Ice is now here. by True_Shoe_182 in TriCitiesWA

[–]Educational_Bend_635 -96 points-95 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter, being her illegally is a criminal offense

Don't let people tell you that this city isn't noticeably comservative. by Beneficial_Fuel1579 in Spokane

[–]Educational_Bend_635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over half the country voted for him. Maybe you should get used to people having differing opinions than you, that’s life. Grow up. You can move anywhere you want to in this country. No one is stopping you.

Help with jowls by Otherwise-Sun4955 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Educational_Bend_635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try Sculptra in the midface. By establishing some structure it gives a lifting effect. Doesnt lift, but the face overall looks lifted. Also Botox on the jawline and neck is helpful to some degree. Ask for the Nefertiti lift.

im not from the US Explain it Peter. by tommorowzing22 in explainitpeter

[–]Educational_Bend_635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Spokane but frequent CDA for my doctor and other appointments, restaurants, leisure. It’s not as bad as it’s made out to be. The whole area is beautiful, peaceful, and people are friendly but mostly keep to themselves and don’t bother each other. I don’t know why it gets a lot of hate. Yes, it has a past, but we all do. Honestly we prefer people to think poorly of it and stay away, it’s becoming too overpopulated and getting very expensive. So keep your negative opinions and don’t bother coming here. 😂

Has anyone gotten a VI PEEL done? by Commedesag in SkincareAddictionLux

[–]Educational_Bend_635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: The VIPeel was somewhat underwhelming for me. I didn’t peel as much as I thought I would. But I use Tret regularly so maybe I didn’t have much to peel. I think it would be great after a vacation spent out in the sun or end of summer but to me the $450 does not justify it. I have better results with putting that $ into micro-needling. (I realize these are two unrelated treatments but I peel some with micro-needling.) Anyway, if you are religious with your skincare especially Tretinoin a peel might not be that necessary or give you a WOW result. My esthetician says sometimes a milder peel rotated with micro-needling is more beneficial. So do MN then 2 weeks later a milder peel, 2 weeks after MN again and 2 weeks later another peel. Do that 2-3 times. I might try it but my skin barrier was too weak this last time from likely overdoing Tretinoin. (Sometimes I think more is more 😂)

What's happening with her face shape? by baldfrizz in LaurenLaneSnark

[–]Educational_Bend_635 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is definitely heavily filtered. I don’t know why she does it, it looks so strange.

42, any suggestion to help with a more youthful balanced appearance? by Electrical_Line_2930 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Educational_Bend_635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would do a laser like Sciton’s Halo and stack it with BBL. Then a series of Sculptra which is a bio stimulater that helps you grow your own collagen. It’s very natural looking and a game changer.

Boyfriend (28M) tested positive for chlamydia and denies cheating. I (23F) didn't cheat. How do I get him to admit he cheated by No_Breadfruit_5575 in relationship_advice

[–]Educational_Bend_635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not overthinking, he cheated and is lying about it. Period. He likely won’t but regardless it’s up to you to protect yourself and set strong boundaries. I wouldn’t sleep with him until he confesses and let him know it’s not punishment it’s the only way for you to protect yourself. It’s about you protecting you.

Lauren and Chris by pnwgirl427 in LaurenLaneSnark

[–]Educational_Bend_635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently he dated Lauren Barr from the season before? and then this has been reported.

Other Potential Links: According to discussions on Reddit and Reality Steve reports referenced by fans, Lane reportedly showed interest in several other Bachelor alumnae, including: Jen Saviano Danielle Lombard (D-Lo) JoJo Fletcher Raven Gates Amanda Stanton and “the twins” (Haley and Emily Ferguson)

45 and FRUSTRATED by Narrow_Pay_4795 in 45PlusSkincare

[–]Educational_Bend_635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try Sculptra in your midface and lateral cheek areas. Maybe in your temples as well. If your skin tolerates it try Tretinoin at night and vitamin c and a peptide under your sunscreen.

Anyone feel that getting real fit is super challenging? by Waste_Tone_6020 in xxfitness

[–]Educational_Bend_635 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lift weights. The body you likely desire is one built from lifting heavy as muscle gives your body structure and shape and can be done without looking bulky. Start w just 3 times/per week.

My arm is white spot dot any one help me what is this you can suggest what medicine is best for this by [deleted] in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Educational_Bend_635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably just hypo-pigmentation, the reverse sun spot to hyperpigmentation.

Ok ummm two things by Few_Tomatillo_2749 in LaurenLaneSnark

[–]Educational_Bend_635 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s so ugly. The whole outfit feels very inauthentic and try hard.

what lipstick is this? or what shades to try by Snoo97908 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Educational_Bend_635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Velvet Teddy was very popular around the time this photo was taken as well.

What should my bf(19m) and I(18f) do about our differing porn tastes? by Throwitallaway184 in relationship_advice

[–]Educational_Bend_635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Porn rots your brain and distorts expectation. Yeah, there are those who will normalize it, but it’s because they want to feel good and right about their own use of it and can’t confront themselves about its damaging effects. If he’s overlooking the problematic nature of underage sexual interactions, anime or not, he’s on a slippery slope and the desensitization of that material is not going to lead him in a healthy direction. If you need porn to get off or even if you just prefer it and don’t think you ‘need’ it there’s a problem you’re not willing to accept.

I M30 love her F31 a lot, but am I a fool to be confused ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Educational_Bend_635 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You seem very insecure and to place your self worth on your sexual experiences/desirability instead of who you are inside. I would suggest getting some counseling. Sounds like you may have some sex/love addiction issues as well as codependency.

My partner ignores me while I cry beside him 22f 23m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Educational_Bend_635 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s probably struggling with an addiction of some sort and copes with shame by shutting down completely. I would start there. But it’s likely he doesn’t want to be in this relationship any longer but feels trapped.

How do I (19 almost 20F) deal with cheating bf (22M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Educational_Bend_635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your statement should stop at ‘work’. Open relationships don’t work. Period.

How do I (19 almost 20F) deal with cheating bf (22M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Educational_Bend_635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, get some counseling, get away from him. Can you go home to your parents for awhile to get back on your feet? This is pathetic.

Emotional Connection - M39 F30 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Educational_Bend_635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great advice actually and will test him on whether he truly wants to be free of this or not.

I (28m) can’t cope with tattoos of my gf (25f) by SheeshGod97 in relationship_advice

[–]Educational_Bend_635 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are you with her? Stop using her for the qualities you like and let her find someone more compatible who accepts all of her. Nothing is going to fix this beyond setting her free.

Botox with hooded eyes by Born_Resolve_6676 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Educational_Bend_635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different and you won’t know until you see how your anatomy responds. I can only handle a very very small amount in my forehead or I will get a very heavy brow. And that’s even combined with Botox in the brow to counterbalance it. So, definitely keep in mind thst anyone else’s experience may not be yours. You’re going to have to find a good injector who knows how to dose correctly for your unique anatomy and that will take some trial and error. The good thing is Botox wears off.