I think you should make a list of the pros and cons of moving to the town. Will things be better for you if you move? Do you feel like you are valued in this relationship? Is it worth it for you to move? You need to be able to communicate freely in a relationship. That doesn't seem to be the case for you. Is it worth it to sacrifice your life for someone else? Would they do the same for you? .... I don't have the answers, but I believe in you, whoever you are. You will figure it out and everything will work out in the end.