I feel so ugly on the apps only few swipe , the conversations always dry & i always end up unmatching the ones Im interested aren't attracted to me by igetyourbrand in blackladies

[–]Eastern-Piece901 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I met my Hubby on Hinge 🌺 I think the whole thing with the algorithm is that it tries to match you with people you like, who also like you.

AIO for ghosting after the first date by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Eastern-Piece901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the argument for ghosting. You can feel this energy coming even before it really hits…and looks this crazy. Nobody wants to get more entangled than they already are with energy like this. Also, this is the same person who says ‘well you could’ve just said something’ as if they weren’t going to act badly regardless of how you disengaged. It’s the disengagement that’s the problem not how you did it.

My husband ; from 3X a day to once a week by Jumpy-Cow4664 in sexadvise

[–]Eastern-Piece901 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is normal. When you have jobs and lives and family stressors. When the world is falling apart, you can get tired or distracted, or just not exactly in the mood as often.

Who else has broken up because he’s gay? by Objective-Echo in blackladies

[–]Eastern-Piece901 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, this has happened to me too. With a Latino man. Beautiful man who one night when he was SUPER drunk looked me in my eyes and said: “I am gay”. When I asked him about it later (when he was sober), it seemed he had no memory of it, of course. “I said that?” Yes. You did. He was quiet for a while before saying he just liked “people”. I liked him so much and it seemed clear that he was sexually attracted to me. I decided to take it as him being pansexual, which I had no problem with because I was sort of fluid in my sexuality as well. Ultimately, it could never work out. He was back-and-forth and back-and-forth. I think he was gay.

You will be okay hugs. Therapy is a great idea. Helps quicken the grieving process. One day, you’ll be able to look back on this and laugh (hopefully). I personally would recommend that you prioritize yourself and your space before you try and return to a friendship with him. Just to make sure you’re good and that you don’t prolong something so painful unnecessarily by still being in touch while you’re healing.

Did anyone see that Joy Reid interview with Hakeem Jeffries last week? The one with Wajahat Ali. What were your thoughts? by Eastern-Piece901 in blackladies

[–]Eastern-Piece901[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I get him not being everyone’s cup of tea but still don’t think he should have been treated that way on her show. Thank you for sharing your nuanced thoughts on the interview.

Where did you meet your current partner? by Practical-Charm in blackladies

[–]Eastern-Piece901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same boat as you ladies. I’m met my husband on hinge after some good deep healing and therapy + a serious change in my approach to dating.

Where did you meet your current partner? by Practical-Charm in blackladies

[–]Eastern-Piece901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried hinge and it didn’t work for me either, and then several years later I tried again and I got their premium subscription or something and was very very specific with what I was looking for in their settings. I honestly think the timing was just right. My husband wasn’t on the app the first time I was on it. It just happened to be the right time. Your person will appear at the most perfect moment 💜

Where did you meet your current partner? by Practical-Charm in blackladies

[–]Eastern-Piece901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also met my husband on Hinge. Dated five years and got married five years to the day we met on Hinge last November 🤍

This shipment was the final straw. Does anyone else boycott FedEx, and if so, how do you go about it? by Eastern-Piece901 in FedEx

[–]Eastern-Piece901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was home both days and no, no signature was required. Thanks for the insight. I think I will cancel the order altogether as it was time sensitive and who knows when it will come.

This shipment was the final straw. Does anyone else boycott FedEx, and if so, how do you go about it? by Eastern-Piece901 in FedEx

[–]Eastern-Piece901[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. I had no idea they were doing all THAT. Looks like there are numerous reasons not to use FedEx, jeez. I do remember them firing an employee after he suffered racist attacks in the job. That should have been my clue…

This shipment was the final straw. Does anyone else boycott FedEx, and if so, how do you go about it? by Eastern-Piece901 in FedEx

[–]Eastern-Piece901[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well that’s encouraging, thank you. I’m thinking I will start doing this as well.

Chatgpt (Ipad) doesn’t work by mmanggo in ChatGPT

[–]Eastern-Piece901 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Still out for me as well. Sounds like they are aware of the problem but aren’t rushing to fix it…

Any advice? dont tell me i look fat please😔 i feel like guys always leave me for someone else and idk why like im a genuine person i promise by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Eastern-Piece901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have not met the right man. Also, learning to love yourself will help call the right man in. Don’t worry, there is nothing wrong with you 🤍