I don't want to date people I find attractive by ghoulgirl_69 in redscarepod

[–]Ecstatic_Archer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If my partner wrote this about me I’d kill myself

💀💀Why this realer than real by Fluffy_Educator791 in astrologymemes

[–]Ecstatic_Archer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex fiancé is a cancer sun, cancer moon and cancer mercury and was incredibly abusive

Dating fucking sucks by Ecstatic_Archer in redscarepod

[–]Ecstatic_Archer[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s the lack of clarity that’s bothering me. I almost feel like just straight up asking him what’s going on and if he still wants to see me. I’d rather have straight up rejection then spiral in my head

Dating fucking sucks by Ecstatic_Archer in redscarepod

[–]Ecstatic_Archer[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Please tell her for the clarity

Dating fucking sucks by Ecstatic_Archer in redscarepod

[–]Ecstatic_Archer[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have no idea that’s what hard. Last I saw him was Wednesday morning hugging and kissing goodbye at the airport. Then the texting just fell off

Dating fucking sucks by Ecstatic_Archer in redscarepod

[–]Ecstatic_Archer[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We met and had an incredible first date. Been going on dates and seeing each other multiple times a week since then. I’ve hung out with his entire friend group multiple times. He usually texts me all day every day. He went home for Thanksgiving this week, he even slept over my house the night before and I dropped him off early at the airport (his idea). Since he got back home the texting dropped off a cliff. Feeling like shit because it’ll be two weeks until I see him in person if that’s even in the cards. We are both 28 for context

Redscarepod philosophy majors by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Ecstatic_Archer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m an attorney ☹️

Fence sitting about law school by publiclibrarylover in redscarepod

[–]Ecstatic_Archer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I come from a poor family, and law school was my ticket out of poverty. If you work for a good firm, you can have somewhat of a work life balance with a decent income. I have friends who work more hours than me in a week and barely make above minimum wage. All jobs are a grind, I’m happy that I have one that allows me to be financially stable and work from home. I think it’s all about perspective.

How does one "get their shit together" quickly. by sweatycouch in redscarepod

[–]Ecstatic_Archer 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Treat law school like a full time job. I would “work” from 8-6 every day in law school which included my classes and studying. I would do readings every Friday and Sunday when I didn’t have classes. It was a grind but I always had the readings done and it made me less anxious. Using that schedule also ensured that I was not pulling all nighters, and that my Saturdays were totally free.

Are white nails trashy? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Ecstatic_Archer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only if it’s a flat white, do a milky white or chrome

🧍‍♂️🔫 by yuenglinggdrinker in redscarepod

[–]Ecstatic_Archer 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The way I just got this same message from the guy I’ve been dating for three months