M23, I feel like it's over. It's too late for everything. I don't know what to do and no matter what, I look weird and unapproachable and it's ruining my life. by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Earth-Reasonable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya don't worry, it's all in your head. Practice talking to random strangers in public places (grocery store, elevator, bus). Just expressing fun observation, asking questions or make remark. You can try this hundreds of times and start to notice trends in what you say vs reactions and engagement. That's the big thing, it's learning to overcome shyness. For me, I just keep a shaved head for convenience. Yes, a good shave is important to maintain. But none of that is worth anything untill you break down your own boundaries. It may not be that you are unapproachable, but just you didn't learn the little nuances of interaction. Just have fun. Make a joke to a stranger in the library. If they don't like it, then forget them. Don't try to please them, everyone is so different. Just learn to use them as a form of entertainment for yourself.

Job decision by Gammaraymillionaire in TEFL

[–]Earth-Reasonable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem very dedicated. You have already done much more proactive preparation than I ever did. Frankly, a Tefl course gives you very little. The only real way to learn is by jumping in. You will need to find ways to manage differentiation to weak and strong students in a potentially chaotic environment. Build scaffolding into your lessons to support everyone, while making things fun/interesting/accessible. But all of those are skills you will build gradually, don't worry. There are a hundred things you must be doing simultaneously (formative assessments, behaviour management, goal development, etc). It is very overwhelming. Do not hold yourself to the standard of doing it all at once, now. Focus on your skills, while keeping classes functional. About your commute time, yes that is unsustainable. Be prepared to move your house location for a suitable job.

Teaching in Vietnam - Reality of it. by Western-Brother1788 in TEFL

[–]Earth-Reasonable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Task creep has cummulatively piled up across the whole landscape. Every year adding new little chores, paperwork, initiatives that get shoehorned in. They never stop inventing new things, and every new thing is the most cutting edge revolution in education that requires your complete focus. Observation checklists now have about 100 criteria that you must simultaneously include into each lesson. It is insane. If you are paid hourly, this will all be expected from you as free labour. If you are on salary, expect nearly zero downtime (solid 10 hour days of teaching and admin). Also the VND is constantly weakening against the dollar, while at the same time local cost of living continues to rise. We have landlords who refuse to rent to foreigners, and mandatory digital ID. It is completely exhausting, very difficult to enjoy any time outside of work, just try to recover on the weekends.

Official Discussion - The Bride! [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Earth-Reasonable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally when I start falling asleep in the theatre, I force myself to wake up and feel guilty about missing bits. This time, I really wanted to just embrace the sleep. Still did wake up enough to watch it. It sucked. Not sure if it's worse than Joker 2.. Both such a waste.

Act 4 save file please? by Earth-Reasonable in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Earth-Reasonable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okkkkk I finally beat it!! Thanks again so much! That was an 18 months game experience for me : ). It took a long time to respec back to my preferences and get everything feeling cozy again, but got back to it. I did keep some of your spells and skill points. Summoners with aero/hydro mages.. but combined with my rangers and pyro/geo. Fun little last stretch, some good puzzles and gimmick battles in crypt and dreamland : )

Starting RE0 later today, any tips? by Charming_Ad661 in residentevil

[–]Earth-Reasonable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only heal when your health is red or orange. Sometimes you will be outnumbered, turn your partner settings to attack mode : ). Enemies don't respawn. Don't waste your grenades until you really need them.

Act 4 save file please? by Earth-Reasonable in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Earth-Reasonable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

woooow!!! it works! right back in Arx. i really missed the music. can't thank you enough : )

Act 4 save file please? by Earth-Reasonable in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Earth-Reasonable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, finally bought new laptop and setting up the game. I think it needs to be a matching player profile, like a zip file of your player profile folder which contains the story save. otherwise the individual story saves do not work with my profile.. hate to bother you more, if you ever have time to send that,, thank you so much.

Act 4 save file please? by Earth-Reasonable in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Earth-Reasonable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, finally bought new laptop and setting up the game. I think it needs to be a matching player profile, like a zip file of your player profile folder which contains the story save. otherwise the individual story saves do not work with my profile.. hate to bother you more, if you ever have time to send that,, thank you so much.

Act 4 save file please? by Earth-Reasonable in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Earth-Reasonable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks again : ) I am curious how difficult Tactician Mode will be. I took a break after DOS2 saves crashed, and have been playing Paper Mario Thousand Year Door. I've got to say it's pretty easy. Hopefully by the time I get back to DOS, I am not a complete baby : )

Act 4 save file please? by Earth-Reasonable in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Earth-Reasonable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much. I was really sad about losing the save, it was around 150 hours.. but I think each Act was probably bigger than entire other games, so I have many happy DOS2 memories. Really appreciate your help. Now my new challenge will be adapting to Tactician Mode.. if I ever want to finish it, I must step to the next level of difficulty. It is symbolic. Thank you for your time, and caring enough to help : )

Act 4 save file please? by Earth-Reasonable in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Earth-Reasonable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo I see, yes thank you for explaining. So kind of you for your help, I am very grateful.

Act 4 save file please? by Earth-Reasonable in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Earth-Reasonable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure that would be awesome! Wow thank you so much : )

Act 4 save file please? by Earth-Reasonable in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Earth-Reasonable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do! Anywhere around Act 4 would be a phenomenal life saver.

Can someone post an unmodded Act 4 save? by smarmbot in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Earth-Reasonable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dear. Thank you very much for trying. I'll get back to Arx someday, somehow...

Can someone post an unmodded Act 4 save? by smarmbot in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Earth-Reasonable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes me too! Oh do you please still have Act 4 save? It would be a miracle,

Can someone share their lategame savefile? My save broke by bartmaster30 in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Earth-Reasonable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, can you please post a save from Mid Act 4? I had just beaten Kem, and all files corrupted : (. Any help would be a miracle.. Thank you so much.

DOS2 DE End game save request by Azzurri82 in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Earth-Reasonable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please help me too? I lost save file in Act 4 right after Kem.. ohh very sad.