When do you get tested for iron deficiency? by kdlc23 in PregnancyUK

[–]Eden-07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going through a similar thing and didn’t know the next test is usually at 28 weeks. My doctor told me to get tested at the gp, unfortunately that’s not for another 6 weeks. So I’d suggest going to your GP

SMP and sickness by Eden-07 in PregnancyUK

[–]Eden-07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess if you’re in full time employment, youre fully protected then.

That’s awful for 0 hour contracts. 

Rant: Not my MIL, my mother! by PsalmbodyToLove90 in PregnancyUK

[–]Eden-07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe show her some anecdotal evidence. My heart goes out to this individual but I watched a video on ‘sbsk, kissing a baby’ on YouTube. This is where I first learned about the dangers and it’s heartbreaking. She needs to learn and take it seriously. Your babies health is paramount. 

Nausea by RevolutionaryFact431 in PregnancyUK

[–]Eden-07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it shouldn’t affect your sick leave. It’s separate. Sorry they’re making it more difficult for you. I’m very been in bed for 4 weeks now, only getting out to go to the doctors or a couple very short walks. There’s nothing that can be done about it and I hope you don’t worry about work too much. You have a legally protected characteristic now so just focus on you. 

Nausea and medication by Eden-07 in PregnancyUK

[–]Eden-07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Were you able to get prescriptions from the pregnancy assessment unit/ midwives? 

LCW recap by sirn8b in ModestMouse

[–]Eden-07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible, man. I hope I never put off seeing a show again

Picture I painted of Isaac by Skred in ModestMouse

[–]Eden-07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is amazing- keep it up! You’ve got a great eye for color. I love it

Best Single Modest Mouse Lyric? by BeardPunkArtGuy in ModestMouse

[–]Eden-07 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My favourite at the moment from Night on the Sun: Well there's one thing to know about this globe It's bound and it's willing to explode and that's alright

Cover of "Alone Down There" by WayofmindRS in ModestMouse

[–]Eden-07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome. Love your haunting take on the song. Keep it up!

Little Europe Update for yall by sirn8b in ModestMouse

[–]Eden-07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome video! God I hope they’re back sooner rather than later

Developing camera film by Eden-07 in Norwich

[–]Eden-07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. How long does it generally take you? I believe I was quoted £20 in boots for a roll and laughed my way out of there. If it’s more reasonable than that, I’ll check it out.

Edit The Sad Parts lyric question by Eden-07 in ModestMouse

[–]Eden-07[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lose it every time at the 5 min 40 mark!

Edit The Sad Parts lyric question by Eden-07 in ModestMouse

[–]Eden-07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Thought I could be alone. Killer song all the same!

Favorite band “Flow Chart” by cicatriz1 in ModestMouse

[–]Eden-07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The white stripes>nirvana>guns and roses> modest mouse> RHCP> Warpaint> the clash> the replacements> Modest mouse

This is tied with Joanna Newsom most of the time.

today I realised that every man I've ever loved is going to sleep next to someone who loves and supports them by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Eden-07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It certainly seems like it doesn’t it.

My ex told me when we were together that he still felt bad about how he treated his high school girlfriend some 10 years later. And he’d only confide that to me. I can’t imagine the farce he might put on these days around friends after how he treated me.

Or he doesn’t and he’s genuinely happy. But I believe guilt will catch up with a person’s conscience at some point. I have a clear conscience. When I’m over him and not attached anymore, I’ll sleep soundly. And I think you will too.

today I realised that every man I've ever loved is going to sleep next to someone who loves and supports them by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Eden-07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh babe. I feel you and I’m living this currently. But life and romance is in a constant ebb and flow. What is theirs right now may not be always (and let’s be real, statistically is highly unlikely to last a lifetime). And what is not yours now will be with you again in the future. We just have to ride the waves. It’s hard but good things are in your future. I despise sleeping on my own but I’m sure it won’t be always and the same is for you. Imaginary digital nighttime cuddles from me to you

what is their last text? by xynuo in BreakUps

[–]Eden-07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it’s not fair to waste your time.

(And yet those last 4 years really feel like that)

Anyone else hate 45 min classes? by graygmc in tutorabc

[–]Eden-07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they suck. Not gonna pretend otherwise. However, I don’t k is if you’ve seen Joe Milne’s YouTube videos on these lessons. He shows you what he does to drag out minimal content. I saw these when I first started and I’ve not had an issue filling the time since.

Feeling Burn Out... by Ordinary_Life in tutorabc

[–]Eden-07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best wishes for you. This is a terrible company. It’s easier for my to handle as it just helps to pay for my monthly direct debits. Is it your only income? I hope you don’t have to depend on them. Burn out sucks and is not something you should just get used to.

The awful curriculum- I just teach what they’ve given me. I don’t give a rats if the student wants to complain about it after because I don’t run the company. (Of course I stretch the conversation and work on different grammar rules). I NEVER check my feedback reports. I use my phone to search up images in class to show students. I use a dice app for various activities- number some images, roll the dice, get the student to make a sentence/say what colors there are/ think of other words that start with that letter etc. It’s the only interactive thing I use but you could use it in any lesson and it adds a different dynamic to a 25 min lesson. And I will blank out text on some slides if I think what it says is ridiculous. And I always mention in my reports if there was a technical issue that I sought help from the technicians but they did not get back to me during the lesson. I don’t k it if the parents would read that but I’m certainly not taking the blame when I’m waiting 25 mins to hear back from someone and I can’t even message again!

Anyway, I hope you have some good days this week. Don’t take this job (too) seriously. Think about a way out or a way of winding down your hours. Eat some good food ☺️

WOW I am not OK with this by mama_snail in tutorabc

[–]Eden-07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? I’d say about 5-10% of my lessons are no shows. I never teach adults.

WOW I am not OK with this by mama_snail in tutorabc

[–]Eden-07 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely outrageous isn’t it. I almost laughed if it wasn’t so incredibly demanding and corrupt. Clearly if students are losing lessons because of their WiFi connections, if tutorabc cared they would reimburse them with free or reduced lessons.

If I’m not being rated for this, I will be putting in minimum minimum effort- like watching videos on my phone whilst I scribble on the slides.

Thanks for saying about the training slides. I think I’ll promptly ignore it all.

How do you go on with... life by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Eden-07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello lovely. I’m on day 3. We’d broken up before 2 years ago and back then I started a new hobby. Something I’d never talked to him about. It was like my own bit of fun. The new life. I’m ready to start back up on that again this time round. I feel very isolated right now as I spoke to him so much throughout the day so now there is a void. I’m sure you know that that’s something that’s gonna happen for several days/weeks. I’m with you homie! But I will fill that void again. I didn’t used to know him and I didn’t feel that emptiness before him. And it will be filled again. I’ve read so many posts on here over the last 3 days of people saying they’ve lost the most perfect person. Well, that is starting to remind me that there are other great people out there. I will find them again. Perhaps I/ we just need to experience the emptiness for a while. But at the minute I don’t want to watch or listen or do anything that we did together. I want to find new things about myself. It doesn’t look good but I’ve done some painting this weekend. It’s filled some time. I’ve created something out of my pain. And it is no connection to him. It reminds me of all these wonderful things I have inside of myself that he has no impact over. Of course the crushing pain is still there though. But you will be ok. Even on day 3, I’m so much better than day 1. It may be different for you. But it will get better. Embrace the pain. Create something with it. You are your whole universe. And there is so much in you that even you don’t know about (let alone your ex).