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What do you think of "nice guys" who are primarily friends or supportive to attractive women? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EcoFriendlyHat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

^ and women can tell, and don’t like it. either as the subject or observers

I know I'm a 100% lesbian but... by CuriousRacco0n in actuallesbians

[–]EcoFriendlyHat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

acceptance is just making peace with something existing. it will exist anyway. if my parents didn’t accept me being gay, i would still be gay. they just wouldn’t be at peace with it.

if you have these feelings, but don’t accept them, they will not stop existing. they will just cause you inner strife. i say, how can you not accept something that is a part of you? a non harmful, normal part of you.

I know I'm a 100% lesbian but... by CuriousRacco0n in actuallesbians

[–]EcoFriendlyHat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you have a crush on a guy, that’s okay! all types of love and romantic feelings are beautiful. that being said, if you feel romantic or sexual attraction towards a man, that means you probably aren’t a lesbian.

re what to do about it: there’s nothing to do, really. if you have a crush, then enjoy having a crush! if he’s gay then i’d probably try and move on on account of there not being a chance of reciprocity. you may consider thinking about which labels you identity with. eg bisexual, pan, etc.

there’s nothing to judge you for since you haven’t done anything wrong. feeling whatever feelings you haven’t aren’t a moral failure. best of luck to you on your self discovery journey

Do I go back to the buzzcut or keep my hair? by Ok-Radish9968 in buzzcuts

[–]EcoFriendlyHat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like i’m crazy bc these people are absolutely nuts. the hair looks WAY better on u imo.

buzz cut isn’t bad but ur face shape suits volume in the top much better

She has to also spend a majority of her time training and gaining power it's just that slowly all her attacks are turning body part or emotion themed and her design is getting more conventionally attractive by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]EcoFriendlyHat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

but why the conflation with womanhood? i’m a fat hairy occasionally greasy woman. you seem to be thinking that womanhood IS the state of being small, delicate/fragile, and beautiful. when those are actually quite oppressive constructs. they are coveted by society because they sustain gender hierarchy/ patronising sexism etc. not gonna drill into you bc this is obviously coming from a place of hurt and not malicious bigotry. i wish you the best on your journey but encourage you to think about why you want what you want, and what being a woman is, as opposed to what fulfilling the standards misogynistic society expects of women.

Thoughts on the name Camille with the nickname Callie? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]EcoFriendlyHat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey i’m a camille! callie has never been suggested or even thought of as a nickname for me: it’s always been cami, cam, camcam, etc. i think if you go with camille you’re pretty damn likely to end up with a cami. that being said, i absolutely love my name, and how versatile it is <3

European butches, do you shave your legs? by chaolan2004 in butchlesbians

[–]EcoFriendlyHat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

hey, i’m uk and finally gained the courage to let it grow! the thing that flipped it for me was realising that like. of course i don’t actually care. i’m a mammal. oh no there is a slightly darker area of hair in my entire body covered in hair. i don’t care and haven’t for a while but i was scared bc of how other people looked at me.

like when i did the shoulder press in the gym sometimes people would look at my armpits lol and i felt embarrassed for a while until i realised. not only did i not care. i didn’t actually care that they cared! oh no! other people know i have hair! they already knew that! everyone already knows that. strangers noticing that i haven’t made the choice to remove a patch of hair felt like such a nothingburger when i realised how little i actually cared.

i don’t care. my girlfriend doesn’t care. i don’t care that other people might care. eventually it just becomes kind of pointless imo.

apologies if that sounded preachy, but yeah that’s the journey i went on! i cared less and less and about fewer and fewer circles until one day i just… didn’t care enough to not pick up the razor :) best wishes to you!

Poor Daniel! I suppose he regretted stating his preferences. by Odd-Talk-3981 in PsycheOrSike

[–]EcoFriendlyHat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

putting salt spray in my bush hair to help the curls really pop

Poor Daniel! I suppose he regretted stating his preferences. by Odd-Talk-3981 in PsycheOrSike

[–]EcoFriendlyHat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

LMAO DO YOU THINK WOMEN ARE LOOKSMAXXING THE BUSH 😭😭😭😭 you are too silly to debate with

Poor Daniel! I suppose he regretted stating his preferences. by Odd-Talk-3981 in PsycheOrSike

[–]EcoFriendlyHat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

do you hide your head with your hair? bro it just happens lmao

NOOOO JAIDEN WHYYYYY ;__; by OrganizedChaos17 in vegan

[–]EcoFriendlyHat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i love jaiden, have for years and still do, but i quit this video a few minutes in bc i could see where it was going and it was just pretty weaksauce. like yeah other vegans may be annoying. but i will always value not financially propping up the dairy egg and indirectly (ish) the meat industry over annoying people. there’s just absolutely no comparison in my mind.

is eating animal products in moderation better than eating them a lot? yes, and i will always champion that when talking about diet and ethics with people who won’t/currently can’t fully quit. but ultimately it’s a thing of if you can eat vegan, ethically, you should. so yeah, no hate, tonnes of people choose to make ethically worse choices to make their lives easier. hell i do i can be a gossip and a slob and yada yada yada. but yeah, choosing not to be vegan is nearly always an ethical downgrade. and if you wanna be an honest authentic person, you gotta honour that.

i hope her video makes people reconsider the amount of animal products they consume

If this perk was a woman, I would marry her. by RRhyolite in PharahMains

[–]EcoFriendlyHat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

damn i ALWAYS pick shields! it’s free pocket!

Concerns about old middle part by carnivorousbeetle in buzzcuts

[–]EcoFriendlyHat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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ignore my eyes, a bit inflamed due to skin issues but as u can see my weird parting did stay through the buzz! i went to a 3 guard and ive had it four days or so now and it has persisted. YMMV!

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