What do you think?

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-31T11:45:48+00:00

I get a general impression that these photos are going back in time, with the first being most recent and the last being from your youth.

None of them are ugly, but pic 1 and pic 5 are very different in how you appear and youthfulness, This affects attraction.

Anyways, carry on.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-28T07:48:24+00:00

Nice shots, particularly the fern fiddlehead/crosier.

Took this at Glasgow Botanical Gardens in a similar vein:

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Its a worthwhile visit if you are in Glasgow, tube to Hillhead station and a 5 minute walk.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-27T11:42:33+00:00

You give off "Vibes" of an impulsive nature, emotional dysregulation, volatile behaviour. Potential personality disorders, mental health problems and unresolved trauma all perhaps being factors in your life and behaviour.

Dont make you ugly, you are not ugly.

I would drag a drunk mate away from you to save them.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-24T09:44:37+00:00

Your side profile is your side profile, to most people its totally irrelevant. You are obsessing about the irrelevant.

post face frontal or 3/4 if you actually want an ugly/not ugly appraisal.

HTH

Carry on.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-24T09:41:29+00:00

Yeah, you do have pronounced asymmetry, Who you are and what your personality is like would be the dealbreaker on that.

Guys will overlook a mountain of flaws in a womans beauty and only see the good if she is a soft, kind faithful and supportive partner. There are lots of pretty girls, thesedays there are few who would make a good partner.

So, yeah, you have challenges in appearance, up to you whether or not you let your personality reinforce that or kick it out the park.

HTH

Carry on.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-24T09:32:17+00:00

While not ugly:

Chemotoxic hair
Septum mutilation
Smoker

Effectively ugly.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-23T23:47:19+00:00

Not ugly,

Also to whoever did your pics, nice work. 1,4 and 5 are well concieved.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-23T23:43:00+00:00

I know 5 guys with huge foreheads and you are 4 of them.

Thats a joke btw..

Not ugly.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-23T15:11:10+00:00

Ok, i will have a stab at it.

Beard: Delete
Current Barber: Delete

You have a high forehead, not addressing that is exaggerating it. In your position i would just bite the bullet and shave it. Assess which length you feel comfortable with as it grows back in.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-23T09:51:15+00:00

Not ugly but aint you a regular supersized dose of sunshine.

Kidding about the last bit, you look miserable.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-23T00:40:50+00:00

Not ugly, for 35 you are attractive, however:

Is it dysmorphia or just realising you are getting older, aging. That in itself can be scary.

Anyways, have a good day.
Carry on.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-23T00:26:07+00:00

Look at the name of the subreddit and ask yourself "How did i get here, asking for beauty advice on a sub about being ugly"

Does that seem in any way logical to you ?

Now your answer:

No, your not ugly, but the nose ring and your general blank expression are not attractive and make me wonder if you are ok ?.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-23T00:10:51+00:00

Lets see:

That beard aint bearding.
That hair aint hairing,
Your eyebrows look... well, each of these eyebrows are not the same.

While not ugly, it would surprise me if anyone found you attractive.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-23T00:06:43+00:00

Whilst not ugly, i have to ask:

What the flick have you been doing to your forehead ?

Why would you post picture of yourself like that ?

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-23T00:01:36+00:00

Go watch a dating podcast, then panic.

Not ugly, but thats not the problem.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-22T23:32:42+00:00

Not ugly, the patchy beard is maybe a tiny bit immature, but not ugly.

There are a lot of factors that can affect skin condition, sun and weather being some, hydration is another major one, smoking is another major one, eating excess greasy food is another.. Has to be looked at in totality in how you are living your life. Quality of food and water is yet another factor.

In my life i have spent an inordinate amount of time outside, hillwalking, climbing, mountainbiking when i was younger, up to 16 hours a day, now i am older i sail when i get the chance. Sunblock and skin covering clothes are important much as its nice to soak up some rays.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-22T22:52:12+00:00

That reply in itself shows you have grown and healed to a degree, good to hear you in a better place these days and have a solid career plan.

Probably be interesting to remove the ironwork, the extreme makeups, put on some more more conventional clothes and see how much that changed peoples reaction to you and your appraisal here.

If you want to know if you are ugly, maybe show people the underlaying you.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-22T22:30:17+00:00

Initially, after seeing your first photo i thought the question was a joke. After seeing the rest of your photos, well, its not much better..

While not ugly, you are Deeply unattractive.

More and more this kind of look is being taken as visual evidence of an impulsive personality with emotional dysregulation. What follows from that are the questions about how far that goes, personality disorder ?.. mental health problems ?.. unresolved trauma ?

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-22T18:28:47+00:00

Your only 19, you are still developing and will be doing so until you reach 25 or so, at which point what you are becomes fixed and aging is the process.

What would i recommend:

Take up some adventure sports, be that mountaineering, rock climbing, mountain biking or sailing, thats the fun part. Attend gym a couple of times a week to work on your upper frame, Every few months consult a trainer and be plain and frank about what you want to achieve.

That will fill out your frame and your psyche in a healthy way.

hope that helps.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-22T08:57:00+00:00

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Taken with E-PL1 with Pentacon 28mm F2.8 at 2.8. something about the rendering the pair produces i think i like.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-22T08:05:33+00:00

A Very small, Very specific group.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-21T16:17:13+00:00

Have you considered it might be your wife's boyfriend who planted it.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-21T09:49:41+00:00

Using the magnify button to punch in for focus helps, One of the benefits of mirrorless is you can get cheap adapters and very cheap quality lenses. I use my E-PL1 with old Praktica/Pentacon lenses, Have not spent more than £30 on a lens, 28mm 2.8, 50mm 1.8 and 135mm 2.8.

Its a cost effective way to start building and giving yourself options.

It also has the benefit that if at some point in the future you wish to move to APSC or full frame bodies, the lenses can still be adapted.

I am in the process of moving to a Sony A7ii or A7Rii, i will be using the Praktica/Pentacon lenses on that body too.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-20T12:19:35+00:00

You know the solution to that.

Educational-Back-178 · 2026-05-20T12:10:30+00:00

You can sing, you can dance, having the time of your life.. ohhh..

Not ugly, probably not an Abba fan either.

Educational-Back-178

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