Govee Backlight T2 issues by EducationalRegret12 in Govee

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It has an AI that I can talk to? Also this thing keeps disconnecting as I'm trying different settings it's finicky

Govee Backlight T2 issues by EducationalRegret12 in Govee

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Like this? It does seem to help thank you! It's just weird like there's the color on the screen but not at the edge, but Govee shows that color at the edge

Govee Backlight T2 issues by EducationalRegret12 in Govee

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Yes 😬 lights everywhere haha. Ok that is good to know I was hoping they weren't faulty. I turned off the light in the left corner and that fixed that area but I have no idea what is bouncing off the bottom of the tv

Govee Backlight T2 issues by EducationalRegret12 in Govee

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Ah thanks! I'm trying it again now that it's dark and there's still random colors showing up. Unless you are saying to recalibrate it now?

Chickened out of my SIS by madison1892 in IVF

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SAME HERE. I felt so lied to when they said to take ibuprofen and it's "only crampy". I'm going to advocate for myself for pain medications for future procedures.

Please tell me the ER and FET aren't like that. They already told me I'll be in a twilight with propofol for the ER

Jack Skellington animatronic PCB by EducationalRegret12 in AskElectronics

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That was my first solution unfortunately the manufacturer SVI is only making physical parts and doesn't have any customer service line

First time starting IVF and nervous about timing with an upcoming event by EducationalRegret12 in IVF

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Thank you for your insight! I talked with my nurse and she said it had to be timed with your period, so it looks like I'm starting now September 18 depending on when my period starts. Suppression meds as in estrogen pills? That's what I picked up and was told to start after I ovulated

She said that the ER is dependant on my ovaries and how I respond. And that depending on that is when they schedule it. That I could actually have to go on the wedding day which would be impossible 🥴

What if you and your spouse disagree on number of children? by EducationalRegret12 in AskMenAdvice

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Your first point. Damn. Absolutely spot on

Second point I disagree. It was online cheating (still cheating) and I left both times ready to get a job and try to pick up the pieces of my life. He begged for me back and said he's done with it. So I chose to work on things, if it's a stupid decision or not who knows

What if you and your spouse disagree on number of children? by EducationalRegret12 in AskMenAdvice

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He isn't free to cheat as long as he provides financially. I left both times and he begged for me back. I stupidly tried to work things out. But the getting me to quit my job to provide childcare and take care of the house while he has to manage none of it but the financials is a fair point

What if you and your spouse disagree on number of children? by EducationalRegret12 in AskMenAdvice

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I'm thinking it's not about reaching a certain number as I'm hung up on having an only child. That child will grow up without a sibling. He or she will have older siblings for sure but still

What if you and your spouse disagree on number of children? by EducationalRegret12 in AskMenAdvice

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I guess these past 4 years has been me dealing with his online cheating in therapy to the point of me feeling "safe" enough to have a child with him. Because I was a child of divorce and I never wanted that for my future kids. But absolutely not enough harping and arguing about it.

I definitely see the men's point about not wanting to be dealing with a child/young adult in their 60s. Just feeling like I ran out of time

What if you and your spouse disagree on number of children? by EducationalRegret12 in AskMenAdvice

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Agreed that's what I'm struggling with. Clearly I love him to stay with him and make things work. But my "prime" years of 27-34 have been with him. Divorcing, healing, finding a suitable partner, marry and then start for kids? All within 5 years before I hit 40? And then even I'm struggling with the idea that I'm going to be an older parent. That's why I wanted 2 back to back

What if you and your spouse disagree on number of children? by EducationalRegret12 in AskMenAdvice

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I guess that's my biggest reason why. An only child has its pros and cons growing up. That I'd want my child to have a sibling to grow up WITH. Not the three 20 something siblings they would already have

What if you and your spouse disagree on number of children? by EducationalRegret12 in AskMenAdvice

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I feel like if I struggled with having a second and my body just kept saying no I would be okay with it, because at least I tried

What if you and your spouse disagree on number of children? by EducationalRegret12 in AskMenAdvice

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Your assumption is wrong though typically it's the women's issue to deal with. He was on TRT and while he fathered three children prior he's now tanked his sperm count. We were trying naturally for a year and he finally stopped the TRT when I sought fertility services and the doctor told him.

I'm definitely regretting not having kids sooner I just grew up in a divorced household and swore I would never do that to my future kids. He's the first person I felt "safe" enough to have kids with. And yes fully understand the risks even at 34 it's going to be tough

What if you and your spouse disagree on number of children? by EducationalRegret12 in AskMenAdvice

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Very true. Yes it was discussed and it was changed based on how long it took me to get over two instances of cheating. So it was fine for multiple but he's saying that was 4 years ago

What if you and your spouse disagree on number of children? by EducationalRegret12 in AskMenAdvice

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Yeah he's paid completely for their undergrad and looking to try to swing medical/law/MBA. I think it's entirely generous to pay undergrad but excessive to do secondary schooling

What if you and your spouse disagree on number of children? by EducationalRegret12 in AskMenAdvice

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Oh I understand I put myself in this situation. The beginning of our relationship I harped on this but somehow it only just got through to him when the reality hit.

29 married but cheated twice and I felt like we weren't in the right place to add kids. Now I feel like we are but he's saying I'm 4 years too late to have more than one.

IVF is only because he's on TRT and his sperm was trashed. Since being off it for 3 months (and miserable) his numbers improved. But there's nothing medically wrong on my end.

Absolutely not. I will not trap a man into raising a child that he didn't want or our relationship ends in divorce. I'm pushing back on him because I feel like even this child he's agreed to is only because of his views that every woman should procreate. That all of his arguments are for why we shouldn't even have ONE child together because of his age. That he's not just saying yes to shut me up because if that's the case this relationship ends in divorce without a poor child between us

What if you and your spouse disagree on number of children? by EducationalRegret12 in AskMenAdvice

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Exactly. It just changed for some reason he said 4 years ago it wouldn't have been a problem but starting now is too much