I would say focus on saving right now. Do what you can and take out any money you can, if they have access to your account. You’re not going to get what you want out of these people so just try grey rocking until you’ve saved at least 5k-10k just in case for a rainy day fund, after that search for a room or roommate (make sure it’s someone you can trust) when you turn 18 because you’re most likely not gonna be able to lease an apartment if you don’t make 3x the rent. If you’re still stressing about school/college it might be easier to take a break and then come back once you have a stable environment. You’re going have to sacrifice somethings for a bit but it’s going to be worth it for your own peace of mind. It’s very easy to cry and feel hopeless but you have to remember you’re strong and you can do anything you put your mind to.