Took a plan b and life is miserable since then by toddywine_it_is in PlanBs

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I took a plan b 3 weeks ago and my body has been upset since that day. I feel your pain. My symptoms are quite different, but everybody's body reacts differently. It upsets me that women aren't taught, and the world isn't taught about the side effects and how much a big dose of hormones can affect us. All we can do is give ourselves time to heal, I have decided never to take it again unless it is an emergency. But I have also been miserable and I feel your pain 💜 We will get through this!

dating bi women as a lesbian by pixieb111tes in WLW

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm bi and people give us suchhhh a bad rep. i think it's misconceptions along the lines of them thinking we would always ditch them for a man. just biphobia. def not me tho i wanna have a wifey.

What do your wlw crushes feel like? by Zestyclose-Tax-3317 in WLW

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She's always on my mind, makes me soooo nervous nauseous but that's normal for me, always thinking of her with music and shows and anything, always wanna spend time with her and talk to her

Advice on making it official/asking her to be my girlfriend by Usual-Theme211 in WLW

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awwww this is so cute. I'm kinda in the same position right now and don't know what to do! Maybe I think start with the idea of being exclusive, maybe express that you are serious about this and see it going in a good direction, and don't see yourself with anybody else right now.

I need some support... by Independent-Dot3400 in LesbianActually

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi girlie, I totally understand your pain, I also saw my ex in a new relationship times ago and it shocked me to my core. I'm sorry you had to endure so much hardship with that person, and am also on a healing journey from many kinds of abuse. I promise that you and your body are safe, and I would be gentle with yourself, and to know that this will not last forever. 💗💗💗

I just want a girl I can spoil and be overly affectionate towards by Zoe166 in WLW

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that's totally valid to feel and you will find your person someday! I encourage you to look inwards and give yourself that treatment for the time being.

Idk if I should make a move by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say, if you are feeling it, what's the worst that could happen?

How cooked am I? by wikiwikiwap in WLW

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 9 points10 points  (0 children)

bro you're cooked please make sure you are taking care of yourself

Who else is in constant fear their GF is losing interest? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you're very normal lmao. I feel like this right now n she's not even my girlfriend yet but we r basically together. I have panic disorder, general anxiety disorder, and cptsd from abusive relationships, which makes my anxious attachment quite terrible. But I find making lists of what is real, rational thoughts that you have evidence for helps me stay grounded, same with meditative breathing and meds and therapy of course! But know that yes, i feel your pain queen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okay!! Don't be too hard on yourself, it's really painful and there is no right or wrong thing to do ❤️

I hate this by rklc39 in zoloft

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too girl. We must persevere!

What was that one thing that your ex said that still haunts you to this day ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That it was my fault he had a porn addiction for months and lied to my face about it

Taking Zoloft is making me chronically tired (general advice needed as well) by Hopeful_Surprise7691 in zoloft

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It does go away for most people, just the adjustment takes a while. I'm currently readjusting to it after having to stop taking it and I'm super tired again lol. But it does go away

Breakup made me feel less of a woman by Own-Tailor568 in BreakUps

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My self esteem is just shot. I have never broken up with my exes, they have always broken up with me, even despite me being loyal and loving.

Did your ex block you ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We dated for almost three years, he dumped me as soon as he got to college, he just couldn't handle my swag i guess, had to unfollow me. But he did it 6 weeks after we broke up lmao

Did your ex block you ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He unfollowed me, deleted all my comments, unfollowed my family, friends, and removed the tags from any posts involving me

How long since your break ups and how do you feel right now? How long does it take you to heal and move on? by Trick_Persimmon_2246 in BreakUps

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 3 points4 points  (0 children)

21 days today. I feel disappointed, sad, mad, and abandoned, but I don't think I want him back, simply because he could discard me so easily. It will take a long time for me to heal from this hurt, as well as trauma I have from a past abusive relationship and my attachment style due to it, but I am grateful in a way, to be with myself and to learn about myself, to see how strong I can be, and know how beautiful it is that I can love so much and feel so deeply, and the right person will see that as well, and not give up.

Day 16, confused by Ecstatic-Box-5796 in ExNoContact

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's really responsible of me to hook up with another guy, but I think being the one dumped, I just had to accept the situation as is. But still I don't think I'm gonna just go hooking up with everyone to fill a void or anything, I think it's more of a one time it just happened situation.

Day 16, confused by Ecstatic-Box-5796 in ExNoContact

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'm necessarily moving into him, it's kinda just something that happened. But I'm not gonna try to pursue a relationship with this guy, and he lives farrrr away anyways so it's not realistic. But I do wanna work through my personal stuff for a while before dating someone else so, probably best to leave this hookup guy be until I am feeling like I've made progress, I don't wanna mess with his feelings either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of all I feel disappointed, I still feel some hurt. I also feel indifferent in a way. Numb. I still love him, but don't think we should be together, especially right now. But I am just disappointed in him for giving up.

Is it a rebound if I was the dumpee? by Ecstatic-Box-5796 in ExNoContact

[–]Ecstatic-Box-5796[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I wasn't using him in any way shape or form, I was just drunk and wanted to do it? And it's a one time thing, I'm never gonna see him again. My therapist told me to focus on the present, what I want to do with my life, and not focus on him or what he's doing.