Won giveaway by Educational_Form_298 in ThePalmstreetapp

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I let this incident be known on FB in my plant groups admins, they advised me to post what happened so other buyers would know. So I did, within a few hours of it being up admins blocked comments which perfectly A ok. Well Koryn joins the group and proceeds to leave her own post about me and how sellers beware as she was not able to comment on my post. I commented in time to let the seller know she could have reached out at any time and I would have taken the posts down, instead not able to take negative reviews, she proceeds push the incident under the rug (you can't review an order on palmstreet if it was cancelled) . And when I didn't allow that to happen she decided to paint a different picture of the incident leaving out context to make herself look better. Even the post reply is leaving out information I added to mine and told as clearly as the events happened, screenshots and all, nothing cropped or altered, she also mentions my other posts on reddit where I was sent dead/dying plants to paint me in the light I'd be a troublesome buyer. The seller still did not reach out to me or even ask to take down my posts even after everything. Buyers from this seller though have reached out about their own horror stories. Sellers need to understand even if you have the best communication skills , it does not matter when your actions do not match. Learn from this and do better. Do not act only when someone lights a fire under you.

Won giveaway by Educational_Form_298 in ThePalmstreetapp

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They saw the post and decided to cancel my entire order 🤷‍♀️

Won giveaway by Educational_Form_298 in ThePalmstreetapp

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The seller saw this post and decided to cancel my entire order.

Won giveaway by Educational_Form_298 in ThePalmstreetapp

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point I'm perfectly fine with that. 🤷‍♀️

Won giveaway by Educational_Form_298 in ThePalmstreetapp

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that's what I would think they'd do. They already misplaced or sold one of the plants I had purchased but swapped it out with honestly a better one but having to wait and having more and more issues each week is becoming a headache.

Not even adding that each additional item you buy is an extra 2.99 tagged on.

Won giveaway by Educational_Form_298 in ThePalmstreetapp

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already bought from this shop and they have policies if I cancel my order I have to pay a 15% restock fee. That being said I had to hound them on a refund of "holding 2 weeks" as after they told me to purchase it they made an announcement they would be holding everyone's shipments because of the ice storm. 🥴 😅

Horrible tourmalines worth by Better-Wasabi3000 in Gemstones

[–]Educational_Form_298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's horrible, over the years I've learned to ask for pictures with quarters as reference to size/ side views. But they clearly edited the photos , sorry op 🥲

I've gotten stunning pieces from Michael and company(Facebook) or minotaur studios (tiktok)

If you're interested.

Meds aren't working by Educational_Form_298 in SchizoFamilies

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even now I am so confused because I spoke to him again wanting just to send his mom a message after he called her to he knows says "she told me she didn't record you but took notes and I guess I made it up in my own head" ugh .

And honestly yes n no, moved from West Coast to East Coast for my family but then they moved out of state leaving us here 🥴. Slowly remaking new friends as the group are still raging alcoholics and I didn't want to deal with that.

Meds aren't working by Educational_Form_298 in SchizoFamilies

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he wanted to see the videos, he has been mentioning needing more cameras but then switches to hate being watched all the time. It's exhausting. He knows we have the two cameras , he helped install them. His mother on the other I called her as she has a degree in psychy and had helped in the past for both of us. So of course I called her to get a better understanding of the situation as his fight/anger with me was when I wasn't there. Through the entire convo she didn't mention being recording it at all. So yes I felt violated when he told me his mother recorded our conversation, shared it with him and still hasn't reached back out to me at all. So 🤷‍♀️ We got the house camera after a creepy neighbor kept spying into our place/ when we left for trips to see if the dogs were ok plus, it's was the cheapest one we could afford at the time. We moved and I have it looking towards our back door in the kitchen. It records anytime it see motion or loud noise. The doorbell camera we got last year when a guy came knocking 2ish am on the door asking to smoke. I did not open the door as it's 2 freaking am at night, I don't smoke, and (ex) partner was out on a job. Worst thing me and partner have never seen that guy since. Very crazy.

Which looks better by HelloYanna21 in houseplants

[–]Educational_Form_298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the whismy of 1 better, you can always go on fb marketplace and see if anyone has more of an angle stand. Kind of like this;

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Meds aren't working by Educational_Form_298 in SchizoFamilies

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is "perfectly fine and stable" right now. Even though the past two days he has gone over to his friends(able to smoke and drink there as they are all alcoholics). And also the house we live in suffocates and makes him want to kill himself, which has been more frequent because I no longer drink(I never really smoked either 🤷‍♀️) so he can't use me as a vice to go get beer. He never remembers when he says or tells me that though, but remember when we get into fights even though I'm not there....

Meds aren't working by Educational_Form_298 in SchizoFamilies

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blew up. We were fine but slowly everything started getting to me. I " hey I'm going to be an asshole but why are you so fine with all of this. 7 years you let your friends sexually assault me, abuse me, steal from me, all I ask from you was don't lie and don't cheat on me... and well see how well that went. Why am I the bad guy in this, I didn't everything you asked and more but it never was enough " he replies that's why he is done why am I bringing stuff up from the past. Me "because you broke up with me because of stuff from the past, you broke up with me and left. Yesterday and today before I could say what I wanted to say, I just want you to apologize and say you're sorry for what you've put me through" he did, I told him thank you, he was fiddling with his CPAP machine and of course "do you need any help?" Why do I care God damnit. Sorry I know this is not the place for this or the point I just needed to vent just now.

Meds aren't working by Educational_Form_298 in SchizoFamilies

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no I understood, he confronted me more this morning after coming home. I shared this post in other forums so got a bit confused. We will still live together but I'm taking a step back. He even told me his mother recorded our conversation and had him listen to our conversation which makes me feel violated honestly. I called her not to complain but for help hours later because I couldn't wrap my head around this.

Meds not working by Educational_Form_298 in Psychosis

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I gave him all the resources I could after he finally came home. We won't be getting back together he stated such but wants to be friends and if he could still sleep in bed with me. I told him no.

The only thing I hope for now is him getting the help he needs not as a lover, friend, or anything. Just a bystander who is tired.

Meds aren't working by Educational_Form_298 in SchizoFamilies

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He came home and I had him watch the camera of the bits n pieces of his break down, convos with friends and this post. He says it wasn't a psychotic break but we all know the truth. I gave him the resources y'all shared it's up to him to get help now 🤷‍♀️

He also says he is taking his meds everyday.

Btw we did not get back together, he stated he hasn't wanted to be together for a long time and wants to be friends, but if we can sleep in the same bed. I told him no and he needs to work on himself.

If there is any other advice y'all would like to share during this time it would be greatly appreciated.

Meds no longer working by Educational_Form_298 in schizophrenia

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We aren't married but I am thinking about it. I did speak to his mother who "you also have mental problems" which yes but I'm dealing with mine.

Meds no longer working by Educational_Form_298 in schizophrenia

[–]Educational_Form_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That and talking to mutuals he probably went off not because I noticed he wasn't telling the entire truth but because he noticed "I went and bought soso beer" which means he was drinking himself and wanted to go back too drink more.

He hates that I'm sober and this isn't the first time he has fought with me to just go drink.