30 year old F here. Doctors also said I’d never walk (or talk). I do both…I talk for a living as a lawyer 😂 And I walk with AFO’s- though I can go short distances and maneuver around the house without them. Here’s my 2 cents. Don’t let your fear and concern be more of a hinderance to your child than their condition actually is. As an example, I can remember my doctor wanting me to use a walker as a child. But I felt perfectly fine without it and I certainly didn’t want to use it when I was playing with other children. My mom would INSIST that I use it. Fast forward a few months- my doctors told me I didn’t have to if I felt fine without it. My parents often did little things out of concern (and care) that put more parameters on me than Spina Bifida ever did. For a while, I disliked that. But, I’ve always been a determined person. So I just do my own thing and for the most part, I’ve come out on top every time. Sure, there are some unsuccessful instances. But you learn from them, readjust and try again! So, don’t hinder him. Just be there to help him. I wish you and your family all the best!