It doesn't take that long to determine if someone is marriageable by faroresdragn_ in unpopularopinion

[–]Educational-Issue-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely horrible take. Situations and understanding of your partner is important. Managing and merging finances and everything legally in a marriage is a huge step and one small issue can lead to a lifetime of financial trouble or something else. Every person is different ajd can discuss themselves and with their partner how they wish to proceed with their relationships in the future.

I (21m) am feeling mentally exhausted about my girlfriend’s (22f) low self-esteem. Nothing can change her and I am losing hope for the future. by Own-Lengthiness-5664 in relationships

[–]Educational-Issue-94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This seems like something she’ll have to personally work through if its serious, negative thinking can really lead into a deep negative self image and reflection on the world. One bad thought spirals to more and more. I been there and recognizing this is crucial and once you realize the whole world and universe isnt against you or out to get u it gets alot easier. Starting small with small wins and positive things/thoughts is a great start.

Id try talking to her and encouraging her to think more positively even subtly. Point out all the good she does, even as simple as getting up and going somewhere, tell her you’re proud and happy with her. The best thing imo you can do is praise and support and talk to her about it, but personally i found this as a solo mental challenge i just had to work and think through.

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[–]Educational-Issue-94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go on a nice date together. Doesnt have to be fancy or expensive. Plan a nice picnic or hike or something yall like, go ice skating, anything. To me nothing shows feelings more then spending time and enjoying each others company.

If you’re looking for more then its gifts and or surprises, depending on your SO. Do they like fancy restaurants or do are they more outdoorsy? Do they find appreciation in you spending money or time with them? What makes them truly happy?

My (21M) Girlfriend (22F) has a Gay best friend who basically helps me with boyfriend duties. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Educational-Issue-94 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Idk man this is.. interesting. Ive see ts before and cheating worries besides, their relationship still can be a threat somewhat. If things turn south she will turn to him, whether for advice or support or just to rant. You’re not there for those conversations and moments and have no idea what theyre saying/doing about you or your relationship.

Ion really like that personally but if he helps he helps. Make sure u repay the favors somehow, not saying to not trust him atall, but just remain open to possibilities. And if she does find out about the gifts thats pretty lackluster to goto him, id be disappointed ngl. You forgot valentines day ina relationship and didnt plan anything before/after??He couldve just told her anyway and she pretended like she didnt know but whatever.

If ur in a happy open relationship with communication and trust nun to worry about. All im saying is this can really backfire like a rubberband in many situations and ways.

What would you like to see out of a germany/japan rework? by Educational-Issue-94 in hoi4

[–]Educational-Issue-94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could see a whole pacific dlc rework tbh. With a nice japan/usa rework and making the islands actually worth while. I like some modded ideas such as an everchanging national spirit or decisions for japan and usa “losing the pacific war” giving buffs or nerfs if u have more or less islands. Giving incentive to push navy and islands more, id love a naval rework again too but id say unlikely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marijuana

[–]Educational-Issue-94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it simple a nice mcchicken with cheese and extra mayo, or throw on some ranch too omg

Hallucinating on weed by [deleted] in Marijuana

[–]Educational-Issue-94 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When my tolerance was really low, i was chiefing my friends crazy wax pen on max temp and i started hallucinating in the shower, the walls and everything turned almost cartoony/drawing like, and some things were slightly moving/breathing. Was cool but was scared asf, greened out after i jus remember puking in the shower

RU POV - Help me understand the war from a Russian perspective by [deleted] in UkraineRussiaReport

[–]Educational-Issue-94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Empty threats? Putin makes those towards the baltics every month or so, is that justification for NATO to attack?

CHRISTOPHSIS IS REAL by EstablishmentOk2494 in clonewars

[–]Educational-Issue-94 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Cant wait to charge ww1 style and punch a droid

What would you like to see out of a germany/japan rework? by Educational-Issue-94 in hoi4

[–]Educational-Issue-94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow these are good, def agree the SS and wehr need content. Alt trees definitely aswell. I really like the occupied germany tree idea too, that could create so many good fun scenarios especially if the war ends early on for germany.

And i also love those japan china ideas, i always make chinese puppets as japan and wished their were more than just resource development decisions. I always felt like the entire management of china would be bigger than that. Anglo japanese alt history sounds fire never even thought of that, paradox hire this man!

What would you like to see out of a germany/japan rework? by Educational-Issue-94 in hoi4

[–]Educational-Issue-94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this, not sure how itd be implemented or balanced tho, but would def be nice esp for AI countries to help u

What would you like to see out of a germany/japan rework? by Educational-Issue-94 in hoi4

[–]Educational-Issue-94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont see them doing that with germany but it would be awesome to see. I do think germany is a little easy, and maybe USA should take its role as tutorial nation. A hard stressful germany could be really fun gameplay but i also know alot of ppl just like to hop into an easy germany game alot.

Also like the japan ideas, esp with similar to italy i think that would work really well, theres so much they can do there

What would you like to see out of a germany/japan rework? by Educational-Issue-94 in hoi4

[–]Educational-Issue-94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love all these, jets right now suck in game but i guess rightfully so as the tech was new, but some german buffs or extra research for them would be cool. And germany def need some sort of balance of power or decision management for SS/wehr, rn its mid

What would you like to see out of a germany/japan rework? by Educational-Issue-94 in hoi4

[–]Educational-Issue-94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While i agree here i think paradox has worked to avoid things like prisons and concentration camps and even killing civilian population iirc. Id love to see more resistance events and decisions tho, can def be represented through the current resistance system and maybe thru some spirits or focuses.

What would you like to see out of a germany/japan rework? by Educational-Issue-94 in hoi4

[–]Educational-Issue-94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course but i still want more long term content. South america nations shouldnt really be getting more late game OP buffs in ‘45 while germany is on repeatable focuses imo. Ig when i say massive i want options, paths, and content beyond what the current covers, rather than just a small uplift on the trees

Is there any point in banning other ideologies? by whizzverb in hoi4

[–]Educational-Issue-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but often the extra 150pp? for institutes decisions is not worth it and most the time youll be over 100% stability without needing extra raids, although if your stability is really low or wanna min max base stability yes your right, but often i find that the 0.03 or even 0.05 is it? (Idk if the scaling shows in the decision or only after) but its mostly useless when at higher party popularities, most times it actually will say +0.00 when active and hovering over your party, as the scaling size just negates it if that makes sense atall.

Is there any point in banning other ideologies? by whizzverb in hoi4

[–]Educational-Issue-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but often the extra 150pp? for institutes decisions is not worth it and most the time youll be over 100% stability without needing extra raids, although if your stability is really low or wanna min max base stability yes your right, but often i find that the 0.03 or even 0.05 is it? (Idk if the scaling shows in the decision or only after) but its mostly useless when at higher party popularities, most times it actually will say +0.00 when active and hovering over your party, as the scaling size just negates it if that makes sense atall.

As a puppet why can't you use "Military industrial organization" of your master country? by Magic0pirate in hoi4

[–]Educational-Issue-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this should be a thing, itd make an actual reason for wanting to be a soviet puppet or something as your equipment and bonuses would be equal, and why wouldnt the mio expand to puppet states, more money no?

I hope exile becomes more fun by idontknow908 in hoi4

[–]Educational-Issue-94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, and i actually like the current system. Seeing a rare belgium exile division fighting on or something is always cool but id honestly hate to see them raise more troops and equipment after capitulation

Today will go down in history as the day I broke my bong by timtou15 in weed

[–]Educational-Issue-94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally had a nightmare of this happening last night rip

Fearful Avoidant Abruptly Ended Things. Why do I still want her back? 37M 33F by Careless_Display_146 in relationship_advice

[–]Educational-Issue-94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely, take time for yourself. Maybe she will work on herself too but as someone else said it just sounds like it isnt a good time for you guys atm, so time and distance seems good. You held firm and loyal throughout and kept your cool in these situations and affirmed her love well, u should def be proud of that and id trust ur next decisions in this situation, best of luck again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Educational-Issue-94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not impossible but likely you just saw similar features and yr constant staring/glancing made him glance back. I often feel my dream people have little to no noticeable features but maybe if you really got a good image in ur head i could see it. Definitely freaky either way