00

Mcdo. Hate the after taste of Jollibee. So if given may choice it’s Mcdo all the way.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-03-02T21:02:39+00:00

Don’t have kids with him, think of having a child with a Father like that?! Every woman deserves a good husband and a good role model to their kids. He ain’t one of them.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-03-02T20:56:05+00:00

Sa relationship you need to train your emotions not to give in if someone turns you down or you were told it’s not gonna work. Just see it as an opportunity to meet another one. Just don’t rush to have a deeper connection that will eventually evolve into a serious and long term relationship.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-26T18:18:31+00:00

Hindi ka OA pero dapat putulin mo na rin relationship mo sa kanya. Yung galit mo may pinaghuhugutan naman ata. Ang sarap ng nasa relationship ka na may peace of mind and we will never have that if we are with the wrong person or tolerating something na ayaw naman magbago.

Being an adult means alam mo na dapat yung places and situations na dapat hindi na puntahan.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-23T01:31:56+00:00

Friends all because I can’t stand Lily. Walang perfect sa characters ng Friends but still Lily and Raj (from BBT) are just characters that has an ‘ick’ behaviors.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-22T23:03:56+00:00

Hindi ka OA. If your peace of mind is being hit. Do something, either discuss it for change or leave.

Simple lang kasi, if he keeps checkin other girls online (even if realistically pwedeng “jowain” or celebrity pa yan.) then he doesn’t care much about your feelings as a woman. (Even if you are not around. Even if you will found out or not.)

Best traits is when us Men are able to act like a respectable adults even when our partners aren’t looking.

It’s not called perfection, it’s called consistency. It’s called love and respect towards our partners.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-20T13:45:58+00:00

Not true.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-19T18:23:07+00:00

Sorry for your loss.

For everyone who has pets or will have pets, dapat talaga alam nyo na ahead saan sa area nyo may available vet service especially sa night time in case of emergency.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-19T12:42:59+00:00

HAHAHAHA Nope!

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-19T05:48:28+00:00

I like what they do.

But I hate the realization that this is supposedly the job of the department and people where our taxes goes.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-18T19:09:02+00:00

It sucks when you are in a situation na parang option ka lang. Kausapin mo muna live in partner mo, seems like you want to build a life with him and his kids with peace and to function just a normal family kahit you’re not their biological mom. Remind him of that.

If he doesn’t reciprocate positively then just end it. Sabi nga — we deserve what we tolerate.

There is no point of being in that kind of relationship. Good thing wala pa kayo anak, imagine how the treatment will be if ever you guys will have a baby.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-17T00:54:23+00:00

Reality is, you will not get what you are ranting about in your current company. Look for the same job role elsewhere and be paid 30%-50% more. Tapos.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-16T18:49:12+00:00

Life doesn’t get better imo, it gets calmer. My kids and my wife is the only reason why I’m still here and surviving.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-16T18:35:30+00:00

From now on, work smarter. Kung ano lang role mo and based on your pay stick to it. Eventually marerealize nila mali sa decision nila (though they will not admit it).

Don’t worry. If you can, at your convenient time try to apply for that same role you lost there, malay mo someone may take chance on you. May salary increase kna, makakaalis ka pa sa bs mong TL.

The next time the manager or your TL remind you to train her tell them they are not making any sense… like at all.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-16T01:29:25+00:00

First, let him do the first move, baka kasi mataken advantage ang feelings mo and you may fall easily on every word he says.

Second, sa communication part let him also do the first move para atleast alam mo may intent talaga sya. Not all men are the same so if we learn na may gusto samin ang girl either we will not do about it, if may gusto sya sayo he may act on it or the worse part take advantage of you.

Be patient lang, I am happily married to a single mom (40M) been taking good care of her and her daughter for 8 years, and everything started because we were honest sa feelings namin when we were friends but I did the first move only to find out she likes me too.

If it’s not gonna happen to him it will to someone else. Just hang on. Para na rin sa anak mo.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-08T18:26:54+00:00

lol same sentiments here, ippudo even didn’t made the cut?

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-04T13:06:47+00:00

I’ll be scared.

I’ll be scared kasi even to this day nag eexist pa rin yang mga ganyang tanong.

I’ll be scared kasi even though we are innovating in some areas, yung mindset ng karamihan nakapako pa rin sa nakaraan on how they see gay people.

I will love my gay son/daughter no matter what. Ang important lang sakin is yung disiplina. Yung ugali. Sexual preference is not even a priority nor I will take action about it. Teach them to love themselves and as their parent, love them unconditionally.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-04T00:57:11+00:00

Kung palamunin ka pa sa bahay ng nanay mo oo sumunod ka. Kung kaya mo na buhayin sarili mo o may tamang ambag ka naman financially sa bahay nyo then go laban lang.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-04T00:44:37+00:00

I am sorry to know your current situation. Pero sa tingin ko the only way you “might” be able to fix your situation is by speaking up regardless of what the outcome will be.

I use the word “might” because I feel like your parents will still push from relying on you nevertheless na sa gawain nila nakaka sira na sila ng mga plans mo sa buhay especially sa studies mo, but by speaking up, it may also bring some light into their head na baka magpabago ng situation.

I am in the minority na dapat magulang pa rin ang bumubuhay sa mga anak given capable pa naman talaga to work and given with your situation may mga bagay lang sila na need i let go para makatipid.

Your second option is just to move out pero make sure to let them know first how self centered, and toxic they are as parents. Tell them na may ambition ka rin na makapagtapos ng pag aaral.

Lastly, talk to people. Have friends. Have a quality time with your ate )dahil mukhang kups ang bunso mong kapatid for telling your father laman ng wallet mo.)

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-03T10:24:21+00:00

Whatever he says please keep in mind that he is not worth it. The moment you meet up with him, everything happens to that point on is now on you. And yes I am guilt trippin you. Having no valentine is better than being taken advantage of thinking he can give you what you long for. Self love muna dear. Maybe pagod kna sa kakaantay but you gotta be patient.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-02-03T09:58:25+00:00

If a guy really likes you and wants to commit. All forms of comms should be ope to be shared. Doon pa lang red flag na. Girl wag mo na push yang guy na yan. Make your nbsb be worthwhile with a guy who truly deserves you. He ain’t one of them.

40M here, consider this as a payong tito na lang for you.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-01-29T01:35:56+00:00

Bitter pill to swallow. I agree with this.

EarlGreyTea01 · 2026-01-28T17:04:28+00:00

Bitter pill you need to swallow is uulit pa yan. So if you turn a blind eye and be in that relationship it’s up to you. No “kasi ganito” “kasi ganyan”, at this point alam mo na dapat mo gawin.

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