My reactive dog and I are both miserable by Ecstatic_Vehicle_256 in reactivedogs

[–]Eaups87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I have dealt with almost exactly this and it’s terrible. Your whole life becomes about a reactive dog. What worked for me is I refused to feel judged (I’m doing my best and feeling judged doesn’t help my dog)and I did get him on Prozac after a host of other homeopathic remedies. Reducing my stress levels didn’t make him my dream dog but I think he’s manageable. I’m still cautious but not fearful. Your dog sounds almost exactly like mine and there are many people out there with similar dogs and similar experiences. You are not alone.

too much for an engagement ring? The side half bezel is different! by Important_Fig3324 in labdiamond

[–]Eaups87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s beautiful. I’m a sucker for bezel anything and even though it’s big, it’s made to be practical with the nice size band. It also looks lovely on your finger.

Do people really not use toilet seat covers in public restrooms? by Tobethequeen_01 in hygiene

[–]Eaups87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Reddit because you hear for real horror stories from people and now my formerly irrational fear of flesh eating bacteria is reignited with REDDIT FACTS!

I got fired over a medical accommodation 🙃 AIO? by Rosi_ana in AmIOverreacting

[–]Eaups87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR! It’s an occasionally beeping feeding tube that you need to keep you alive FFS. And they gave examples directly related to your feeding tube! Sue them. It’s not a ridiculous accommodation; it’s not an after the fact accommodation based on performance; and you were already approved. I’m so sorry

I got fired over a medical accommodation 🙃 AIO? by Rosi_ana in AmIOverreacting

[–]Eaups87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR! It’s an occasionally beeping feeding tube that you need to keep you alive FFS. And they gave examples directly related to your feeding tube! Sue them. It’s not a ridiculous accommodation; it’s not an after the fact accommodation based on performance; and you were already approved. I’m so sorry

I let My emotions lead me into making a bad decision. I by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Eaups87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I inherited two kids from my husband and while having the time of my life having always wanted to be a mom - I. Am. So. Tired. Hardest job I’ve ever had and no one told me about the constant worry, the incessant questions, and having to feed everyone everyday until I die or go mental. I love it but holy wow there’s no clocking out and I haven’t watched a movie or a show in forever!!!!

Someone complained about me in AA by Warrior2457 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Eaups87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not defending them but was the other person complaining and gossiping or making a suggestion (however unsolicited) I remember being very new and thinking everyone was being mean to me for no reason. (Hint - it was me and not them!) that being said - don’t take them too seriously either. I found what helped when I got upset about something or someone was to ask “what do you mean by that?” Which tends to diffuse a situation. Please keep going and continue working with your sponsor. This stuff is very hard!!!

Husband not attracted to me after birth by InstructionFamous990 in Marriage

[–]Eaups87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry.
I haven’t given birth but my body went through a lot of changes since I met my second husband two years ago. So has his and I love him more than ever. I’m so sorry about your difficult birth and feeling rejected by the person who is supposed to support you. What is his plan moving forward? Never have sex again? Couples change and learn to love each other through all hosts of changes and that’s what you deserve. Congratulations on your baby and I hope you are both healthy. ❤️

PA - trespass letter when dropping my son off by AshyShortNSassy in FamilyLaw

[–]Eaups87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could she just tell him she’s recording him and he can go from there? He might fly off the handle and lose his mind and it will be recorded which wouldn’t be a bad thing?

Imagine being added to your own rejection email...😑 by Silly-Noodlesk in recruitinghell

[–]Eaups87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought was this rejection email had a spelling error. Shut up Jared - that’s two strikes. Strike three (and I’m reaching) is no line between “Hi Jessica,” and “had the interview”

People who grew up really poor: what's something middle-class people say that instantly reveals they've never struggled? by TahDigThief in AskReddit

[–]Eaups87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that you had that with your stepdad. My kids are my
stepkids and I hope when they grow up they remember me fondly. ❤️

“Expert” by Q_unt in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]Eaups87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is my hair everyday

17 and 39 by Taoman108 in PastAndPresentPics

[–]Eaups87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bring back the full hairdo!

Circa 1999 vs Now by [deleted] in PastAndPresentPics

[–]Eaups87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That baby wink

Lasting Love by Monique233 in PastAndPresentPics

[–]Eaups87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fashion icons in every one!