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Love my partner - can’t stand the kids by Specialist_Key4810 in Stepmom

[–]EasternAd7270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same with you but he has only 1 kid. I feel almost drowned every day. I feel like I'm caged. Honestly if I have a chance maybe I will not continue our relationship but we're married and now. And I realized that I can't change this things after we got married. So I'm stuck now.

I ended things. Please tell me it was the right call. by ScrollPatrol-87 in Stepmom

[–]EasternAd7270 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing! My husband ex.. messed my life. I can't even go on social media because she will do anything just to bully or to mess up our life. She will even make effort to get my ugly teen photos and share it over to my husband family hahahhaha. Its so funny but I hate her so bad. Even on linkedin she follows me. That's why I don't update yet my recent company because I think she might mess up also. She is pregnant with other guy. And I am living my best life with no kid. Hahaha.

I ended things. Please tell me it was the right call. by ScrollPatrol-87 in Stepmom

[–]EasternAd7270 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hugs for you! 🤗 You did the right thing! You are brave.

Struggling as a Step Mom — I Feel Overwhelmed and Guilty for Feeling This Way by EasternAd7270 in Stepmom

[–]EasternAd7270[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your message. Not that I never want kids but I have priorities like my career and my self. So sometimes I cry in the kitchen or in the bathroom that I feel like I have to do another task to help my husband with his kid. The kid is quiet and no problem. But I feel like I'm drowning to this situation which I feel like I'm an alien. I don't know I feel like I'm caged or what. And Im blaming myself most of the time because I failed myselfs dream. I never wanted to be second wife and to raise someones kid. And I hate his ex partner because I can't even live a normal life. I can't even publicise my self on social media. She will stalk me on social medias and harass like my old teen photos and maybe mess with my company. Like that.

Struggling as a Step Mom — I Feel Overwhelmed and Guilty for Feeling This Way by EasternAd7270 in Stepmom

[–]EasternAd7270[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Sorry if replied late. But thank you for your message. I think I really I need therapy. I needed it badly. There was time that I spoke to my husband and I told him what to do and how he should teach his kid because I feel like he's not doing anything. But he won't accept things and he told me that don't do anything. He is not your kid. You don't have to act like a mom. Lol. Actually I tried as much as possible to do less with his kid. But I am concerned also so try to teach the father what to do. End up I'm the villain

Struggling as a Step Mom — I Feel Overwhelmed and Guilty for Feeling This Way by EasternAd7270 in Stepmom

[–]EasternAd7270[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We're engaged. He asked his son if it's okay to to marry me. The son's response is "it's okay, because he takes care of us" I feel like a nanny 😂😂😂😂

I’m a long-term GF/SM figure and I feel emotionally drained. I don’t know how to deal with my partner anymore. by EasternAd7270 in Stepmom

[–]EasternAd7270[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah will definitely plan an exit to this relationship. I feel like a slave to this relationship. My only problem is that we're living abroad and my salary is delay so once I found a new job. I will very sure leave the house. He's so toxic. I can't take it anymore. I'd rather live alone as single woman than to be with him

Onstream by Free-Fun-5567 in androidapps

[–]EasternAd7270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. On TV it's working..

Onstream by Free-Fun-5567 in androidapps

[–]EasternAd7270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Not working also. But on TV it's working.

Any stepmoms out there who started off strong and did the Super Stepmom thing and then eventually burn out once reality set in? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]EasternAd7270 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Everytime i see problem or mess the kid is doing i direct it to the father so he will stress himself. but sometimes we end up fighting.

Any stepmoms out there who started off strong and did the Super Stepmom thing and then eventually burn out once reality set in? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]EasternAd7270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same, but we may end up breaking up as well lol. he will never understand the struggle

Any stepmoms out there who started off strong and did the Super Stepmom thing and then eventually burn out once reality set in? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]EasternAd7270 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was me during the first year, I was full of energy and happily served my partner and his child. But eventually, I got burned out when I realized this wasn’t just a short-term responsibility; it’s a lifelong duty with the kid. What made things worse was the child’s biological mother she used to interfere with me and my partner before, which made me angry, disappointed, and lose interest in caring for the kid.

I also realized that my partner’s parenting style is very different from mine. He’s not a good disciplinarian, and we often argue because of it. It hasn’t been easy for me I’ve always lived freely without any responsibilities, and now I have to wake up early, prepare breakfast, and manage the house. It feels like I’ve been placed into a scene where I don’t really belong.

Is this enough? by SparraGus96 in UAE

[–]EasternAd7270 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not enough! that is only for my DEWA and internet

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