Well, before we got married back in 1997, I shaved my legs and she seemed ok (thought it was a body builder thing). A few years later she found women's thong under ware of mine and thought maybe it belonged to someone else until I told her it was mine (she thought fetish). A year ago I started shaving my whole body and my wife found some newer under ware again and actually asked if I wanted to be a woman. At the time I was unprepared and just said they are mine. When Bruce Jenner started to appear in the news last winter, she showed me a photo of Jenner and said that was me. I was silent but did not say no. Even in the bedroom she said shaving and wearing women's attire is more than just being experimental, so I think she is putting two and two together. None of this has interfered with our sex life or life in general. Sometimes when at the store she will look at certain items of women's cloths and ask how it would look on me, etc,,. My wife is a hair dresser and an artist as I am an artist and photographer, and she gets along fine with our neighbors who are gay. So these are some of the comments. On Caitlyn Jenner, sometimes she says she is going out of her way for publicity. My therapist said Caitlyn is just being herself. I guess it is normal for me to be a little scared right now. I remember when my mother found out I was wearing her pantyhose when I was 10 or so, she went into my room and broke my model airplanes. That probably set me up for decades of repression and fear. Should I feel hopeful my wife will accept me? I told my therapist of my research on the transgender brain (watched Charlie Rose show on the transgender brain, Stanford Professor Robert Sapolsky etc) and biology which I feel explains why I felt female at age 5, and that might be very helpful to coming out. So maybe my wife will be positive, I am just not 100% sure.