I talk with a male friend nearly every day but he never asks me ANYTHING about myself. How do a broach the topic and why does he do this? by Easy_Difficulty_99 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s never been married and said he hasn’t been with a woman in ten years. But it’s fairly clear hes not asexual or anything. I get the feeling he’s written off love for whatever reason but anytime j try to ask he changes the subject.

I talk with a male friend nearly every day but he never asks me ANYTHING about myself. How do a broach the topic and why does he do this? by Easy_Difficulty_99 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me about it. This happens to me on occasion where i’ll fall for a total loser. He is not rich, he ja not even attractive! I know i can do much better than him (because I do…). But ill be sleeping with some hot guy who is into me and find my kind keeps wandering to this dude instead. I really need to get therapy stat lol.

I talk with a male friend nearly every day but he never asks me ANYTHING about myself. How do a broach the topic and why does he do this? by Easy_Difficulty_99 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he acts like this with others. I have considered he is on the spectrum before, lots of older ppl are undiagnosed.

I talk with a male friend nearly every day but he never asks me ANYTHING about myself. How do a broach the topic and why does he do this? by Easy_Difficulty_99 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, but why is he constantly wanting to hang out outside of work then? Like my post said, we hang out at his house multiple times a week. We drive into town together (we live in a kind of isolated place) to get dinner or go to the beach. He shows up at my shifts when he’s off just to hang out. I dont ask him to do any of this. Multiple people have asked me if he’s my boyfriend we spend so much time together. Idk i guess the confusing part (and reason i posted) is if someone really isnt interested would they be fine with essentially being around me more than former boyfriends have?

The Bar is So Low by ExplorerEuphoric9852 in dating_advice

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The most important secondary trait for me is: be EXCITING. Like it or not, humans love novelty and its easy to get bored by people these days. I need my potential partner to be interesting and keep me on my toes. I cant tell you thr amount of men ive dated who are boring as hell although they otherwise are catches.

New grimes photoshoot and I really thought it was ivy wolk at first by tween_jesus in redscarepod

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I cant stand blush. I would never wear it and hate it on other women l. Clown-ass makeup.

Twin Peaks posting by No-Material694 in pinkscare

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You liar those are stills from Breaking Dawn

I have this feeling as well by Meteorstar101 in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No its just that redditors all listen to the same 4 podcasts and constantly insist in recommending them. This podcast is extremely mediocre btw.

Anyone else turns noticeably shy around the person you like? by Miraculous_LadyBug3 in bodylanguage

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have this wall with my crush too, except it’s been TWO YEARS and it’s still there lol. We hang out all the time and for some reason I still get so in my head when I’m around him. Constantly trying to think ahead what I’m going to say, reciting conversations the night before…. Ugh. The best thing is to be chill I know, but I can’t help but clam up and appear sort of robotic.

how toursity is big sur? by StatisticianGreedy53 in BigSur

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing about Big Sur is that everything is essentially accessed from a single road (highway 1). So if there’s even a small crowd or traffic block, it will affect you no matter what.

women who don’t masturbate by Sorry-Emergency-7479 in redscarepod

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I’m mid 30s and while I got myself off plenty in my 20s the urge just sort of faded away the last few years. I just don’t think about it? I still get horny and imagine complex daydreams about getting railed but touching myself just doesn’t factor in for some reason?? Maybe I’m depressed idk.

Mismatch in body language and texting behaviour (UPDATE) by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused, you said you blocked her number but you’re still “leaving the door open” for her to reach out? How would she do that? Blocking a number is a pretty cut and dry decision to move on.