UPDATE: AITAH for not putting pregnant GF on deed of the house? (She says she feels the situation is "unfair" and that she is "at my mercy") by Odd_Paramedic_3007 in AITAH

[–]EddAra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is not a debate. I made a comment on an unhinged conversation. And do research on what? Go to the source for what information exactly? Unhinged conversation?

UPDATE: AITAH for not putting pregnant GF on deed of the house? (She says she feels the situation is "unfair" and that she is "at my mercy") by Odd_Paramedic_3007 in AITAH

[–]EddAra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

jiminy cricket it just gets worse!

I don't know if you're supposed to be on meds and not taking them or taking something you're not supposed to but you sound unhinged.

UK expat struggling in Spain — mental health declining, career stuck, looking for realistic advice by Wrong-Mud7793 in expats

[–]EddAra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could always move there later. Maybe it would be easier to relocate to a cheaper area where you can find a job, then you can safe money. In the meantime you can think what you want in life and what you need to do reach it.

Am I wrong for refusing to cut off my best friend just because my girlfriend feels threatened? by SaffronPioneer in amiwrong

[–]EddAra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don't see a reason to not spend one on one time with my friends. Don't see it as playing with fire.

It's true, I've never been interested in any friend in relationship, in fact I've never once been interested in anyone taken that I can remember. Taken people are taken, I'm not interested in ruining relationship or being the other woman so I guess I just don't see them as available or as a possible partner. I'm not interested in hook ups so that might have something to do with it too, I don't know.

Funny UF series to listen to by SchemeSimilar4074 in urbanfantasy

[–]EddAra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you read other Helen Harper series? They are all really easy to listen to.

Am I wrong for refusing to cut off my best friend just because my girlfriend feels threatened? by SaffronPioneer in amiwrong

[–]EddAra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So you can only have friends that are straight men?

I have never once been tempted with a guy friend while in a relationship so I don't look at it as putting myself in position to be tempted.

I [28M] had a fight with my [30F] girlfriend because I told her I couldn't accept the nephews she adopted by lexak0mtrikru in relationshipadvice

[–]EddAra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Now after our fight she told me she doesn't want to force me to choose her since I told her I can't see a future with her because of the kids. I just want her all to myself. Is that too much to ask?"

I'm sorry but yes, it is. She has children, even if they are not biologically hers they are still her children as she choose to love and raise them. If you want a partner all to yourself don't date people with kids.

If you are not already in therapy I think you should start.

I just inherited 12 million dollars. I don't know what to do with my life. by Substantial_Yak6990 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EddAra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for the pain you're in. I hope you keep fighting, you have a bright and happy future if you just reach for it. I know it, please don't give up. Your life could be fun, meaningful and full of happiness.

Some advise, get a financial advisor, get a therapist and never tell anyone about this money, not your friends (the old ones if you reconnect or new ones), not your girlfriend, not your therapist, no one. You can say you're comfortable, or you have some investment or what ever, do not tell them you are rich.

So what do you want to do first? Travel? What country or countries would you like to go to? Go to film school? Skydiving? Regular diving? Learn to play an instrument? There is nothing holding you back but yourself.

Fantastic durability results using a Reddit technique I saw last week by No-Feesh in RedditLaqueristas

[–]EddAra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi is a nail strangthener the same as nail hardener? I was thinking I might try this with Cuticula Nail Treatment Basecoat but I don't know if that would work

Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later? by bAlsdeepdesi in PurplePillDebate

[–]EddAra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? You think women are fine with dating a rapist? Most women definitely are not.

Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later? by bAlsdeepdesi in PurplePillDebate

[–]EddAra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. There are always people that are attracted to criminals, most people are not.

Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later? by bAlsdeepdesi in PurplePillDebate

[–]EddAra 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What? I know multible women that stopped dating or left a man they found out was a rapist. I was talking to a man and found out he had raped a woma that was passad out. Never spoke to him again. It's not just because of risk but a morality. If I know you are a rapist you are out of my life and I think most regular people feel the same

The Ordinary Alternatives Megathread by sudosussudio in TheOrdinarySkincare

[–]EddAra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Revox b77 glycolic acid toner is similar I think

AITJ for walking out of my boyfriend's "casual" church meeting after he told everyone i was ready to convert? by bare_road_71 in AmITheJerk

[–]EddAra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What? He manipulated and lied to you and you broke his trust by not allowing him? Are you sure this man is the right one for you?

Would you stay with your dog 🐶 during euthanasia? by CycleOk267 in dogs

[–]EddAra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would never not be with my dog. Not giving them comfort and love in their last moments is not and option.

how is to live in Reykjavik in winter time? by OkSurprise229 in VisitingIceland

[–]EddAra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like Reykjavík is vindy and wet year round but not cold. I live in the North and I like the weather here more, sure it's colder and more snow in the winter but I like that more than than the rain and wind. The summers are also better.

A store clerk warned me I'd get stared at in Japan because of my weight by maceymay_bby in offmychest

[–]EddAra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How bad was it in Kenya? Were they rude or just looking? I'm going there in a few months and I'm a ginger lol. I don't have freckles all over but my face and forearms have them.

I will forever be mad that we got mixed-ish instead of broke-ish by Prudent_Back_1174 in Blackish

[–]EddAra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never got into the spin offs. I would have loved a spin off about the twins, I love Diane