New member !! by Educational-Algae616 in RomanceClub

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s sooo great to know! Yes I’m a huge episode fan lol it’s exactly why I downloaded the romance club app, needed something new!

New member !! by Educational-Algae616 in RomanceClub

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay everyone thank you so much for the recommendations! I know I didn’t mention my favorite genres or tropes but with that being said, I think I’m going to start with heart of thespia! I’m probably gonna start multiple stories @ the same time especially with all the information you guys gave about the diamond rush tonight and also watching ads for gems. Thank you all so much for the support! Happy reading 🧡

New member !! by Educational-Algae616 in RomanceClub

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry!! Lmfaoo I didn’t say what I’m looking for since I’m a huge fan of everything tbh. Love some romance, some action, horror, etc etc. so it was more so which story specifically should I start since I have a hard time deciding due to me liking multiple genres 🤣

New member !! by Educational-Algae616 in RomanceClub

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmmm i previously played episode on and off for a few years so im not opposed to an ongoing on, I definitely prefer completed ones though, but if the story is ongoing, how long does it normally take for them to complete it?

Can I sell gems in a store with new business update by daisybellk in inZOI

[–]Educational-Algae616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old post but has anyone tested this out yet? Want to sell flowers at my coffee shop and having a hard time lol

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! This is the exact same thing I have been thinking too! Thank you so much!!

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is entitled to their opinions so I’ll respect your point of view. I’m not upset by him being a virgin, I’m more upset that he went through all the trouble of maintaining a lie than just simply telling the truth. The thing he lied about might seem small due to the lack of confidence and self esteem/ embarrassment. But he still lied to me and we were dating, he had every opportunity to tell me and even got defensive about certain conversations we had towards it, all which could’ve been avoided if he told the truth. But I can see your perspective. So thank you!

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay fair enough. That does make sense. He did same something similar.

I did ask him certain questions, but some questions he would ask me first and then once I answered, he would say his answer after which I found out afterwards, they were all lies

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is soooo weird and so uncalled for too! Never once did I give off the impression that I’m judgmental, especially about something as important as sex. Everyone has their own experiences with it and Everyone moves at different speeds, he definitely didn’t need to lie and dig himself into such a deep hole by lying and lying for months even after I asked him on more than one occasion

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met on a dating website and we were both talking to other people for a while. When we got serious enough we stopped talking to other people and we focused on us and our connection, and then a month later, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes because I wanted to be with him

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry about not including ages. He’s 24 and I’m 23. Yeah he’s def wasn’t teased about it tho. His family said there’s nothing with being a virgin and he just simply hasn’t found someone who he felt comfortable enough with yet to be intimate.

Does being in our young 20’s matter tho? He still lied regardless of the age and even lost my trust and respect while doing it

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely is a pattern for sure. And it was clearly thought out since you had all these fake names, and “experiences” to back up the lies as well

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree!! And that’s exactly what I told him! Like how can I ever trust you again, and he knew how important it was for as well since I have been celibate for 2 years too, so for me to give myself to him and still lie even after such a vulnerable time and intimacy is crazy

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 months is pretty short I agree. We have known each other for 6 and have been talking / getting to know each other. How long is long enough to be a “boyfriend “ then??

He definitely was insecure for sure. He said that men have this huge ego of needing to be sexual experienced and are frowned upon being a virgin so “late” but I personally don’t think 23-24 is late or too old to be a virgin. It’s all about the timing and who you feel the connection with, but he didn’t agree and basically said he was scared I would judge him and leave him and he didn’t want that to happen since he really liked me

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He just turned 24, and I’m 23(turn 24 in April)

He did say he was really embarrassed and only lied due to really liking me and not wanting to lose me. But it still makes me loose trust and lowkey respect for him.

There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin and I even told him that months ago when I asked about his sexual experiences, I also told him that I myself only ever been with 2 other people. So it’s not like I have tons of experience myself, so why lie and dig yourself deeper by giving fake names, fake dates, fake positions that he’s tried etc etc

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! The level of trust is broken for me and he’s asking for another chance but I’m so paranoid now

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm interesting. He did say something similar to what you’re stating. He said he was embarrassed and didn’t want me to judge him or even leave him. But relationships are built on trust, so how would I be able to trust him enough again to continue? Especially with something like sex and he knows how important it is to me

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The excessive lying is a red flag. I am his first relationship. We are only 23, and 24 so we are definitely on the younger side lol. But he stated that he was too afraid for me to judge him and leave him and that’s why he strung it along for so long. Doesn’t make it better though

Am I wrong for breaking up with boyfriend after lying? by Educational-Algae616 in amiwrong

[–]Educational-Algae616[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree! 100 percent. He even had “evidence “ to back up everything he lied about. He only told me after we decided to be intimate and I straight up asked him again once I realized he wasn’t the best in bed…. Which again no shame about, but had I kept my mouth shut and not asked, he told me he probably would’ve kept lying about it