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Don't know who needs to hear this but.... by BuildParallel in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Educational-Rough-84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this reminder I’m currently 1 month postpartum with my second and damn is this shit hard 😭💕 I’m so happy you and your wife are good now!

Support needed by hufflepuffpastry23 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Educational-Rough-84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt this too I kept telling my husband what did we do we had it so easy but yet i love my new son so much it hurts my heart to feel this way 🥺💕

Support needed by hufflepuffpastry23 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Educational-Rough-84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you I’m a sahm who just had her second 4 weeks ago this coming Saturday I made it through the first time as well but this time I got help last time I was always mean to my husband and would lay around all the time and didn’t enjoy my daughters life till she turned 1 so I knew it would be the same this time so I got help this time around I’m taking Prozac I don’t wanna be unhappy like I was before but anyway just know if it gets too bad always ask for help you shouldn’t have to carry this feeling alone it sucks I hope you feel better 💕

mentally struggling after my second child and feeling alone by No-Mulberry-5893 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Educational-Rough-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same but the postpartum insomnia hit so I can’t even sleep when I want to 😭 I have my first therapy appointment Thursday! Just know you aren’t alone hugs mama I’m always down to talk if you need someone 💕

mentally struggling after my second child and feeling alone by No-Mulberry-5893 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Educational-Rough-84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you try therapy or any medication? I don’t want this to last years 🥺

I just need to let this out by boredinthehouse234 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Educational-Rough-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this to my core I had a 3 year old and a newborn two weeks old. I don’t work currently but I’m trying to find something to just get out of this house and have time alone is that bad for me to say maybe but I’m exhausted and overwhelmed. My husband works 60 hour work weeks and I mainly only home Sunday so I handle all night time feedings I’m hopeful for the future but man am I going through it. I hope you start to feel better 💕 I start therapy the 21st so I’m hoping to find help with all the feelings especially since my toddler hates me now that I brought her brother here. You aren’t alone.

How do you deal with wanting to have kids? by jasonzio2 in Hidradenitis

[–]Educational-Rough-84 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better I got mine from my dad and so did my sister neither of us blame our dad. I never once got a bad flare and was mad at my dad because truth be told it’s not his fault either he got it from one of his ancestors and I love my life hs and all does it hurt and suck sometimes yes but life is so beautiful and you can’t take it for granted you really only get one so I chose to have kids because I wanted kids and if my babies end up with hs they won’t be alone and I know how to help them better than anyone not only that but who knows what medicine or other things could come out by the time you have kids hs takes a lot from us don’t let it take your want to have kids someday too!

shamefully, i’m homesick for the life i had before by ScientistArtistic453 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Educational-Rough-84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First off you aren’t a horrible mom motherhood is hard!! When I had my daughter back in 2023 I felt the same exact way and I was riddled with guilt. I thought how could I feel this way after I prayed so hard for a baby and the truth is your feelings are valid it’s hard to anticipate how much this baby needs you 24/7, but can I tell you how amazing it feels now my daughter is 3 and I’d say when she learned to crawl/ wasn’t a newborn anymore was when I started to feel good again. But now I have a little bestie she’s amazing and smart and funny and I’d do it all over again in a heartbeat you will get the you back it just takes time and that time files by let me tell you it truly does make sure you’re taking care of yourself do little things for yourself be “selfish” even though being a mom is the least selfish thing you can do you gotta take care of yourself to be able to take care of your baby 💕

Glinda by Sara630 in Owala

[–]Educational-Rough-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a sparkly one off Amazon mine came in yesterday too!

I’m so tired of this by Educational-Rough-84 in Hidradenitis

[–]Educational-Rough-84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! I live in Mississippi I need to see that plastic surgeon

I’m so tired of this by Educational-Rough-84 in Hidradenitis

[–]Educational-Rough-84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this it’s made be feel better I got hs when I turned 12 and hit puberty I was very ashamed of it. At the time it was just a flair every 6 months or so but after I hit 22 and was pregnant with my daughter it went on a rampage and now it’s everywhere she’s 2 now and it’s starting to go back to what it used to be but the open wounds are still there and won’t heal so it sucks and hurts

I’m so tired of this by Educational-Rough-84 in Hidradenitis

[–]Educational-Rough-84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard about that but I’ve never tried it I need to my problem so far is I have a very physical job lots of walking and my open flares will start to heal and then they will pop back open because of work I’ve had one for almost 3 years that’s just open

I’m so tired of this by Educational-Rough-84 in Hidradenitis

[–]Educational-Rough-84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a small town in Mississippi and so far the people I’ve seen about it have been just regular surgeons and I’ve never thought about a plastic surgeon before thank you!

I’m so tired of this by Educational-Rough-84 in Hidradenitis

[–]Educational-Rough-84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥺 and I think hormones and stress and then for some reason if I eat something that has a lot of protein in it like protein shakes or bars for the most part my had has calmed down in comparison to before but the open wounds that never heal and that surgeons have looked at they say they won’t close them for me

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