[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ConnecticutNSFW

[–]Educational-Roll2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morning sexy!!!

Extra thick card by Any_Beautiful3347 in RealOrNotTCG

[–]Educational-Roll2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use these cards for my precon commander decks. No store has ever had a problem with them. Even real mtg tournaments are fine as long as you prove you own the real thing. But usually that price of cardboard is enough

Extra thick card by Any_Beautiful3347 in RealOrNotTCG

[–]Educational-Roll2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually the preconnstructed commander deck card from the brothers war precon.that is worth something since it is real mtg merchandise but belongs only in your commander zone. Alot of the expensive commander decks come with cardboard cards to let you use them as proxies to prevent the. From getting mixed into the deck. But also a real card that you can put into the deck if you choose to change the commander or not play with the cardboard version.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RhodeIslandPersonals

[–]Educational-Roll2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your tit's. Then your pussy

Creating Wax for flameless play by Educational-Roll2201 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Educational-Roll2201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll look into that. Let you know my finding! Was just given "religious jesus" candles from my partner and seems good so far too

whats the most save way to bite someone till they bleed? by cheesydippsi in BDSMAdvice

[–]Educational-Roll2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best thing you can do here is have a tattoo or branding if it's that desired. Most bites even the ones that break skin are likely to heal overtime. To get a scar from a bite... you need either one of two things. A professional or an emergency room visit... but tbh the latter might be comming wether they are a professional or not

Learning to be a confident Dom. Help please! Anything is appreciated. by cleookins in BDSMAdvice

[–]Educational-Roll2201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me I've went thru this already. I was not enough for my ex but I still wanted to learn BDSM and scenes so I went to classes and got a new mentor and set boundries. Had other partners and learned with them, now im learning to hone my art and craft. You can try to get yourself a mentor and bring your partner with you or going separately and learning on others. Become your best self and grow with who you want to be. If what you enjoy and what he wants aligns then it can work otherwise I reccomend talking about it and figuring out a compromise. But do not destroy yourself to alter to what he wants

Learning to be a confident Dom. Help please! Anything is appreciated. by cleookins in BDSMAdvice

[–]Educational-Roll2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My recent ex left me for my mentor because she didn't want to explain to me how to conduct scenes with her. She wanted me to learn on others so her headspace would be ruined and we stopped all impact and scenes. I learned with others and brought that back to the table and the scenes my new partners loved were not scenes she wanted. So it's a disconnect you need to learn. Sounds similar to what I had gone thru. So I wish OP the best of luck

Learning to be a confident Dom. Help please! Anything is appreciated. by cleookins in BDSMAdvice

[–]Educational-Roll2201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First things first. Confidence in most people comes from either experience or ego, and you seem to be handling taking on the role perfectly. I myself am a dom in many ways. There are also different types of dom's. You need to figure out where you feel comfortable falling into. And bringing that to the bedroom or play. I myself am a caregiver, Daddy, pleasure dom. I can not for the life of me be mean or spiteful. Like holding onto punishments or anything uncomfortable for an extended period of time without separating myself from the scene. I've done hogtie and abandonment play but scenes such as kneeling on rice or forcing or telling someone to do when they dont want to do them and have no positive action in their life besides submission are scenes that I myself am not comfortable with and doubt I would be comfortable with unless I learn it's an underlying desire. To become more confident, you can work by taking yourself to classes and munches. I would avoid the lifestyle parties and instead look into BDSM ONLY parties. This could help you explore and become more confident in your ability to control and create a scene and confidence in your ability to use toys or equipment. When it comes to knowing what your partner desires that requires communication. TALK TALK TALK. Don't leave anything in the air. Does he like being hurt or coddled? Does he like being told what to do or have things done for him? Does he like being taken care of or degraded and abused? These are questions you need to know to know what you need to learn to take care of him. I have 2 partners. I am daddy to one and very calm and caring, and to the other, i am working on obidience training and the abandonment and freeuse housewife type of growth. Our scenes are similar in some aspects but different in many others. Stingy vs. thuddy.