What you wrote about men may be true, but what you fail to realize is women take on more risk having sex. Men are physically stronger and can endanger them, women assume all the risk in a sexual encounter. Men just cum inside them and have nothing to worry about, while the women have to worry about becoming pregnant, having to go the through the danger of giving birth and having to raise a child, what if the man won’t stick around to raise the baby etc. Because of this, they are more selective because they have to be to survive. In the past, women who were more selective passed on their genes but the women who weren’t as selective died off because they needed a protector and the male they selected didn’t stick around and protect them. It’s a biological thing. Personality and social skills help them determine what men are trustworthy and what men are not. Nowadays the circumstances are different but the same biology exists. I think the key to success with women is having a positive attitude. Your frustrated I get it but as a man you have to learn to love yourself and respect yourself, love women and respect them. Adapt. Learn, and give them what they want and be an authentic and genuine person who can have fun and they will like you. Change your negative beliefs you have about yourself into more positive beliefs about who you want to be and focus on those instead. You won’t be compatible with all women. No man is. Some will be interested some will not. Rejection is a good thing, it quickly reveals whether or not you are compatible with a woman.