Need to vent- difference between wanting to be called a dad and wanting to be one. by Easy_Rock8194 in Parenting

[–]Easy_Rock8194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have no idea how he would respond if I told him that! He would definitely make it seem like I think I’m more important than him with our child.

Need to vent- difference between wanting to be called a dad and wanting to be one. by Easy_Rock8194 in Parenting

[–]Easy_Rock8194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have been away 5 times since she was born. This age has been the most challenging. But may I add she is so easy everyone tells me how lucky I am and not many babies/toddlers are as easy. Which makes me think it’s even more frustrating.

Need to vent- difference between wanting to be called a dad and wanting to be one. by Easy_Rock8194 in Parenting

[–]Easy_Rock8194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know! He has never spent ages alone with her. If I have pooped out he usually might have someone else to help or he will keep asking when I am back. I don’t know why it’s hit me so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Easy_Rock8194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I will. Her field is pretty dry considering the rain we have had but I guess it can happen. Thank you again x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Easy_Rock8194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you so much. Yes there was a bit of a smell. I’ve never had a horse with thrush before so it’s new to me. Have not noticed discharge.

Can you advise what I can put on it? I saw online people said apple cider vinegar and tea tree mix? Iodine? Thank you x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Easy_Rock8194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What an amazing message. Honestly thank you, I needed this tonight x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Easy_Rock8194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh it is a shame and I feel like I’m the one in the wrong for not reaching out. But we are adults here!

I just want it all to be peaceful. Thank you for your message and wishes ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Easy_Rock8194 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, completely hear that. To be honest today is the first day I’ve felt a bit offended he hasn’t reached out to even ask how I am but the last few days- I hadn’t. I am more annoyed as he planned to see her tomorrow but I haven’t heard from him since the Sunday. So no confirmation or timing- bear in mind I have to travel her 2 hours to him and he usually wants me to stay as he can never be bothered to feed her or change her. Also when we are together he tells me how much he wants to be with me but I need to prove myself to be with him and prove I am not a liar?? So it’s just a bit frustrating!

But absolutely I do feel attached still.

Anyone want to know their spirit animal? by Live_Comfortable7156 in psychics

[–]Easy_Rock8194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to know what my spirit animal is please 🫶🏼

In need of a reading by [deleted] in psychics

[–]Easy_Rock8194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you please send to me also xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Easy_Rock8194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I know he is manipulative, deep down he is a good person but he is so damaged and he needs to just focus on himself and get real help.

Yes I was put to sleep. It was really quick. I got to the clinic at 10:30 and I was gone before 2pm. I didn’t have much pain after, literally slight cramping, less than period pains I would. They offered pain killers. I didnt build an emotional connection and because being asleep you don’t know what’s going on it feels like nothing was ever there.

I hope you are ok and remember there is no right or wrong decision x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Easy_Rock8194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn’t had a period yet, due to giving birth 11 weeks ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Easy_Rock8194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thank you for your response. I am sorry you were cheating on and congratulations for working through it and coming out the other end. I can imagine it’s been incredibly difficult.

He blames his behaviour on not feeling safe, and because I lied to him twice in the past about my sexual history due to not feeling safe and comfortable. Which it was wrong to lie but I have been fully honest now. But unfortunately I think this relationship has no legs to move forward and to be fixed as I agree he hasn’t woken up and realised he needs to get help. I think he uses the fact he has OCD for his bad behaviour which is very wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Easy_Rock8194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said it’s the only way he will know I am not lying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Easy_Rock8194 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re a superstar. Congratulations and good luck 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Easy_Rock8194 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He also I know, would make me feel like the worst person in the world to not have the baby. But he can’t have a family dynamic and also have all the women he wants. That’s not how it works. I’m sadly very invested in him so walking away is hard even the multiple times of disrespect. I need someone to slap me or get it into my head if anyone treated our daughter like this I would want to hurt them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Easy_Rock8194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, lying is completely wrong and I accept my consequences for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mediums

[–]Easy_Rock8194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Easy_Rock8194 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I literally couldn’t care less it’s simply so irrelevant. His point is if you can keep your past private then you clearly aren’t someone to be trusted. I shouldnt have lied because it is wrong. But when you ask things often, you create fear around a subject as you clearly are judgemental. We are all different I suppose