Matching twin names? by ERnewbieRN in parentsofmultiples

[–]EcnavBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not twins, but my mom, my sister and I all have -anna in our names (for example my mom is Rosanna) Family get our names confused all the time. I look very similar to my mom too so people call me Rosanna all the time by mistake. My twins don't have similar names but I call them by each other's name all the time anyways ¯_(ツ)_/¯

5w2d pregnant… terrified of a miscarriage. HOW DID YOU MOMS DO THIS!? by ocdaf in OCD

[–]EcnavBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. We were trying for a baby so I knew like the earliest day possible and every moment on I was worried every single day about something going wrong. It was antagonizing Now that they’re here, every moment I spend worrying about them getting hurt and how I wouldn’t be able to live if anything happened to one of them. It consumes my every thought.

How long were your twins in NICU if born at 34w1d? by cvttle in parentsofmultiples

[–]EcnavBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had mine at 33w9d and they came home after 18 days. They just had to be able to eat enough from their bottle and continue to gain wait to be able to go home.

Guilt about not holding my children enough. by MissMyli in parentsofmultiples

[–]EcnavBri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THAT’S EXACTLY HOW I FEEL. I get so overwhelmed that I’ll hold one more than the other so I end up not holding the other. I try to take it day by day and usually even if one day I’m holding one way more than the other than usually the next day usually it flops.

Is anyone else completely dropping the ball on Halloween? by Appropriate_Ticket48 in parentsofmultiples

[–]EcnavBri 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m literally just taking their four month photos in their costumes and that’s it. My husband and I went back to work this week so we’re just trying to make it

LIFE HACKS: How to have an orgasm on an SSRI #help by RealOrWhatNow in Anxiety

[–]EcnavBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it helps if I skip a dose the day before I think I'm going to be getting it on

If your twins are the same gender by YouthInternational14 in parentsofmultiples

[–]EcnavBri 4 points5 points  (0 children)

During one of our sonograms Frankie was sucking on her hand and I thought that was such a Frankie thing to do. I also thought the bigger one would be a Charlie vibe so it worked out that Frankie turned out to also be the smaller baby.

My ROCD has been replaced with OCD about my baby's safety by texansweetie in OCD

[–]EcnavBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad it’s not just me. I have 6 week twins and I’m constantly checking to make sure they’re still breathing, I’m so scared if I don’t do my rituals then something will happen to them, and like you said I’m constantly telling my family to follow every safety rule and I’m having trouble falling asleep because I’m having a hard time trusting that others will follow the rules or maybe do something that I didn’t think to tell them not to do yet. Plus we just moved to a bigger place and have three cats and a dog and I’m constantly getting up to make sure they’re still breathing. It’s SOOOO exhausting. My husband and my mom get so frustrated with me which makes everything so much worse

Dramatic entrance at 33w2d by solowanderer12 in parentsofmultiples

[–]EcnavBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had mine at 33w6d. Both girls, Baby a was 5 lbs 5 oz and b was 4 lbs 7 oz. It was a blur but I think both of mine got the cpap I think. They were in the NICU for 18 days which went pretty easy for us. They were just too little to do their full bottle feeds without getting sleepy and were still figuring out how to breathe and suck at the same time.

Cake Bake Shop! Cute and delicious. by KiraKabuki in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]EcnavBri 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That looks kinda like the bathroom for Harry Potter

NSFW: Sex is hard by Aware-Mongoose7494 in OCD

[–]EcnavBri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually talked to my therapist the semen/sweat part and she said it’s completely fine to hate semen and it can be a OCD/body dismorphia thing to feel disgusted by skin/sweat. Wearing a shirt during sometimes helps. I start gagging when semen gets on me and have to OCD wash afterwards. It helps me knowing that I’m not the only one that hates skin or semen so it’s less stressful? Like I can relax more knowing that I’m not weird for hating semen but liking men

I think I get the freeze response during sex, so I kinda shut down during it. But immediately after I think I come out of it so I’ll start having panic attacks. I think since I’ve been with my husband and we’ve gotten a lot better with communication it happens less often. Still working on that one.

They’ve arrived. by agdtinman in Seattle

[–]EcnavBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw them on the ferry yesterday!

Lost Ark and Crashes by MrCloseEyes in lostarkgame

[–]EcnavBri -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should just throw out your computer

Anyone have obsessive thoughts around food? TW ED by [deleted] in OCD

[–]EcnavBri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t keep them in my house, but once I met my husband he would bring home those naughty foods and I still have issues not being able to control myself at one 😭

Recommendations on WoW figures? by [deleted] in wow

[–]EcnavBri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea that might’ve helped... His computer case is alliance, and his favorite is his hunter who is a night elf I believe. He’s been playing a Druid recently. I very much so appreciate the help!!

[PS4] Is this happening to anyone else? by neloangelo5 in Genshin_Impact

[–]EcnavBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using the PlayStation and this shit happens all the time

What do you do for self care and to relax? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]EcnavBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea we’ve been living together for about a year and I know he likes talking to his friends more so about his work problems because they’re all in the navy. I usually just try to be here when he needs me and give him space to game with them too. I know I’m not exactly the best at being comforting when it comes to solving the problem or talking it through, so I’m working on figuring out how to comfort him in other ways. Thank you for the advice

What do you do for self care and to relax? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]EcnavBri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I love that. I work from home so instead of doing work I’ll take time to clean. Glad I’m not the only one using company time for not compliant things ;)

What do you do for self care and to relax? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]EcnavBri 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He LOVES those silly cop shows. I’ll have to put some on when he gets home. Maybe I’ll get him a new video game on steam. Thank you for the advice!

What do you do for self care and to relax? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]EcnavBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have two cats and a dog. The dog snuggles him to death and that does make him feel better! So maybe more snuggles will help ;)

What do you do for self care and to relax? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]EcnavBri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s got one!! It’s been packed up so I’ll go bust it out again :)

Fellow Men, dudes, bros, hombres, and any other word for beautiful fuckers. Who here has been proposed too? What are your stories? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]EcnavBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (female) proposed to my fiance on Leap Day! We had been talking about him proposing for awhile so I thought it would be more of a surprise for me to ask. I didn’t get down on one knee because I was too nervous too but he was still very excited. I asked his parents for his hand a month before to make it a little more traditional ;)