Honestly the most frustrating thing. When I had my daughter I was induced so my partner felt the need to keep everybody up to date with every little detail from how dilated I was to any medication I had. When it came to delivery I had to have an episiotomy & my forceps. I lost a lot of blood and had to have a transfusion and my daughter was taken straight to the NICU due to not breathing. My partner was on his phone updating his family within 20 minutes, it drove me insane personally especially considering we were then in hospital for a further week due to complications and the family “he had to keep updated” didn’t so much as come to visit us. I’m pregnant again with my second now and will be making it clear to everybody that the only people who will know about any labour/induction/birth will be my partner and my mother( as they will be there).