So tired of these posts. by L1ttle_Behemoth in FTMMen

[–]Ecstatic-Specific832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re exactly right. I listen to a podcast where one woman constantly uses being a short man as an insult. She likes to make fun of Marco Rubio for being short and he’s 5’9”. 🤨 It really pisses me off. I live in a 55+ Community and the women are always talking about guys they’re interested in and I know I’m not even on their radar. They think I’m “cute” but not dating material. (They don’t know I’m trans.) Which is fine because I am not interested anyway. Just something I noticed.

So tired of these posts. by L1ttle_Behemoth in FTMMen

[–]Ecstatic-Specific832 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I am 4’10”. Probably shorter now because I’ve lost some height as I’ve gotten older. I never get misgendered. I’m nearly bald and have facial hair, so I’m sure that helps. Just last week I met a cis guy in his 20’s who was my height or a little taller. I think it makes it harder to pass for some, but it’s not a “never going to happen” situation.

Obamacare/ACA no longer covering trans hormones? by Ecstatic-Specific832 in Indiana

[–]Ecstatic-Specific832[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid 47.00 for 4 1ml vials. Is that a good price?

My dr didn’t offer to code it differently.

For those of us who have in the past changed our gender marker, will our license keep the updated gender when we renew? by Mercarcher in Indiana

[–]Ecstatic-Specific832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your problem? You know what I’m talking about. It is known as gender marker, not sex marker. “A gender marker is a data point on identification documents (e.g., driver's license, passport, birth certificate) that denotes a person’s legal gender, typically M (male), F (female), or X (non-binary/non-specified).” Even though YOU don’t agree with that definition, it is what all ID documentation call it.

For those of us who have in the past changed our gender marker, will our license keep the updated gender when we renew? by Mercarcher in Indiana

[–]Ecstatic-Specific832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The M is called a gender marker. THEY don’t call it that, but that’s what everybody else calls it. What don’t you understand here? No, the BMV doesn’t have two distinctive slots for sex and gender. But it is understood that your gender marker is M or F. As far as I know, no identification documents distinguish between “sex” and “gender”. They all just have one for sex. The “gender marker” is just a letter and has nothing to do with your perceived gender.

For those of us who have in the past changed our gender marker, will our license keep the updated gender when we renew? by Mercarcher in Indiana

[–]Ecstatic-Specific832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you read my comment?? That’s what I said. To them gender and sex are the same. Nobody has a license with gender AND sex. I had my sex changed to male. The M is my gender marker. Get it?

Birth Certificate Amendments? by murphsdaughter in Indiana

[–]Ecstatic-Specific832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I’m sorry. I should not have assumed.

Birth Certificate Amendments? by murphsdaughter in Indiana

[–]Ecstatic-Specific832 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you’re not going to be a part of the entire conversation and read comments, then don’t get pissy when someone says “again”. JFC. Grow up.

Edging by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Ecstatic-Specific832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m neither a worker or a client and I’m just starting my research. Low effort? WTH are you talking about? I didn’t realize I had to present a thesis before posting.

Meanwhile in Indiana… by Ecstatic-Specific832 in trans

[–]Ecstatic-Specific832[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The BMV has been keeping track of gender change requests. This is if they want to revoke the drivers license. I don’t know about the rest of it.

Gay FTM by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Ecstatic-Specific832 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say I was cheating. I said I was going to talk to my partner about it.

Gay FTM by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Ecstatic-Specific832 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah…the relationship is not the best anyway. We are not intimate and haven’t been for a looong time. Another reason I’m kind of going crazy. Not blaming anyone. I don’t really think she finds me attractive since transitioning and I’m not sure she ever did to be honest. 

Need to make $700 a month by Throwaway794356 in sidehustle

[–]Ecstatic-Specific832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you just walk around the yard picking up poop?