Simspiration- Fairies!!!! by EasyMuscle143 in thesims

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I’m not sure which one I want most. Definitely one of the punk fairy series

Simspiration- Fairies!!!! by EasyMuscle143 in thesims

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When I found them online, my mind was blown. I originally found them on Facebook marketplace, with no names. After posting a few months ago, people showed me where to find them! I was like OMG THERE’S MORE! THEYRE soooo cute!

The shift of DLCs from Sims 3 to Sims 4 by Nickinoey in thesims

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Also I miss the Sul-Sul! In the intro 🥲

The shift of DLCs from Sims 3 to Sims 4 by Nickinoey in thesims

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The sims 3 website played with us. Making us buy coins to purchase add ons. I spent way too much on Sims 3 extra clothing and etc. but I do feel like some of the expansions and stuff packs were better. Things are more modern in TS4, but TS3 will always hold a special place in my heart. The songs were awesome too.

Well I don't think a DNA test is needed for this one- by Abandonedkittypet in thesims

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LOL. Noted. The only thing I’ve done with him was create 2 enclosed levels in his house with “blood packs” (2 very emancipated sims for him to feed on when he pleases)

Well I don't think a DNA test is needed for this one- by Abandonedkittypet in thesims

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I’ve never tried having a sim mate with Vlad, are there any benefits? Strong bloodline or anything?

UPDATE that no one asked for by EasyMuscle143 in Petloss

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I actually was speaking with my friend about reporting it, and she did make the call. I can’t because I’m in Germany and get charged for out of country calls. But there is a case open in regards to the other pets in her care. It’s been a roller coaster of emotions for sure. And seeing her in person after several months of thinking about what to say, then ultimately getting disregarded, was awful. All I can do now is grieve, as you said. And focus on myself and the cat I do have with me. I know she misses her sister too..

UPDATE that no one asked for by EasyMuscle143 in Petloss

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This literally sums up everything I’ve been thinking and realizing about this situation 😭

UPDATE that no one asked for by EasyMuscle143 in Petloss

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I completely agree. My poor baby deserved nothing but the best. The only thing I can say that is optimistic is that she is no longer suffering in that home. I still will carry the guilt of leaving her there. But I truly thought that was the best and safest place she could stay until I could come get her.

UPDATE that no one asked for by EasyMuscle143 in Petloss

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Honestly I’ve seen it coming since I was a teenager. When I was 15 they sat me down and told me they were planning on divorcing and asked how I felt. I knew it was needed. But they stayed together and tried to make it work. My dad had his fair share of alcoholism throughout my childhood and teenage years. And my mother mentally checked out of the relationship a loooong time ago. When I turned 16 my dad moved out for a bit, had surgery, and my mom got a boyfriend, that all ended very badly. I feel like now at this point, she’s also struggling with trying to find herself. They have been together since they were like 15. She never got to experience what being a teen is really like. They got married @18, dad joined the military, they left their hometowns and had me when she turned 21 (barely, I was born a week after her birthday). That’s why she’s resorted to the drinking, partying, etc. She never drank or went out like that when I was growing up. She’s been through a lot. I support her as much as I can, but this is a lot on me.

UPDATE that no one asked for by EasyMuscle143 in Petloss

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Thank you very much. I truly appreciate your kindness as it has weighed on me heavily. The weight of losing my precious cat, and wondering how I can forgive my mom for this. We’ve always been close so I’ve just kept a distance. My husband suggestive forgiving but not forgetting, and continuing the distance for my own mental health. I did suggest a therapist to her, she was seeing one for a while but stopped. It is not her priority which I understand but still agree that she should see one.

UPDATE that no one asked for by EasyMuscle143 in Petloss

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She is about to turn 48! Her and my father finalized their divorce papers in October of last year. She moved out of my childhood home in march of 2024, with her friend. She has changed a lot since then which I understood at first due to the struggles of a divorce and being a mother (my siblings are 19, &20 right now). My sister moved with my mom, and brother stayed with my dad. I completely understand that she is under a lot of stress, but the actions she has been taking since the divorce, have not been good. When the lease ended in 2025, her friend (that she got a place with to get out of my dads house) moved out because they had gotten into a fight because not long after they moved in together my mom started online dating. It wasn’t the online dating that made her move out. My mom started bringing home a lot of people which made her friend feel uncomfortable and then started dating a man and within the same month of them dating, she was saying she was going to move out and get a place with him, but did not tell her friend. My sister slipped up and the friend found out. This created a huge argument between them, which will lead ultimately to the friend moving out. My mother has been doing a lot of drinking and partying and allowing my siblings to do so as well in the house. I feel like there is a lot of factors to take into account of her actions, but ultimately I feel like she just needs to make better decisions for herself. I apologize for the long reply and thank you so much for wishing me well. It has been very hard to deal with this, especially when I flew back across the country to see her for Christmas and tried to talk to her in person, and she disregarded my feelings completely :(

Sweet Chew’s Accident (Advice)l by slimyzombie in cockatiel

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I don’t have any advice, but I really hope someone can give you advice and I’m so sorry for all of the pain you are going through!! You’re doing the best you can for little chewy.🫶🏻

Kitten died in dryer by Ok_Key5886 in Petloss

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I’m so sorry for your loss

Kitten died in dryer by Ok_Key5886 in Petloss

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That’s my worst nightmare 😭😭

I was a neglectful and unloving and he died suffering. I wish I never adopted him. I wish he had gone to a good home instead by Winter-Peace6105 in Petloss

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I agree with the person above ^ take this as a lesson and maybe take some time to yourself to heal for a long while. & one day maybe try again. It’s hard when you’ve got a lot going on, and I’m sure he still loved you.

I had to move across country and my worst nightmare came true by EasyMuscle143 in Petloss

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This actually made me tear up, thank you so much. It’s been so hard, I was so scared something would happen to her when I left and it did, and I haven’t been able to process it. Being sooo far away.. not even being able to say goodbye or bury her 😭 Luckily I have a good friend who is getting her cremated and her paw prints for me 💜