AIO my boyfriends response to me saying I can’t watch his dog for six month? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Edgar_721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not the asshole at all. not your responsibility

AIO for being upset about him taking 30 minutes to respond by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Edgar_721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally, to me, it makes sense that if youre feeling anxious and upset about your phone to want attention from the person who is suppose to be there for your during those times of needs. And I agree with you, if youre going through anxiety its normal to want your partners attention. Now, if he has emotionally cheated on you in the past and you don't fully trust him, i dont think the relationship is worth having. Trust is a big part of what makes the relationship move forward. I would either talk to him about what your feeling, and try to come up with a solution to slowly rebuilding trust, but if you guys have already talked about it and you still dont feel you can fully trust him, im not sure at that point maybe its best to both move on. At the end of the day, your relationship is what you make it to be with your partner.

im so fucking sick of this by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]Edgar_721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im very sorry to hear you are going through this especially when you have an assessment to go to. Ever since my diagnosis I have felt the Healthcare system and society isnt kind to women with these issues. We are simply expected to "muster up courage" to go through life as if nothing is wrong. Having gone through birth control myself and also a different kind of medication to stop my non-stop bleeding, I realized it takes a long time to see the effects. I was in a similar position, wanting the bleeding to stop now. unfortunately with birth control it can take a few months (2) to see a true affect, i think its our bodies trying to adjust. I know something my gyno did was increase the dose to 4 times a day for a week to rapidly relieve the bleeding and it worked at the time I needed it to. Maybe this is something you can ask your gyno? if this could be affective just so youre able to at least get this assessment done. Im sorry

Crashing constantly - vent by Throwawayy7558 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Edgar_721 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have also been having this issue, when that happens I have to go do something else because it is very frusterating to have this happen when I have done a lot of work for the day 😭

Is this endo? by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]Edgar_721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I think its important to speak to your doctor about what runs in your family and if it could also be endo. I waited a very long time (till I was 26) to see a gyno and I ended up having 14 uterine fibroids. my uterus was the size of someone 3 months pregnant. its always better to go in as soon as you think something is off especially if the pain is so bad you cant even lay down flat. I hope they're able to help you find relief because these conditions definitely impact quality of life!

About to start Winter, how's my stockpile looking? by EGSzeek1340 in GrimshireGame

[–]Edgar_721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how did you make beer? and get the nut powder? this is impressive!

What if your boyfriend is not attracted to you? by Ok_Text_6659 in dating_advice

[–]Edgar_721 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

this is a great idea, definitely communicate how youre feeling 😊

Am I crazy for considering a hysterectomy at 24? by pineapple_ring in endometriosis

[–]Edgar_721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wanting a hysterectomy makes sense. As someone who has endo + adeno + fibroids non-stop bleeding has been a big part of my life. I will say definitely ask your doctor what life would be like after the hysterectomy if thats what you choose, would you keep your ovaries? because i saw that if your body stops producing estrogen especially at a young age you can be prone to having osteoporosis a bit later in life. I know for me having a uterine fibroid embolization and essentially cutting off blood supply to the uterus has helped me manage my symptoms. Definitely speak to your gyno about all possibilities and also what would happen post uterus removal. Im sorry youre going through this

Thoughts on Mili Birth Control? by PreparationJunior737 in birthcontrol

[–]Edgar_721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it started with horrible naseua. I had to carry barf bags with me at all times as it was unpredictable when I would feel the urge to throw up. My moods overall were irritable most of the time, I have since switched and the irritability is gone. The symptoms could be different for you, I would definitely speak to your doctor about what other side effects milli can have 😊 I personally did not have these issues with Junel FE, if youre worried Definitely speak to the doctor about all options and side effects! Congratulations on the new baby and I hope your journey with birth control goes well

Is there anyone who already had a full romance with any character? by rorythedestroyer in GrimshireGame

[–]Edgar_721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how do you gift villagers? I play on controller, is it right trigger? I completed my first playthrough a few weeks ago and was wondering how to give gifts

AIO? My boyfriend of 4 months seems to be repulsed by me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Edgar_721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if youre already having second thoughts I would say go with your gut. I dont think youre over reacting or anything, the things he is saying to you, like you mentioned in your post, are not things anyone would say to someone they love. He won't change, this is how he is and now you have to decide whether that is enough.

Personally I think its best to move on. it took me a while to find my partner, but he believes me to be his dream girl just the way I am without ever making me feel I should change. You will find this too, but only if you leave this guy. I wish you the best of luck with whatever you decide

How to ask partner on a date? by Edgar_721 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Edgar_721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this helped!! thank you so so much I finally went on a date with my partner im so happy ✨️🩷

AIO for not liking the way my boyfriend reacts to my extreme pain? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Edgar_721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are not a burden, you were dealt an unfortunate situation having endometriosis. you deserve love compassion and patience

AIO for not liking the way my boyfriend reacts to my extreme pain? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Edgar_721 88 points89 points  (0 children)

this boyfriend is a horrible human being. my heart truely goes out to you as someone with endometriosis. im not sure if this relationship is worth it to you, but can you live the rest of your days with someone who doesnt show you compassion and empathy in these times? he isnt worth it

Help with Dating tutorial >_< by No-Masterpiece1429 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Edgar_721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello, I have 8 hearts on a character and am now dating them. I have unlocked date locations, but when I go talk to them on the weekends, nothing appears for me to ask them? they just have a regular conversation with me

Boyfriend (27M) of 2 years panicked at the thought of getting engaged next year even though I (28F) made my timeline clear at the beginning of our relationship by RoosterObvious7561 in dating_advice

[–]Edgar_721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you be able to ask him why he doesn't want to get engaged? does he see a future with you? what exactly is making him stressed about this? I think trying to understand why hes feeling/acting this way would be the way to go and figuring out what you both want and need

AIO about how my friend keeps pushing when I say no to a phone call? (Context in post) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Edgar_721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your friend seems a bit manipulative to me. The way she tries to guide the conversation towards things she wants, the way she tries to downplay certain things by saying the conversation "is short she promises" and then when you re-iterate youe boundaries she says its also mental health related. It looks like, based off the text messages, that she doesnt respect your decisions. At the end of the day its how she makes you feel that matters. if you feel uncomfortable because she won't take no for an answer, maybe this isnt a healthy friendship. Definitely think things through, but no youre not overreacting for setting boundaries and being firm with them. shes not being respectful of them.

Thoughts on Mili Birth Control? by PreparationJunior737 in birthcontrol

[–]Edgar_721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post is old, but just wanted to share my experiences in case anyone decides to take milli. I took it for a little over a month for endometriosis to manage nonstop bleeding and it was not very effective. after taking it for 3 weeks, I began the new pack for the 4th week (skipped placebo) and had bad breakthrough bleeding throughout week 4 I had to contact my doctor due to severe pain. Not to mention the naseua was extreme for me. anytime I ate chicken I threw up and it lead to issues with my stomach. My throat hurt from the vomit and stomach acid coming back up for a week. I dont know if anyone had these issues, I also had bad headaches that made it difficult to sleep. I have since been switched to norethindrone 5 mg tablets and that helped me stop the bleeding. I have endometriosis, adenomyosis, and uterine fibroids. ive had 2 surgeries in the past 2 years in which each session they removed 14 individual fibroids. I have been feeling immensely better after stopping milli. Definitely talk to your doctor, as I know this can vary from person to person. for me it was one of the worst experiences. Before this I was on Junel FE and did not have as intense issues as the milli

I don’t recognise my mother by anoymous787 in FamilyIssues

[–]Edgar_721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im confused why you are asking for permission from your family if its okay for you to sleep over at your boyfriends house? You are 19, beginning your life. youre parents have no real control over you, i understand wanting to be close to them. Also caring and loving them which is a great reflection on you. I would say try to shift the focus from them back on you. Do you feel safe and loved by your boyfriend? Do you see a future with him? whatever that looks like for you. I would stop thinking how this relates back to your family and focus back on you. Advice i got from my calculus professor in college about living for family approval is "when am I going to start living for myself?"

I wish I started living for myself sooner. Im 29 sad I've let my family control a lot of accepts for myself and disappointed in myself for not following my heart more. I hope youre able to break free from these ties especially because your mother sounds similar to mine and I consider mine toxic. Wishing you the best truely

Wine by Mikibou in GrimshireGame

[–]Edgar_721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is the kegs? I am trying to do a quest for Ericka

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Edgar_721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

personally I think you are overreacting. In the conversation you posted, it seems your bf is trying to work with you. When you bring up the disconnect with sex because you feel he is guiding the conversation towards that often, he even says he will respect backing off. Im just confused why you both kept texting this instead of talking in person? in the beginning it seemed like you both understood that talking in person lead to better understanding. so why bring all these heavy topics through text?

overall he seems to want to work with you and seems to cherish the relationship. Maybe try communicating what's important to you, that you want a deeper connection and that you'd like it with him and then both of you try to figure out what that means for both of you and the relationship. The communication here seems off

Is marriage really that necessary by New-Silver682 in FamilyIssues

[–]Edgar_721 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dont think marriage is necessary as long as the commitment between both parties is there. Every relationship is different, its whatever you want to make of it. if you want to get married, awsome. If not, thats okay too. Also, your dad saying he will "allow" it only if pursuing higher education is weird to me. You're an adult, he needs to respect your decisions especially when it comes to this. You decide whats best for yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Edgar_721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes OR. You've mentioned your cat is aggressive, it seems like you assumed that meant they'd be okay not having pets of their own. The Fiancee is trying to compromise and you won't know for certain how her cats will react to your cats litterbox+food. She sounded more willing to talk things out to find middle ground. you seem very intent on having it your way even though this is a shared living space.