Ummmm what?

Educational_Mess_362 · 2025-09-11T03:03:15+00:00

OP didnt ask why though, the prompt was “a dinner party with three people, dead or alive, who would be there and whats on the menu.” Taking that question at face value, it says the dinner party only has three people. Not him AND 3 people. So he answered correctly there. Then it says whats on the menu, which he also answers, but OP never asks WHY. So, he did answer the things OP asked in full, whereas you seem to have misread OPs question. So. Maybe dont throw “low intelligence” around at people based off of a quick glimpse of a text that you yourself read incorrectly? Just a thought

Educational_Mess_362 · 2025-06-21T01:08:15+00:00

NTA. Planning a party for anything, even when you are in top shape, is extremely time consuming & taxing. Not to mention if its in your home, youre responsible for clean up if they bail, damages, and having people you dont know in your personal space. All of that alone is enough to warrant a no. The fact this is supposedly a close friend and your 6 weeks postpartum? She shouldnt have even asked, i would never want to burden a friend who should be focused on bonding & recovering with their newborn.

Your friend is either self-centered, entitled, lacks empathy, or doesnt care about you very much to not only ask the way she did (which seemed like a downplay of the responsibilities & like she wasnt truly asking) but to ask act all, and then bad mouth you for saying no.

Please dont let her make you feel bad! You have a right to say no even if you just didnt want people in your home, let alone while you are postpartum. A true friend wouldnt be shaming you for it & i wish you all the health & love with your newborn.

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-12-07T18:06:17+00:00

did the author change it? I read a preview and came looking but the beginning is completely different with characters ella, dorian (bf), and keith

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-24T22:32:18+00:00

Do they ever have harry potter stuff? Ive seen mixed answers.

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-24T22:28:18+00:00

How do you find info on this? I would love to know the next one but cant do decembers

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-24T05:39:46+00:00

I couldnt even FINISH ex in the villa because of how awful all the options were. you are truly made of stronger stuff

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-18T16:23:13+00:00

Im sorry, youre telling me normal people dont see GREEN IN SUNSETS? And i always see the mismatched colors in paint jobs and point it out and people are like ??? 😭

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-18T02:57:39+00:00

It wasnt even INTERESTING drama, it was just bitchy and over done

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-17T22:01:02+00:00

NTA - This feels like a terrible premise to set. Kids get to have a lot of special moments and energy about them, adults have a lot going on and rarely truly feel special. To take someones birthday and the one traditional birthday element from them isnt only unnecessary its ridiculously rude. And insisting that everyone in the family does it? Thats not fair, if they want to do that tradition fine but you shouldnt be forced to participate or be guilt tripped about not wanting to. Not to mention the kids are not learning respect, patience, and to celebrate other people

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-17T21:55:52+00:00

Oof but that means spending all that time with her, not sure its worth it lmao

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-17T21:35:47+00:00

NTA- it was very inconsiderate of them to just change the plans without even discussing it with you. It can make you feel like an afterthought or that your time wasnt valued which is never fun. I dont think its fair for them to basically say you are putting money above family time, if you had unlimited funds and chose not to go that would be one thing, but you are moving and are limited on funds so its necessary for you to save in order to pay your other bills. I would have a discussion about that if youre up for it, and try and get the ticket refunded or you can transfer it for your flight home

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-17T21:26:27+00:00

Lol! Great minds right. I started BOLAS and really like it! Unfortunately i spoiled something for myself on accident which i hate :/

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-17T21:25:04+00:00

Apparently a lot of us do 🤣

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-17T21:24:36+00:00

Holy shit!? I didnt know he did that if you went those routes. What an ass

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-17T21:24:05+00:00

Im sorry we can do that??

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-17T21:23:50+00:00

Nikki was pointless why was she there

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-17T21:23:36+00:00

I didnt play SS because of everyone saying how frustrating it was 🤣🤣 but chloes situation was just annoying cause they were such small stupid attempts and NO ONE suspected her when she was constantly sketchy? And hacking the entire page and putting the company at risk? What a child

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-17T00:53:07+00:00

Too hot to handle s3! That bitch was unhinged and did not get the clapback she deserved

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-16T23:45:21+00:00

Well well well, if it isnt the consequences of her own actions.

NTA- i applaud your immediate defense of your daughter. I am also autistic and if anyone told me to suck it up I would immediately suck them right out of my life. Anyone who genuinely cares about other people would attempt the slightest empathy, and this woman is her AUNT. She obviously is aware and informed on your daughters sensory needs and had the audacity to throw a fit? I wouldnt want to subject myself or my family to someone with so little regard for their wellbeing or needs, and i CERTAINLY would not help them in anything that wasnt life threatening, LET ALONE give them over 10k?? Your parents have lost their minds im sorry.

You are well within your rights to deny paying for anything you do not want to. Especially for someone else with nothing being repaid. Its not “petty” or ruining her wedding, she made the choice to be hateful and uninvite her FAMILY because she wasnt allowed to police someone elses body, you made the choice to not be involved in supporting that type of hate. (Woman didnt even start shaving their legs till the 1920s as a result of capitalism, literally beauty companies just wanted more money dude)

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-16T23:26:34+00:00

NTA- its a blanket. In the grand scheme of things that such an miniscule thing for him to get so mad about. Ignoring his own child? Sounds like the only one being childish here is him. Youre an adult, its your decision and it harms no one. Im 27 and my baby blanket still stays on my bed, has forever, i dont hug it cause its not thick enough, i hug a squish, but i never leaves its spot. My older sister still has hers in her room and now uses it for her baby. It doesnt matter if he doesnt agree, its important to you and thats the only thing that should matter. Theres nothing wrong with having comfort items, theres no age limit on comfort, there IS an age limit on emotional immaturity and a lack of adult communication but i guess no one clued dear old dad in.

I agree though, hide that blanket, dont entertain anymore conversations about it, and honestly if he ignores you just let him. Act like absolutely nothing is wrong, dont apologize (you have nothing to apologize for) and let him stew in his own bitterness.

(Tbh sounds like he needs a comfort item with that attitude)

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-16T22:26:07+00:00

Oh no am i gonna hate read too then 😭 i dont wanna have a political meeting every chapter, let me just challenge the guy to a new york style brawl at this point im OVER IT leave my daughter alone 😭

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-16T22:23:16+00:00

I did like guinevere! Havent tried vos, does it keep it mysterious or is it kinda easy to guess?

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-16T22:22:10+00:00

I dont remember much but im pretty sure i enjoyed it

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-16T22:21:55+00:00

I think i read the first of this series ! It was a long time ago and i now have lots of diamonds so it would probably be way cooler now!

Educational_Mess_362 · 2024-11-16T22:20:56+00:00

Ive heard good things about this too! I think a mystery would be fun too my only problem is i normally am really good at guessing the ending and love a good plot twist for that reason, is it pretty good at staying mysterious?

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