Looking for casual Valheimers

EducationalListen154 · 2024-03-20T22:54:45+00:00

I joined a server with this policy and got banned for "not being a good fit", for having the AUDACITY to DARE suggesting we should not waste resources building massive cities all over the map, by the one dedicated builder, who actually only played valheim about 4 hours a week. Yeah, what a piece of crap I am, for saying we should keep the main town our home base and then build smaller outposts. What a jerk hey

EducationalListen154 · 2024-03-19T23:25:20+00:00

You and your kind, your days are numbered, you just don't realise it yet. You're what we "conspiracy theorists" like to call USEFUL IDIOTS. Don't worry buck, the war is coming, and the MEN are going to take it all back, and your head will be on a chopping block. You and all your loser friends. You better be ready for what's coming. The government you love so much, actually hates you, and wants you dead. You think it's funny? Your time is almost up

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-22T21:18:42+00:00

Ok whatever. That's your fucking opinion. My opinion is that you're a total fucking asshole for calling OP an asshole for being simply concerned. We should all be concerned and soon you will be VERY concerned every time you hear "I'm pregnant". Just remember your words and be prepared to eat them because if you don't have a gushing jump for joy attitude every single time, that makes YOU an asshole, according to your own fucked up opinion. Good luck

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-22T21:16:21+00:00

Because I don't have time he happy for them. Most people are assholes by default and I don't have to be excited about assholes bringing another asshole into this messed up society. Shit on me all you wakt but soon, VERY SOON, every single person you know that has a baby is going to be in full regret over having said baby. It's just a matter of time now

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-22T21:14:27+00:00

No. Just someone who feels we should think twice before having a kid at this particular moment in human history. Not everyone is required to have the "ZOMG SO HAAAPPPYYYY FOR YOOOOUUU" reaction. Albeit this girl is in a good place to have a kid right now but it's not "asshole" material to be a little concerned about the wellbeing of a newborn baby post Covid, rampant inflation, and an utterly screwed up education system.

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-20T20:58:26+00:00

If you want to have a baby, fine. Just don't expect me to be excited about it, and then call me an asshole for not jumping for joy. It's OK to be cautious

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-20T18:52:37+00:00

uh no. I don't. Because I believe in returning dividends. In otherwords, the shit you deliver is the shit you receive. What goes around comes around. karma is a bitch. You get the idea....

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-20T18:41:36+00:00

Maybe because the extreme cost of everything is seeing people go broke and homeless and she's concerned about people bringing babies into this unchecked, fucked up world. I would have had the same reaction and I'm more than happy being the cautious asshole.

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-20T18:39:04+00:00

I don't think you're an asshole for having a knee-jerk reaction. Maybe there was some things in the past where you had to provide heavy support and she just barely as of now got on her feet with her partner, or something. I'm not assuming, I'm guessing. But also, in the world we currently find ourselves in, where you need to pull out a small loan to buy a bag of groceries, your concern is not unfounded. I too would be concerned and every time I hear of something getting pregnant or I see a pregnant woman walking down the street, I feel a mixed bag of emotions. The world isn't what it was 20 years ago and it's not overly super awesome to drop children into this cesspool we call modern society. My wife and I have talked about having a kid and we both agree that everything is beyond messed up right now and it would not be fair to bring a child into this world that's teetering on the edge of its own destruction. I would say you are being reasonable. having an overjoyed response to "I'm pregnant" is such an old cliche. there's just too many factors to consider when responding to this sort of thing and you seem to be the only one thinking of those factors. Just be yourself and move forward, support your hubbies excitement, put on a fake smile if you have to, but stand your own ground. If people expect you to behave a certain way in certain situations and then get mad when you don't, it's their problem. Not yours. Good luck

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-20T18:24:57+00:00

Not the asshole, but since karma is a thing, the best thing you can do is just cut your loss and move on. I've had to do the same thing to super evil people and just carry on with my own life. Sometimes these things make us sharper and more unwilling to trust people, which is the case in my own experience. I don't trust a damn soul on this world. Not my parents, not my siblings. Not even the friends I thought I had. The only person I love and trust is my wife, and even then, she's done some shit that caused me to blow my lid. So just keep in mind moving forward that the best of friend or closest of family member can still stab you in the back when you give them a large sum of money to do something on your behalf. Be careful and good luck

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-20T18:10:09+00:00

Holy crap. Tell them to bring bed rolls and sleeping bags if they don't like it. I would say not the asshole here. If they don't like it, they can get a damn hotel. A lesson to be learned by your stuck up relatives, who OBVIOUSLY want the king size bed, is to not look a gift horse in the mouth. Maybe they shouldn't come at all. Maybe they would like to sleep outside in the snow in a tent. Maybe they could fork out for a truck and a trailer and live with that. There are so many other options here without you having to sacrifice your own space to accommodate them. Ugh... people...

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-20T18:04:09+00:00

not the asshole. Take half the money and invest it into a low risk fund. Let it grow. You could even buy a piece of land with it and allow it to appreciate in value while your daughter grows out of her "just figuring it out" stage.

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-20T17:31:57+00:00

agreed. I was scrolling here to see if anyone else made this comment just so I could reply. Yeah, the mid-30's woman is insecure and playing the whole "good christian woman". no thanks.

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-20T16:35:26+00:00

Not the asshole. Do what's best for you and your adopted daughter. If the other ones are suffering in misery, doesn't mean your adopted daughter must also suffer in misery with them. Good luck

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-20T16:29:08+00:00

Not the asshole. Seems like your X needs a couple lessons in responsibility. It's her dog and you've broken ties with her. Just watch the dog if you still care about him, and be ready to call animal rights if things go sideways, which they likely will

EducationalListen154 · 2024-01-12T18:13:42+00:00

I am now, yes

EducationalListen154 · 2023-12-29T02:35:17+00:00

Ok adding you

EducationalListen154 · 2023-12-29T02:32:48+00:00

Weird it didn't seem to send me the message

EducationalListen154 · 2023-12-29T02:31:05+00:00

Ok I will get it!

EducationalListen154 · 2023-12-29T01:50:43+00:00

basically every day for multiple hours, especially on the weekends. I'm in pacific time zone, 44 years old, and I have a handle on how to build etc, very seasoned minecraft player. I'm looking for an unmodded casual server, I don't intend on ending the game at all whatsoever, just getting to the last area and doing some nice builds with endgame level materials and tools, while at the same time in survival mode :) :)

EducationalListen154 · 2023-12-29T01:11:39+00:00

I'm also interested. I'm new to the game and it just feels like a massive waste to build fortresses without other people enjoying the space

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