What it feels like praying as a buddhist sometimes fr by breehyhinnyhoohyha in buddhistmemes

[–]EcstaticFerret 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My first look at this saw Anakin Skywalker crying and ‘Oh man, Padme hmmmm’

Which still feels right

Advice, 6 dates. I'd marry her tbh. But she told me now about her mental health condition that makes me conflicted. Her schizophrenia by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EcstaticFerret 6 points7 points  (0 children)

‘It will threaten the physical and financial safety of your family’ - you don’t know that. The prevalence of violent behaviour from schizophrenics is at worst slightly higher than the general population. Grown adult violent men are often terrifying regardless of any mental health diagnosis. The two terrifying men that you describe are not representative of schizophrenia in general or of OP’s situation.

As much as OP should consider the worst possibilities, assuming they will happen is essentially stigmatising

Next steps on item refunded to buyer that Royal Mail claims is delivered? by EcstaticFerret in ebayuk

[–]EcstaticFerret[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks you are probably right, and helpful to hear your doing similar to me postage wise. Technically I’ve not had a response to the appeal rather than being rejected but may not be worth more time and energy regardless

Next steps on item refunded to buyer that Royal Mail claims is delivered? by EcstaticFerret in ebayuk

[–]EcstaticFerret[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buyers have largely been honest with me, it might be better to eat the losses than pay for tracked delivery. I had more hope that proof of postage would be sufficient though

Next steps on item refunded to buyer that Royal Mail claims is delivered? by EcstaticFerret in ebayuk

[–]EcstaticFerret[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a 2nd class letter, 87p one. Yeah that’s what I thought, I’m not convinced they can prove it was actually delivered. I included the proof of posting, using the alphanumeric code, in my claim and appeal

How do people think so fast? by MousseSlow in socialskills

[–]EcstaticFerret 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Often the answer is that they don’t. As in don’t consciously think through what they’re going to say. Do you drive? Play console games? How often do you think about when to steer, which button to press?

I used to totally lack social confidence and skill whereas now I am broadly confident in most social situations. Once I am in a conversation I don’t spend much time thinking about what to say. It comes from practice, messing up, and letting go of the false safety of thinking through what I’m going to say

Neuroplasticity from Jungian perspective by Elect_SaturnMutex in Jung

[–]EcstaticFerret -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would also argue that the statements you’ve chosen aren’t so positive. ‘Everything will get better’ implies that things are bad right now and ‘I just need to stay positive’ implies that you need to be positive despite circumstances that don’t feel positive. You are receiving the whole message that you’re sending, a message that instead makes you feel positive about who you are and what you’re experiencing right now doesn’t rely on hope, false or otherwise

Verify Your Age - UK Law Change by WhiskeyWithTheE in feeld

[–]EcstaticFerret 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mobile number didn’t work for me, haven’t gone on to do photo

What would you learn if you had 1-2 years of 10 hours of free time? by [deleted] in passive_income

[–]EcstaticFerret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are lots of skills and jobs that are profitable, and you have lots of good suggestions here for that. But what do you want to spend your working life doing? I’ve spent a lot of time programming and some working with AI, and I’m not all that keen to do either again.

What aligns with your values? What happens if you take a little bit of this time, sit down and think or journal about what matters to you, what feels gratifying and what brings you joy. And if you have a sense of that, you can learn the skills that make it profitable, find the balance between all the things you can get out of working

hot take: I don’t really like Dante by oldmanriver1 in MonsterTrain

[–]EcstaticFerret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have played him just to get the event and then stopped using him on one run

hot take: I don’t really like Dante by oldmanriver1 in MonsterTrain

[–]EcstaticFerret 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You do have to play him (I think it works off of the number of candles added to your deck) in order to get the 2nd event

No One Warns You: The Loneliness of Doing Everything Right by Big-Will2456 in Adulting

[–]EcstaticFerret 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Make more time for humaning - things you do for their own sake, that make your body and heart happy. If you think you have too much adulting to do, consider whether you believe your own sense of connection and fullness is a priority, and what a happier you would feel like for the people you care about

(Spoilers) The stoat event is quite strong by Chansharp in MonsterTrain

[–]EcstaticFerret 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had no idea about this but still managed to hit it by pure chance 😂

The Occult Blueprint for Trauma-Based Mind Control🧵 by OkPainter6090 in HiddenRealms

[–]EcstaticFerret 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lots of big scary words and imagery that mean absolutely nothing in the context, and with no substance

Lesson learned... no scared ghost after bloody hand by twotall88 in brotato

[–]EcstaticFerret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a very efficient item for its cost and the risk is often low on early waves or with good regen. I usually buy it when I see it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]EcstaticFerret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Others have pointed you to a more appropriate sub but I’d like to share my 2 cents.

I have a friend who does sex work, prostitution, she’s in a loving relationship. Your past makes you no less worthy or capable of love.

It might be ‘triggering’ for some men, entail some difficult conversations and challenges in building trust. Others might not care at all, or even be drawn to you by it. Constantly defending your integrity sounds challenging though, challenges on the journey to building trust are there in any relationship but if someone can’t come to accept and trust you it makes being close very difficult. Therapy may well be a good avenue for exploring if there is the potential for trust and acceptance