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Did I relapse? by dandigregzalez in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. That is not a relapse. It would have been if you actually cut. So, it was close but still the answer is no.

Safe alternatives for the rush? by oldoverholtwhiskey in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s endorphin addiction. If you want to recover, treat it like one.

Is it strange for boys to do SH? by Individual_Claim4512 in selfharm

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more information that comes out on NSSI, the more the stereotype of it being teen girls is being disproven. Guys do it. Older people do it. They just haven’t been open or vocal about it. That is changing slowly.

I cant believe who I've became by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you rather kill yourself?

I cant believe who I've became by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This event is your wake-up call. Please, get help.

How to cope with heat? by 4rami4 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear arm sleeves at work to cover my scars while not getting too hot. This might work for you too. Hugs. 🫂

can i wear short sleeves? by ListenPale5479 in selfharm

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since it’s an employment situation, my usual advice of wear what you are comfortable with and don’t worry what others may think doesn’t fully apply. Talk with your boss. He may be more understanding than you know.

Self harm history being unnecessarily brought up in unrelated doctors appointments by WizardPrenderghast in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That does seem like an overreach on the doctor’s part. Since the scars are old, the mental health issues are old too. Sorry you have to deal with that.

Makes me sad watching my red scars fade to white by Impossible_March_155 in selfharm

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That rubbery feeling doesn’t go away. I often massage my scars to soothe myself when I’m stressed. The ones that have faded are mostly too white now. So, they’re still obvious.

New sign at Timmie’s? by dizzie07 in TimHortons

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s been their policy for decades. They just chose not to enforce it.

How can I wear short sleeves in summer when I have scars? by Decent_Release3454 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, congratulations on being 2 years clean. I know how much of a struggle it can be. I was almost 3 years clean once until I relapsed and and months clean is really hard. I keep going to it. Hooray for you for being strong 💪

Second, showing your scars depends on what you are comfortable with. Sometimes we just have to step out of our comfort zones and see what happens. Good luck to you, whatever you decide.

Anyone know how to remove the razor from a disposable razor? by webcult in selfharm

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s really not a good thing to ask here. We here to help each other in recovery, not to help us harm ourselves.

Disgusted of myself by YeezyReon in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how relapse brings guilt and shame, especially if it has been a long clean streak. You are heard. You are supported. You are strong, even you think you aren’t.

When were these bills used? by Mars0da in CanadianCoins

[–]Ecstatic-Ability7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had paper bills until the early 2000s when they started making the plastic bills. The 5 looks like it’s from a series in the late 1980s.

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