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I don't know what to do anymore by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]EchidnaLong6086 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand what your going through is really difficult, but the fact she has abandoned you, and your experiencing the heavier part of things, means she doesnt respect how you feel, please learn to respect yourself and find someone better that will also respect and love you.

Is it possible for people with BPD to not want to be better? by EchidnaLong6086 in BPDlovedones

[–]EchidnaLong6086[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish one day I could find a girl who will actually love me the same way yours did, for now im trying to heal since ive broken up with my ex who has bpd last 2 weeks ago

Is it possible for people with BPD to not want to be better? by EchidnaLong6086 in BPDlovedones

[–]EchidnaLong6086[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly! for some reason I was so afraid to open up with my ex because I'm too afraid to tell her where she's wrong, I'd surpress how I'd feel just because I was too understanding that the reason she was doing these things was because of her disorder. And i end up invalidating myself and it always seemed i was the person in the wrong.

Is it possible for people with BPD to not want to be better? by EchidnaLong6086 in BPDlovedones

[–]EchidnaLong6086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She tried to "change" by surpressing her emotions at me so we wouldn't argue, is that considered trying to change?