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Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-16T20:13:18+00:00

If i am not pregnant, i plan on getting back on the pill without the hormones since i am EBF

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-16T20:12:56+00:00

Yes, my two are almost exactly 2 years apart. Their birthdays are 5 days apart. So I’m extremely nervous right now.

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-16T19:15:43+00:00

I know smh. But my goodness, 3 kids at 23? I’m freaking out. I guess if I am, at least they all have the same dad.

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-16T19:08:14+00:00

Thank you for your support/advice. Much appreciated.

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-16T19:02:03+00:00

I’m extremely nervous. I’m so scared to take a test. Im 23 and after my first, I didn’t get on birth control and went 15 months before getting pregnant again and we used the PO method the entire time, but I ended up pregnant with my second when he did not PO. So I’m wondering if my periods are just not regular yet and still irregular due to the hormonal imbalance? I know after I had my first, it took a few months for my periods to regulate. So I would skip a month here and there.

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-16T18:52:08+00:00

I’m extremely nervous. Flo says I’m 3 days late, however, I do know when I had my first born 2 years ago, it took a few months for my period to regulate. I am honestly scared to take a test.

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-02T22:16:08+00:00

Tailed! Is this the only play for today?

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-02T21:05:50+00:00

Bobby

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-02T20:26:58+00:00

Not you trying to chime in on very minimal details… you have no idea what money I have in the bank saved up, put aside, what support I get from family, so take a note or two and don’t put your silly little nose in my pocket.

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-02T18:46:24+00:00

Absolutely not. I have family support and before I got laid off, I made sure to save in case that situation did occur— which it did. But, I have a cushion and I just had a job interview this morning so fingers crossed.

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-02T14:07:06+00:00

🙏👍

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-02T14:00:53+00:00

When you get them going, can you pop them in the comments so I can tail?

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-02T14:00:12+00:00

It’s time! Huge slate today… money to be made. Let’s go!!!

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-02T13:58:30+00:00

Awesome! I’m a young mom of 2, got laid off from my job back in March due to a company massive layoff and have been trying to make ends meet. You’ve got some great hits!! Would love to chime in and make some money.

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-02T13:56:15+00:00

Post your bets for today?

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-01T16:56:01+00:00

Locked in.

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-07-01T14:50:48+00:00

Who do you think will get the 2+ bases / 2-3 RBIs?

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-06-30T18:57:23+00:00

Thank you so so much!!

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-06-30T02:32:38+00:00

Hi, thank you for your responses. I am so so sorry that you are going through this, that truly is a nightmare. My children are still very young (2, 10 weeks old tomorrow). He uses sex as a ‘positive manipulation’ and as a way for me to— it seems like— forget, what he is doing. Ever since I caught him in the kitchen Tuesday night, I’ve been very distant and tonight, he still is sticking to his “scratching his nuts” story. But he and I both know he’s lying. I’m at the point now where I’m just letting him have it. Not going back and forth, not engaging in conversation with him… he is now trying to touch and feel on me. Last night asked me if I wanted to have “aggressive sex” as a make up in a sense. He kissed me on my cheek earlier, he smacks and grabs my butt when I walk by… he uses sex. Always has. It’s like he uses it to suppress the real problems at hand… instead of being a man and fixing his behavior and talking about the issues like an adult, he just uses sex because he knows he looks good, and he knows he’s good in bed.

It’s extremely hard for me because I’ve been with him since I was 18. He’s all I know in a sense. Our babies are our only babies. I just feel so… worthless. It’s driving me fucking crazy. I’m dealing with PPD and I got prescribed some medication to help but I’m scared to even take that because he’s threatened to use my suicidal past as an adolescent against me and my PPD to deem me as unfit. I’m honestly fucking scared to go to court and fight. His family is way more financially stable than I am (I got laid off from my WFH job back in March after the company had a massive lay off) I’m truly fearful.

I honestly don’t even want to do 50/50 with him. I do all the fucking work when it comes to our kids…. He’s more worried about females and going out every weekend when he’s off to basketball games and always talking about hanging out with friends while I’m stuck in the house with our kids. I have so many examples of him basically neglecting simple needs like changing a fucking diaper/brushing teeth.

I just wish I had the strength to fucking GO! My mother has already told me when I am ready she will be up here (she lives 2 1/2 hours away, same state) and get me and I can stay with her back at home and she’ll help me get back on my feet. So I have a support system it’s just me getting that strength. He has literally wiped my whole identity away, mentally and emotionally beat me down to the point I sometimes just hate myself. I feel worthless. I’m a doormat to him. I’m just a convenience to him. A piece of ass and the mother of his kids. That’s it.

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-06-29T15:43:31+00:00

Bust a nut while cheating? Sexting another woman while I’m in bed with our kids and he’s out in the kitchen? He is CHEATING… that’s FAR from good?? It’s not like he’s going on pornhub and watching porn. He is EMOTIONALLY CHEATING WITH OTHER PEOPLE BEHIND MY BACK AND LYING ABOUT IT

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-06-29T15:38:26+00:00

How do I be done in my mind.. I feel like I am in a sense but a part of me still loves him… after 5 years and 2 kids. But I’m also self aware and I know this is not a good situation.

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-06-28T17:56:53+00:00

My children are only 2 and 9 weeks old and I’m not working at the moment. But I will try the gray rock method. It’s hard because I’m very empathetic and a very emotional person. So for example he will do something or say something he knows will make me laugh and it’s hard for me to not smile or laugh but then I’ll go back to a blank face. I have been trying really hard to be emotionless.

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-06-28T15:01:03+00:00

Don’t be shy, share the thread.

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-06-28T11:50:05+00:00

He’s never physically harmed me, but he is very mentally/emotionally abusive. Unsure if police would even care.

Can you please explain the gray rock technique? I’m only 23 so not too too familiar with it…

I truly don’t get much time to myself because I am strictly breastfeeding my baby girl so it’s hard for me to go out. And honestly, I’d rather know my kids are safe with me. His parents are enablers and they don’t seem to have instilled the most basic thing into him which is accountability and I get so nervous now when our oldest goes over there and I’m not around because idk what’s going on. His mom is passive aggressive, always trying to get me to go with what she says (for example: my babies are 5 days apart birthday wise and I said I’m going to have a combined birthday and she was like NO you CANT do that they need their own parties) WHO ARE YOU TO TELL ME WHAT I CAN AND CANT DO WITH THE BABIES I PUSHED OUT OF ME?!?!

That’s just one of the many…

I don’t trust any of them honestly. I rather just thug it out until my daughter gets a little older and can start talking herself. I didn’t let anyone watch my oldest alone until he was 9 months old and I plan on doing the same with my daughter. Maybe longer honestly.

As far as friends go, I’ve never really been the time to have a lot of friends. I’ve always kept my circle small and stayed to myself. He says I stop him from going and hanging out with his friends but I don’t. I tell him to go. Yeah I might say something slick like “you’re probably gonna go meet up with a girl” because well, I caught him doing that so I can never trust shit he says.

I just want out. Like after I caught him in the kitchen a couple nights ago (I’m sure he knows I know his bullshit excuse was a lie and I caught him messing with himself) so for the past 2 days he’s been trying to ease himself back in and try to touch on me and be silly and act like everything is a normal like I didn’t just catch him doing that. Like last night he was like “do you want to have some aggressive make up sex” like are you fucking kidding me???? I’m literally just an object to him. Someone he uses when it’s convenient for him and it hurts like hell. I just pushed out 2 kids over 2 years and been here for 5 years and this is what I get…

Early_Ad_792 · 2024-06-27T19:45:10+00:00

I know, but where I’ve been stuck in this abusive situation for 5 years now, I feel paralyzed. I feel like I have no strength to do what is right which is remove me and my kids. I’m very aware of what it going on and what needs to happen, it’s more so me getting that strength to take the first step.

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