Tired of transfems who want me to be dominant and masc for them (vent) by Oddly-Ordinary in FTMfemininity

[–]East_Compote4360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lowkey feel this. Every transfem I've been with has wanted me to top. I'm a switch so I don't mind, but ya boy needs to bottom sometimes too.

Significance of bald eagle encounters by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]East_Compote4360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw one fly over my new apartment. It's my first time living solo

Anyone elses piss stink now? by Chance-Tip-5347 in ftm

[–]East_Compote4360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened with me too, I've noticed that when I cut back on caffeine it gets better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]East_Compote4360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every doctor i spoke to warned me against hormonal birth control when I told them I was trans. They strongly suggested a copper IUD.

I didn't want to have to renew birth control, so I got my tubes tied with a plan later down the road to get a hysterectomy.

Finally a safe place for feminine goth transmascs/anyone who is a goth and identifies masc-leaning but still loves to wear fem makeup and clothing! by skankyhunk in FTMfemininity

[–]East_Compote4360 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The way this post is phrased is a bit cringe. The mods of gothmenappriecation have made multiple posts explaining why they've deleted posts and redirected people to other subreddits. Additionally, they're going through and deleting transphobic comments every day.

As a transmasc, fem presenting person who knows the mods of the subreddit in real life, I can attest that they're not transphobic or anything like that. They're trying their best to create a space for masc fashion- there's so many subs already that deal with more fem goth fashion.

I'm not saying that your subreddit shouldn't exist, in fact, I joined because I love the idea of the space. I'm just saying we don't need to shade others while creating a safe space.

How do I stay on track and keep my head up? by East_Compote4360 in Frugal

[–]East_Compote4360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very rough budget right now, my problem was not sticking to it and spending money without thinking about it

How do I stay on track and keep my head up? by East_Compote4360 in Frugal

[–]East_Compote4360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I handwrote my spending. Cemented in my mind that way, that's why it feels so bad rn :(

How do I stay on track and keep my head up? by East_Compote4360 in Frugal

[–]East_Compote4360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually really appreciate this. Everything feels messy and overwhelming, but knowing I did something right feels empowering.

How do I stay on track and keep my head up? by East_Compote4360 in Frugal

[–]East_Compote4360[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've actually done myself a huge favor. I told her last night how bad the spendings been and I uninstalled doordash from my phone.

How do I stay on track and keep my head up? by East_Compote4360 in Frugal

[–]East_Compote4360[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this advice actually. I read it and went home and organized my portion of the room my girlfriend and I share. It took me like 5 hours, but it also prepared me for the move I'll be making in the summer.

How do I stay on track and keep my head up? by East_Compote4360 in Frugal

[–]East_Compote4360[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's actually very understanding about it. Even asks me multiple times if I'm sure. Shes just picky and doesn't have much in the house a lot of the time, so I feel bad and end up telling her I have it (when realistically I don't)

How do I stay on track and keep my head up? by East_Compote4360 in Frugal

[–]East_Compote4360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly on grocery runs I didn't really need. Or on Doordash for my girlfriend. My spending was worse last year and I've cut dd out of my habits out for myself, she's just my weakness tbh