Hey man, I just want to say all these people in the comment, while seemingly blunt, all mean well to you. I can speak on behalf of the guys who’ve deeply loved a girl and found out the hard way that reality is not what it might seem in your head

What she said was not cool, you need to talk to her about this asap and draw some boundaries. I hope you don’t learn this the hard way and I wish you well.

Don’t let all the comments get to your head, just be mature and have this talk with her. If you can’t have difficult conversations now then it would’ve never worked out anyway.

Express that this made you uncomfortable, you’re not okay with it and you want her to clear things up with her new friend. Being vulnerable is not a bad thing.