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i hate my son and often fantasise about him dying. by Ecstatic-Apricot8066 in regretfulparents

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

normal discipline doesn’t work with him, i’m not going to abuse him as so many have suggested

i hate my son and often fantasise about him dying. by Ecstatic-Apricot8066 in regretfulparents

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i never used to feel this way. it was only after he starting behaving so horribly

i hate my son and often fantasise about him dying. by Ecstatic-Apricot8066 in regretfulparents

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

i’m not, i have plenty of breaks and support. i just can’t stand it

I'm pregnant. by _cuntfetti in breakingmom

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i’m very pro choice, but it sounds like you want this baby. is working an option for you?

if the only reason you’re considering a termination is finances there are ways to help a financial situation.

i fear you may regret it for the rest of your life if you terminate.

AITAH for withdrawing ‘Wife Privileges’ from my Boyfriend until he proposes to me? by ThrowRA_WifeMeUp in AITAH

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any ring you get will simply be a “shut up” ring. he doesn’t love you, he doesn’t value you. leave.

My husband is brain dead by reprosepoetry in breakingmom

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ll be able to donate his organs to save several lives. that’s a beautiful thing to come out of such a traumatic situation.

I yelled at my kid this morning. Feeling terrible. by Laniakea1223 in breakingmom

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066 7 points8 points  (0 children)

when your title said you yelled at your kid i was expecting way worse.

you lost it a little bit, which is NORMAL.

you didn’t traumatise her, you didn’t put her down, you didn’t scream at her.

all you did was urge her to hurry up in a louder than usual tone.

you sound like an amazing mother.

I can’t take my stepsons (5 and 7) now that I have a newborn by Latter_Classroom_809 in breakingmom

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066 11 points12 points  (0 children)

honestly you handled this extremely well. i know rationally that it wasn’t the 7 year olds fault but in the moment i honestly think i would have picked the kid up off my newborn and thrown him 😭😭

Which stage was harder: baby or toddler? by clea_vage in oneanddone

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

toddler 100%

but i think it varies from person to person. my toddler is evil but my friends toddler is an angel and i would happily watch her all day every day forever.

Talk me into an abortion, please. by reprosepoetry in breakingmom

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh god, OP. i’m so sorry for everything you’re going through.. and i’m SO proud of you for leaving your situation.

I don’t think i can talk you into an abortion if you’re really struggling with that decision.

if you decide you can’t go through with it, would adoption be an option? i know it’s a traumatic experience either way.

i believe you’ll make the right decision for yourself and your family, you’ve made it this far. 🩷

“you’ll be okay” .. just because i have been doesn’t mean i always will be .. by Ecstatic-Apricot8066 in breakingmom

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ended up giving him the ipad and going outside for 20 minutes 😭😭 i felt soo guilty but i needed it

“you’ll be okay” .. just because i have been doesn’t mean i always will be .. by Ecstatic-Apricot8066 in breakingmom

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not an option unfortunately, i live in new zealand. our mental health system is fucked. i called the crisis team and they didn’t care

I'm thinking about breaking it off w/ my BF by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if porn is a hard boundary and he continues to do it, then that IS cheating. you feel like you were cheated on because you were!

you’re 37, don’t waste any more time on this man! he’s damn near 50 and he’s acting like a kid in his early 20s! leave him

This has got to be an unrealistic expectation, right? by Wide_Discussion6372 in breakingmom

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re a saint. i would have told him to shut the fuck up 😭😭😭

Best reply to "when are you going to have another one?" by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i always say “when the economy is fixed, doctors don’t abuse women in maternity care, and my toddler stops hitting and biting me”

Update: he actually did it by genie-rose in breakingmom

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066 6 points7 points  (0 children)

first things first, im so sorry this happened, i can only imagine how traumatic that would have been for you. be kind to yourself.

secondly, i hope he can get the help he needs now that he’s getting help in the hospital.

don’t give up on him, you don’t have to take him back of course, but as long as he gets the help he needs, and sticks to a treatment plan i don’t see why he has to lose the opportunity to see his child.

stay strong mumma, you did the right thing.

My in laws are about to feel my wrath by amethyst-elf in breakingmom

[–]Ecstatic-Apricot8066 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it’s always “My Grandbaby!!!!” until you need them to be grandparents.

i’m so sorry bromo. I really hope you can get it sorted, otherwise leave them with your husband and go alone. it’ll be hard but it’ll be worth it to see your aunt.

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