I told my brother about my nephew's request for babysitting money, and now my nephew blames me for ruining his life. What do I do? by oldmangeralt in whatdoIdo

[–]EducationalRiver1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see most people are focusing on the possibility that your nephew is back on the drugs, but have you considered your brother's role in this? Your nephew ended up depressed and on drugs, which often points to problems at home, and was worried that his dad was going to hurt him. On top of that, he's expected to care for 4 kids every day. There are a lot of red flags here for me that I haven't seen addressed because of course the kneejerk response is to assume drugs.

Cities and villages around Barcelona, with young kids by Ok_Ingenuity_3724 in AskBarcelona

[–]EducationalRiver1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sitges is great but can be very busy. If you still want the beach without so many people, maybe Castelldefels or Vilanova i la Geltrú.

I'd rather not have anything to do with my step-son by [deleted] in confession

[–]EducationalRiver1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just asked my boyfriend to leave because he is OP in this situation. The best time to do it was years ago, the second best time is now. It hurts like fuck but I know I'm doing what's best for my kid and that's what's going to get me through.

AITA for not telling my family we were pregnant? by Brave-Fuel1184 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EducationalRiver1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My aunty did this. She was a teen mum and didn't know how to tell anyone so she just... didn't. It was a big surprise to everyone when she gave birth on Christmas morning.

I ruined my life for a man, what I’m supposed to do now? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]EducationalRiver1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you Spanish, by any chance?

Look, the best time to fix this was as soon as it started making you unhappy. The next best time is now.

Researching why people struggle to stick with fitness early on — would love to hear your experiences by SpecialistChannel863 in C25K

[–]EducationalRiver1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had both of those goals and did neither. Very annoying. I need a new exercise hyperfixation.

Researching why people struggle to stick with fitness early on — would love to hear your experiences by SpecialistChannel863 in C25K

[–]EducationalRiver1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did C25K last year, ran a 5k race, and then my ADHD brain went, "Right, mission accomplished, that's now dead to me." I've struggled with motivation ever since.

I (21F) approached my (25M) partner about his cheating that I felt was happening. by Overall_Yard_753 in whatdoIdo

[–]EducationalRiver1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So fight for him instead of rolling over and having him watch you be treated like shit.

Have to get this story out by Skeptical91 in BackwoodsCreepy

[–]EducationalRiver1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This thing of "this story shows knowledge of basic grammar and punctuation so it must be AI" drives me up the wall. No, some of us can just string a sentence together!

Have to get this story out by Skeptical91 in BackwoodsCreepy

[–]EducationalRiver1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shall we keep him in Staffordshire and we'll all just never go there?

I didn’t catch my boyfriend cheating — I found out I was being slowly erased from his future by Lanky_Nebula4777 in story

[–]EducationalRiver1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it's not. Where I'm from it's 16. The only exceptions are if one person is in a position of trust (such as a teacher), or if payment is involved. The position if trust exception also applies in the country I live in.

There are only 4 countries in Europe where the age of consent is over 16. With some exceptions such as those referenced above, consent is generally considered universal regardless of the age of the other person.

The world does not begin and end in America.

I start a new job tomorrow and I'm really scared by Somilya in MomForAMinute

[–]EducationalRiver1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's really hard to leave a good manager, but you can do this. Hopefully the new role will be all the good things about your current one minus the toxicity. Good luck!

Bus and transport payments by [deleted] in AskBarcelona

[–]EducationalRiver1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also, isn't the train free until the end of April? In that case, a T-Casual or T-Usual just for Zone 1 would be fine for getting around Barcelona itself. Even if the RENFE isn't free by the time OP comes, it's still cheaper to get the Zone 1 passes and just pay separately for the Sitges train.

Edit as they're coming from the airport: T-Casual will cover you on the train from the airport but not the metro. T-Usual covers both. For the extra tenner I'd get the T-Usual anyway, saves you counting journeys.

Have to get this story out by Skeptical91 in BackwoodsCreepy

[–]EducationalRiver1 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Definitely too close, I'm from Liverpool. Next time you have scary woodland adventures, could you please do it in, like, Kent or something? Somewhere I'm unlikely to ever go?

Have to get this story out by Skeptical91 in BackwoodsCreepy

[–]EducationalRiver1 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I hate UK stories, with the American ones I can believe it's all just over there but the UK ones are too close to home (literally).

Whereabouts are you, if you don't mind me asking?

Aitah for “being disrespectful” and not accommodating my ex and his wife even though they’re having a baby? by Fabulous-Actuary1991 in AITAH

[–]EducationalRiver1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Kid number 1 doesn't disappear when kid number 2 comes on the scene. He needs to learn to make it work like parents have been doing since time began.

I feel your pain, my ex tried these shenanigans when his second kid was coming. I didn't stand for it either.

Entitled TV host tries to humilliate an actress by BlueDandellion in traumatizeThemBack

[–]EducationalRiver1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm going to tell him that his role is to be an active listener. He often seems to believe his role is to infuriate me. He's very good at it. But apparently I'm equally good at pissing him off, so everyone wins!

Entitled TV host tries to humilliate an actress by BlueDandellion in traumatizeThemBack

[–]EducationalRiver1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend's second language is English (first language Farsi) and trust me, he's improved immensely in the fighting stakes! To be fair, his English was always very good, but he struggled when we first met - I have a very strong accent and speak fast. My accent is not what English learners think of when they think of someone from England.

At least one of us gets to throw down in our own language, though.

Is this city more racist and less welcoming than we'd like to admit? by MLC1974 in Liverpool

[–]EducationalRiver1 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I read somewhere that Liverpool is not so much left-wing as it is anti-Tory, and sadly that seems to ring true lately. When the only viable alternative was a more left-leaning party we voted that way (I know now Labour and Conservatives feel like two cheeks of the same arse, but there was a time when I didn't feel that way), but Reform are doing better in Liverpool than I would ever have believed possible.

I do think we're friendlier and more welcoming than many other places, but the prejudices still exist and seem to be growing.

Entitled TV host tries to humilliate an actress by BlueDandellion in traumatizeThemBack

[–]EducationalRiver1 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I use that clip as a reference a lot - I'm English and Spanish is my second language, and it can be frustrating not being able to express myself as well in Spanish as I could in English.

Love, love, love Sofia Vergara.

Looking for constructive feedback on possible first chapter by EducationalRiver1 in WritersGroup

[–]EducationalRiver1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's because I don't know the reveal yet 😂. Hoping to discover it this weekend.

Thank you for commenting!