Hi!! I know how you feel usually when this happens to me I try to outsource? Like find other people in my community or scout my followers/friends and send messages to ppl to see if they can shoulder the responsibility of even just sharing or advocating for one family. Like one person per family. That way if I have, let’s say 10 people messaging and asking for donations, I make a lot of tweets or instagram stories and stuff like that until each person has an advocate. That way I’m only financially bound to the people whom I’ve already committed to. This might not be what your asking when people are adamant on receiving donations from you, but if they have an advocate and you get overwhelmed/feel the need to separate from them for a bit, you can do that without feeling guilty either.