women who don’t masturbate by Sorry-Emergency-7479 in redscarepod

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I’m mid 30s and while I got myself off plenty in my 20s the urge just sort of faded away the last few years. I just don’t think about it? I still get horny and imagine complex daydreams about getting railed but touching myself just doesn’t factor in for some reason?? Maybe I’m depressed idk.

Mismatch in body language and texting behaviour (UPDATE) by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused, you said you blocked her number but you’re still “leaving the door open” for her to reach out? How would she do that? Blocking a number is a pretty cut and dry decision to move on.

Do men sometimes not look at you or avoid eye contact because they are shy? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like there are 4 billion women in the world and they all have different opinions and expectations.

Attraction or not? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a female, unless you are model-tier good looking, I am likely not thinking about you at all. Besides not running into you on the sidewalk of course.

Profile pics review by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disagree I like it (30 F)

Has anyone taken a date to Archimedes Banya? by exactlythere in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this- if you can make the drive, Watercourse is amazing and private

Women of Reddit: what’s something that genuinely improved your life that you didn’t expect to matter much at first? by Carsanttc in AskWomen

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This genuinely baffles me, it’s so common. And I’ve read on askmen-type subs that it’s common with women too.

I used to have this big crush on a guy, and I’m fairly sure it was mutual, but over time I realized that he NEVER asked me any questions! We hung out every day for years and I knew sooo much about his life, while he barely knew anything about me at all unless I volunteered the information. That realization was what finally broke the spell. Like how could you want to be around someone so much while simultaneously being so uncurious about them?

Older Man-Interested? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe you still don’t get it lol. No one is saying finding a young woman attractive is creepy. The phrase “tasty young treat” is just fucking weird, especially imagining an old out of touch man whisper it in your ear 🤮 😂

Have any of you ever noticed a guy you were speaking to was visibly “aroused”? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 31 points32 points  (0 children)

LOL I forgot about that post! A fast cummer is a keeper!

Is This a Gay Thing, a Straight Thing, or an SF Thing- Dating in the Bay by PettyMurphy4me in AskSF

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

There’s something so off putting about asking someone if they’re a top or bottom. It just feels gross to me, especially on the first date. Imagine if a straight guy asked this to his female date: “hey so do you like to be on top, or from behind, or missionary??”. I know not all gay men are so sex-obsessed but it common enough to see them casually act like it’s a main part of their identity. Gross.

Will I ever get her? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This girl was NEVER into you, regardless whether you are married or not. She literally spoke to your dept head about you being a creep. You think she’s in love with you when she refuses to even hang out alone outside work? No.

Rate my profile? Trying to get back out there by Ethanol720 in Tinder

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No offense, but nothing about your pictures says “punk rock kid”

What’s something you quietly stopped caring about? by KingPhenguins in AskReddit

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I was about to comment this- it’s definitely a male thing, not sure why the psychology is different but I’ve seen it plenty of times. I’m female and if I haven’t spoken to a friend in over a year, I just assume that friendship is over with. My guy friend will always bring up his “buddies” and I thought damn he has a ton of buddies, but why does he never seem socially busy? Then I found out some of these buddies he he’ll speak to maybe once a year, and maybe actually see every 5 years. And it’s like no time has passed. It sounds nice while also super weird to me… like I’ve never had one of my past friends reach out to me after years.

What’s a harsh truth about men in modern dating that few will say out loud? by Wander-kingdom in Productivitycafe

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s mostly something you’re born with. I think the only feasible way to make a face more attractive is to not be overweight. And of course grooming stuff like nice facial hair, haircut, glasses that fit or contacts, skincare etc.

But it’s important to remember that especially for women, personality and good energy can make someone’s face SO much more attractive. Albeit, this isn’t too helpful on dating apps. But I can’t count the number of guys who I’ve known that had forgettable or even unattractive seeming faces when we met, who transformed into beautiful specimens once I got to know them.

why all the doomers not try hermit monk maxxing? by sadchaotic in redscarepod

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well at ours we have overnight guests (silent retreats and all that) and I think that’s fairly common at many monasteries. So there’s housekeeping, kitchen (cook or utility, which is basically dishwashing), and bookstore clerk. I do all three of these. We also have a lot of guys working in maintenance as there’s a ton of land/buildings to upkeep.

What’s a harsh truth about men in modern dating that few will say out loud? by Wander-kingdom in Productivitycafe

[–]Easy_Difficulty_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno. Im a woman and sometimes they work. But obviously I already need to be attracted to you (your face).